so how do you reconcile the post above with your post on the thread lookig for a certain provider that says:
A while back I was looking for the right Ms. to introduce me to the scene and all that. I was, naturally, worried about leaving any traces on the family computer when I was done browsing myredbook so I generally put pictures and notes to myself on a thumb drive then cleared cache and history etc. I did eventually choose but then we had a death in the family and it just all seemed like bad timing so I put if off till everything had blown over and settled down.
Well then I kind of chickened out for a while but the whole thing kept brewing inside me so I eventually came back. Unfortunately when I went to bust out the thumb drive it looked a little worse for wear, but it still seemed to work after windows rebuilt some damaged directory info or something. I say unfortunately because the rebuild renamed everything into "RECOVRED001" instead of the labeled folders I had and it's made it impossible to find the exact gal I had settled on before. In fact, I think maybe she had retired since I'm having NO luck finding her in any category.

In deference to the fact that she may have retired I'll only attach the non-revealing pictures I have from her old profile. If anyone knows her then please PM me a name/contact/website or whatever. I can send more if someone thinks they may know her just contact me.

Maybe I should just get over it and pick another, nice gal? This gal seemed perfect though, she seemed a bit laid back/fun/silly but also serious, just look at the pics to see what I mean.

(pics removed)

edit: Also, if this is against etiquette or anything please don't hesitate to let me know so I can take this down.

edit2: I'm taking the pics off just in case. If anyone can say if it's okay for me to post them I'll put them back up. If you want to help maybe I will send them directly for discrete inquiries.

Sorry, but I'm not buying it- soulds like a penthouse letter.

It may not be obvious but the post you quoted is in reference to an event a couple of years old at this point. I don't think she'd appreciate putting things to bed that long and have someone drag it out suddenly.

If you mean the family computer part? Yeah I we're NOT out with the grandparents and such and we are taking care of them in their old age. Grammy likes her facebook (boy does she like her facebook) so I make sure there isn't anything on there to frighten her when she goes to use it.

Almost all providers I came to know respect clients family and manipulating men and destroying marriage or create difficult situation for clients children are the very last thing they want.

I don't think private emotional life of provider is any different from anyone. Why should they be any different? I actually believe even when something private and romantic is going on, they respect and nurture clients marriage and family much more than a typical civilian woman who engages in affairs with a married man.

And you counsel "many married men who were unhappy with the wife", but "most of the time (you are) supportive of the wife"??? What a surprise- and what an utter lack of objectivity or neutrality.

"100 hours" of sex counseling- I sure hope you aren't charging for your "service"- because nothing about your post suggests you are even remotely qualified to do so.

You can have a bdsm relationship easily without that element. My husband actually encouraged me to collar a slave during our marriage and was collared himself as well he just wasn't a very good slave.

The Goddess Athena
www.sfsirens.com
415-221-8751

You should have said you do counciling, something like that, or hung up.

Unreal.

I have seen you twice in the last, oh, 20 years. If I had a wife and I thought if my wife called your number and asked what you did with, or to, my husband, or what you do in general, and you would come out and say you were a mistress and you beat guys for fun and profit, I would NEVER have seen you. I would hope you would say nothing,or have a lie for just such an occasion, and then hang up.

What the fuck? UNREAL. PROTECT YOUR CLIENT!!!

This is why, and I have posted my opinion on it a few times, these BS questionares that want to know where you work, your phone numbers, etc, before a gal will see you are a complete joke, and the married guys that actually fill them out are retarded.

OF ALL THINGS, PROTECT YOUR CLIENT. Or is it some sort of sick thing you get off on, "being honest" at the expense of your client?

Yeah, you probably have been the cause of a few divorces. Congratulations.

I'm all for protecting the client.

Lilith
"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

Don't blame the lady for telling the truth if she had no a priori agreement as to what to do in that situation.

Stay classy Sacramento.

You're joking, right? Because you cannot possibly be serious.

Lilith

"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

Hope other hearts are watching.

I just don't think it's respectful to either me or his wife to do stuff like that. I dont' think any provider wants to be in the middle of someone else's marriage in ANY way.

"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

I can't discuss whether anyone has ever called me asking about her husband... but if a Lady did, I would lie, in no uncertain terms.

I require the utmost in discretion from my clients in private, in public, and via telephone and email, so why shouldn't I apply the same standard for them? I should, and I do. Lying doesn't make one feel very good about oneself, but neither does causing someone else's avalanche to happen.

Gentlemen, it may be a good idea to review with your professional exactly what she would do in such a situation, so you'll have an idea of what to expect should something come up.

MG

There are several threads in PinkBook on how to handle calls like this if anyone needs more suggestions.

NOW: how do you think I re-acted to getting nothing...yes, I said nothing.

Fucking his world up! You don't promise shit to a person and do nothing. I figure I might end up in his current divorce mediation..and I am so cool with that!