RedBook
EscortsPremier Adult Entertainment Community HOME | ADS | FORUM myredbok
Subject: "I want a girl to do this to me" Archived thread - Read only
    Previous Topic | Next Topic
printerPrinter Friendly view     picviewPic view    
Conferences > Northern California > Domination Station > Topic #5895
Reading Topic #5895

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 09-Jul-10, 11:55 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
"I want a girl to do this to me"
 
   I want a girl to beat me up and do things such as this to me, http://ludivinewin.voila.net/17.jpg.

I tried looking at ads, but no one answers their phone or then they ask for references and I never did this before and get turned down. Who here can help me out?

  Alert Top

 
Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic

rachelsonoma1 rachelsonoma1 rating
Member since 18-Jan-10
178 posts, 5 feedbacks, 10 points		 09-Jul-10, 12:47 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to rachelsonoma1 rachelsonoma1 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
1. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
   I am not a girl. I am a Woman. If you want a Woman, read on.

If you have never done this before, a responsible Domme will not "beat you up". Rather, she will initiate you into impact play, perhaps starting with a nice OTK (over the knee) spanking. The forced foot worship, yes, I would think any Domme would gladly do that. Check your inbox.

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 09-Jul-10, 12:59 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
2. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #1
 
   i can handle pain well.

  Alert Top

Ovenmitt Ovenmitt rating
Member since 1-Jul-04
152 posts, 1 feedbacks, 2 points		 09-Jul-10, 02:18 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Ovenmitt Ovenmitt profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
3. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #1
 
   >If you have never done this before, a responsible Domme will
>not "beat you up". Rather, she will initiate you into impact
>play, perhaps starting with a nice OTK (over the knee)
>spanking.

With all due respect, PLENTY of responsible doms will "beat you up". I think what you meant to say is that no responsible dom would do it in such a way as to cause long term harm. But plenty of doms will simulate a situation where a physically superior dom is kicking your ass in a streetfight and in all likelihood it will hurt less and leave fewer marks than a flogging.

And the dynamic between a physical ass kicking and an OTK spanking are very different.

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 09-Jul-10, 02:53 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
4. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #3
 
   >>If you have never done this before, a responsible Domme will
>>not "beat you up". Rather, she will initiate you into impact
>>play, perhaps starting with a nice OTK (over the knee)
>>spanking.
>
>With all due respect, PLENTY of responsible doms will "beat
>you up". I think what you meant to say is that no
>responsible dom would do it in such a way as to cause long
>term harm. But plenty of doms will simulate a situation
>where a physically superior dom is kicking your ass in a
>streetfight and in all likelihood it will hurt less and
>leave fewer marks than a flogging.
>
>And the dynamic between a physical ass kicking and an OTK
>spanking are very different.

yeah, who offers this without being so intent on references? how am i ever suppose to get started if everyone requires them. i dont understand why it is so difficult.

  Alert Top

Spend2much
Member since 6-Mar-06
476 posts		 09-Jul-10, 03:56 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Spend2much Spend2much profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
5. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #4
 
   My suggestion would be to call a place like Fantasymakers in the East Bay. They don't require references and they will cost you a little bit less money. I would call them and talk to Lorette, who runs the place and tell her what you're looking for. I'll bet she has someone who would me a good match for you. Good luck!

  Alert Top

MssTatiana MssTatiana rating
Member since 28-May-07
358 posts, 9 feedbacks, 18 points		 09-Jul-10, 04:04 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to MssTatiana MssTatiana profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
6. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #4
 
   You might want to call FantasyMakers. We won't ask you for references!
While we will very quickly 86 anyone who doesn't respect our limits, we will give you the benefit of the doubt and welcome you whether or not you have ever seen anyone else!

Houses are often much more welcoming to novices than are independents, as Houses have a somewhat different setup to maintain our safety and yours. (You're not alone in a hotel room or an empty dungeon somewhere with a lady who has to decide through references if she can trust you without any backup, but instead, you and the lady are alone in a room where if she knows that if she hollers a particular safeword, staff will come in through that door in moments to help her or help you.)

And yes, several of us have the skill to do intense rough body play of that nature-- I for one would LOVE that scene!

Mistress Tatiana Belodyne
of FantasyMakers

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 09-Jul-10, 05:45 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
8. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #6
 
   thanks but I don't wanna do it in a dungeon or whatever you guys call it. that's lame and cheesy.

  Alert Top

beaumont beaumont rating
Member since 29-Sep-03
3499 posts, 26 feedbacks, 45 points		 09-Jul-10, 08:10 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to beaumont beaumont profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
10. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #8
 
   >thanks but I don't wanna do it in a dungeon or whatever you
>guys call it. that's lame and cheesy.


Um...there's something lame and cheesy about this thread, all right, but it isn't dungeons or whatever us guys call it.

I would recommend you do two things:

1) Sign up for lessons on etiquette.
2) Contact ladies who are not dominatrices, but do wrestling sessions. A start might be at wb270.com. While there certainly are dominatrices who also wrestle, it sounds like you have neither the desire nor the social skills to arrange a session with one.

