LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 09:14 AM (PST)
There's something very erotic about being in the prescence of another Domina.
The BDSM section is noteably smaller than the "vanilla world", but that is to be expected.
People consider our lifestyle to be "alternative" or "taboo" and a number of other things that I consider to be negative connotations. But like I say, don't knock it till you try it.I'd joke around and call myself a trysexual. You've got to try everything once, right?
Well, the first time I put on a strap-on and entered my first arse I got hooked. I LOVE what I do. And everytime I get to do something I've never done before I get this special rush.
So the first time I was in close contact with another Dominatrix, I got a rush. This was at SF Pride, and this tall caucasion girl made this remark as Lady Lavish, Miss Kitty, and I walked past.
"You need a spanking!"
It was laughable! We were the only trio in downtown SF with whips and a paddle, fulfilling public humiliation fantasies free of charge because of our holiday. The nerve of this chick!
I was a bit taken off guard, and I laughed. "No, I'll give YOU a spanking!" We made eye contact as we walked past her (and her friend who was silent) and she had the cockiest smirk on her face.
Oh, I just love it!
As a long term Mistress, I seldom get met with opposition. And when I do, it's to provoke a beating which annoys me but definately gets the most severe effect. (Getting on my bad side is dangerous!)
So when this girl challenged me, I was aroused! As crazy as it sounds, I got horny. And believe me, it wasn't from looking at her! She wasn't ugly per se, she just wasn't my type. And I am very particular about the women I'm attracted to. There was something about this girl thinking that she could dominate me that turned me on. To see another female be so confident, and even outright defiant of my status was kind of fun. In retrospect I think I should of gotten her number. I can only imagine how dominate she would try to be behind closed doors! It's interesting when two strong personalities unite. They collide. That's why you are either a Domme or a Sub. You can be a switch, but one will always overcome the other.
The second time was more recent. This month actually at The Looking Glass. Lady Lavish and I took Charlie Glickman's course on Prostate Play August 8th (also in the forum). Being in a room full of other enthusiasts made us feel at home. It was comfortable being in the prescence of others who live a similar lifestyle. But back to my point about other Dommes.
Meeting Mistress Jezebel was fulfilling in itself. I thought she was incredibly sexy. Her eyes are this piercing ice blue and you can tell she is serious about her craft. Everything from her attire to her aura exuded dominance. There were a few couples in attendance and a few other Dommes that I could point out. But instead of feeling like I was in competition with these ladies like it is here on RB, I felt drawn to them. And before we got back in the car, my panties were wet. Lavish has been the only one thus far with a sexual appetite that can even compare to mine. It's so much easier being with another nympho!
There aren't many things I haven't done, but I've yet to have another Domme in bed. So there's MY fantasy in a nut shell. I want to have a threesome with another sexy ass Domina.
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