  Alert Top

sexylanalove
Member since 8-Jul-10
10 posts		 09-Jul-10, 04:05 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to sexylanalove sexylanalove profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
7. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
SEXY LANA can call me 510-302-5537

  Alert Top

her_atm her_atm rating
Member since 7-Mar-06
393 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points		 09-Jul-10, 07:12 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to her_atm her_atm profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
9. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #7
 
   Dude, virtually anything is possible to get done to you, but work on your approach. There are some providers intent on references & nothing will possibly sway them. But there are plenty of providers who are human beings just trying to run a safe & discreet biz - a personable conversationalist will many times go further than half a dozen references. A stalking oddball wont be able to get saved by a dozen references. not saying you come off like oddball (but I am saying that i come off perfectly personable to get my ass kicked in many heinous manners with ease)

  Alert Top

her_atm her_atm rating
Member since 7-Mar-06
393 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points		 09-Jul-10, 10:47 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to her_atm her_atm profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
11. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #9
 
   Too much time passed for me to edit my last post, but I was in far too generous of a mood a few hours ago....you do sound like an oddball, and a goof, and I dont even think with twice the donation you would be able to negotiate verbal abuse, let alone what you want. But did I mention that I have no trouble scoring it?

  Alert Top

Elfen Elfen rating
Member since 5-Dec-05
1966 posts, 28 feedbacks, 53 points		 10-Jul-10, 01:03 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to Elfen Elfen profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
12. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #11
 
Marry my ex-wife.

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 10-Jul-10, 05:51 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
13. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
   LAST EDITED ON 10-Jul-10 AT 05:55 AM (PST)
 
First of all, I think it is hilarious people feel like they can judge one's social skills and "etiquette" over the internet. Would I be as direct in real life? No. On the computer, however, I'm faceless, and I can speak how I want and not have to worry about it. And I like that.

I think doing it in dungeons is cheesy. I don't know. It reminds me of video games. And because I think it is cheesy, I am an "oddball" and I lack "etiquette."

I checked out WB270. All the girls in the Northern California section are ugly or look like males on steroids trying to look like women. Nothing good there.

I tell you what, though, I'd rather have someone be direct and up front with me than put on an act just to get what they want.

  Alert Top

her_atm her_atm rating
Member since 7-Mar-06
393 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points		 10-Jul-10, 09:49 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to her_atm her_atm profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
14. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #13
 
   You do have the ideal face to pull off that faceless look you are after. It's almost like it was meant to be. Embrace that shit.

  Alert Top

Spend2much
Member since 6-Mar-06
476 posts		 10-Jul-10, 11:09 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to Spend2much Spend2much profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
15. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #13
 
   >First of all, I think it is hilarious people feel like they
>can judge one's social skills and "etiquette" over the
>internet. Would I be as direct in real life? No. On the
>computer, however, I'm faceless, and I can speak how I want
>and not have to worry about it. And I like that.
>
>I think doing it in dungeons is cheesy. I don't know. It
>reminds me of video games. And because I think it is cheesy,
>I am an "oddball" and I lack "etiquette."
>
>I checked out WB270. All the girls in the Northern
>California section are ugly or look like males on steroids
>trying to look like women. Nothing good there.
>
>I tell you what, though, I'd rather have someone be direct
>and up front with me than put on an act just to get what
>they want.


Let me be direct then. Dungeons are where these women work, so if you don't want to be in one, you're probably out of luck. Get it? With your attitude however, it's comes off as rude. If this is not your intention, then choose your words more carefully. If it is just how you are, I'm sure you'll get a good ass kicking in life wether you pay for it or not.

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 10-Jul-10, 02:02 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
16. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #15
 
   LAST EDITED ON 10-Jul-10 AT 02:04 PM (PST)
 
Actually, outside of the internet, no one seems to hate me, lol. On the internet, one can't hear one's tone voice, see their facial expressions/body language, or anything, so trying to analyze a person over the internet is quite silly.

  Alert Top

her_atm her_atm rating
Member since 7-Mar-06
393 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points		 10-Jul-10, 02:18 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to her_atm her_atm profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
17. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #16
 
   yeah. your right. if i coulda seen your facial expressions & heard your voice, none of this probably would have been at all absurd or ricockulous.

  Alert Top

Lilith Lilith rating
Charter Member
1124 posts, 10 feedbacks, 18 points		 10-Jul-10, 02:56 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Lilith Lilith profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
18. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
You don't want to do it in a dungeon? Do you expect these ladies to make house calls? I don't think that is likely.

You might try Craigslist. But if you are looking for someone who knows what they are doing, then I'd pick Tatiana. And she works at FantasyMakers and I've never heard of her doing a housecall.

By the way, she's not a girl, she's a woman.

As for the other site that someone recommended, women who do a lot of wrestling sessions with men tend to be bigger and taller than the usual female size. They work out and bulk up somewhat. They enjoy getting physical. You can't expect them to be 5 feet tall and weigh 90 lbs. And it's very rude to call a woman ugly just because YOU don't care for the way she looks. Obviously, you're not the arbiter elegantum here or a lot of people wouldn't be in business anymore.

You do, unfortunately, come across as rude and churlish in this medium. If this is how you are coming across on the phone, you can't very well expect anyone to book a session with you. Paid or not, we're not going to put up with people who act like jerks. And if you come across as someone dangerous, well, I doubt that many women in this section need the money so much that they will take chances.

Lilith

"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 10-Jul-10, 05:12 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
19. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #18
 
   LAST EDITED ON 10-Jul-10 AT 05:13 PM (PST)
 
how does craigslist work? cause this dungeon stuff creeps me out.

  Alert Top

Spend2much
Member since 6-Mar-06
476 posts		 10-Jul-10, 05:35 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Spend2much Spend2much profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
20. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #19
 
   If you want your ass kicked so bad, go to a Dyke bar and kick over a few of their motorcycles parked in front. Then you'll have one, if not more women kicking the shit out of you. If you're so "Creeped out" by dungeons, then you're in the WRONG forum. Where's your common sense?

  Alert Top

paulzz paulzz rating
Member since 2-Jan-09
224 posts, 6 feedbacks, 12 points		 10-Jul-10, 08:40 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to paulzz paulzz profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
21. "no reason to be creeped out"
In response to message #19
 
   >how does craigslist work? cause this dungeon stuff creeps me
>out.

A "dungeon" is merely a space set up for domination. It is not really a dungeon, that's just the name that's used. It typically means a normal room with some special equipment in it.

Hope that helps.

I also agree with those who are suggesting a place like Fantasy Makers. Just google it and read about what it has to offer.

  Alert Top

jack_a
Member since 21-Oct-03
49 posts		 11-Jul-10, 12:40 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to jack_a jack_a profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
23. "RE: no reason to be creeped out"
In response to message #21
 
   A Dungeon is a place where a session might take place. Some of them are way more elaborate than others. It's one of the really really cool things about being in this scene. I really like dungeons or playspaces as some refer to that have stairs leading up and down to them. Nice candles in them, nice toys hanging from the walls, nice mirrors, crosses, suspension, rack and the goodies, rooms that are kind of secluded and you know the only things that happen in them are really cool sessions. Nothing cheesy about a nice Dungeon . For me they must be clean no matter what. Also thought I'd put this here anyone session with Misook in the south bay, if so can you inbox me and let me know how things went. Peace I'm out.

  Alert Top

Lilith Lilith rating
Charter Member
1124 posts, 10 feedbacks, 18 points		 11-Jul-10, 10:42 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Lilith Lilith profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
24. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #19
 
There is a section for personals. Encounters or something like that. (I'm sorry, but I don't use Craigslist to meet people. I just know it's possible.)Advertise what you want and see if anyone wants to do it to you. There are lots of women who would love to beat the fuck out of some guy who won't go to the police about it. If you want some foot fetish with it, it may be harder to find. Most of the women who are going to want to beat up a guy aren't going to be into doing anything he may enjoy. Then again, you never know. You might find just what you're looking for.

People are correct, however, that if you don't want to visit a dungeon and pay a lady to do this, then this is not the place to be looking for someone. The majority of ladies on this forum work out of places that are commonly referred to as "dungeons." They may look like a sexy bedroom with extra equipment, or they may look like a torture chamber, or they may even look like a wrestling room. (FantasyMakers has a room where the floor can be covered with wrestling mats that looks just like a regular room with a floor of wrestling mats.) Every space is different. Leia Feyheart has a very gorgeous looking space. FantasyMakers has several theme rooms. The one I'm putting together is planned to look like somewhere you could find in The Story of O. Some look industrial, some goth, some just very utilitarian.

Why a "dungeon" would creep you out is beyond me, but people have all kinds of ideas in their heads. You have to understand that most BDSM providers do only incall at a playspace (aka, dungeon) where they feel safe. With no references, most ladies are not likely to visit your home for this. I only made housecalls on clients I had known for a long time and trusted. Too many weirdos out there for me to risk my precious self. Most of the ladies I know feel the same way. Unfortunately, you're just going to have to deal with it. If you don't like the way we do business, you'll have to find an alternative.

Lilith

"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

  Alert Top

fivestarchick
Member since 13-Aug-09
89 posts		 11-Jul-10, 03:37 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to fivestarchick fivestarchick profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
22. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
I can handle that sweetie .

  Alert Top

bigpopsya
Member since 21-Jul-08
19 posts		 13-Jul-10, 10:03 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bigpopsya bigpopsya profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
25. "RE: I want a girl to do this to me"
In response to message #0
 
   I found someone and it went great.

  Alert Top

Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic
   reviews | join vip | metasearch | terms of use | privacy top | help | faq    ©2010 myRedBook S.A.