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paulzz paulzz rating
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241 posts, 8 feedbacks, 16 points		 03-Sep-10, 08:47 PM (PST)
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"Where have the Hearts gone?"
 
   If you look at the topic list recently, it's all clients. A few months ago it was almost equal. And you can look back into the archive to confirm that there is a pattern of less involvement on the part of the Dommes.

How do people interpret this?

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jimmy_gilmour
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84 posts		 03-Sep-10, 10:10 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #0
 
   If I remember correctly it was only a few months ago that someone mentioned the frequency of posts made by the "hearts" on the domination station compared to the other forums. I looked back on the last few months of posts by the Women and found that many of them were ads {which are discouraged} or some sort of event web site which would have
made the "heart" a sum of money. What I had hoped was an interest in the
communication skills of the subs in the group was possibly just an interest in money. This is a forum that is based on "pros" yet i would like to see a bit more about the emotions and relationships of Dommes and their admirers

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paulzz paulzz rating
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2. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #0
 
   LAST EDITED ON 04-Sep-10 AT 08:33 AM (PST)
 
Thanks for your thoughts Jimmy

I was exaggerating when I say it's all clients. I meant to say, there has been a pattern of diminishing participation by Dommes.

I also want to acknowledge this is not a new topic. Some theories have included the influx of ads, reaction to some of the posters, etc.

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oralio oralio rating
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3. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #0
 
When much of the self-promotion disappeared, the hearts went with it.

This is common is many if not most forums on RB. The women are mostly here to promote their businesses, even if their thread doesn't mention business.

Be the change
you wish to see

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CamilleMilan
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41 posts		 04-Sep-10, 12:06 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #3
 
   I am a (somewhat) new participant, but a long time lurker and I too have noticed the decline. Perhaps this is due to the condescending nature of a few of the contributors.
I have seen a few women be chastised for their photos and for committing simple grammatical errors.
Perhaps if all members did their part to make the ladies of the Domination Station feel welcome, they would stick around.

Just my two cents.

Enjoy the weekend everyone! I'm off to play.

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oralio oralio rating
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7. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #4
 
No argument here.

Be the change
you wish to see

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TaraSterling TaraSterling rating
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946 posts, 27 feedbacks, 51 points		 04-Sep-10, 01:49 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
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   Having read the forum on and off for a few years, I've seen a pattern occur- new Ladies join and are excited about posting so they participate for a while, then once they read enough obnoxious/rude/misogynist posts they get burned out and focus on other more positive forums for meeting potential subs/slaves/play partners/whatever. Then new Ladies start posting, and so forth.

Also a lot of people are out of town over the Summer.

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Lilith Lilith rating
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6. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #5
 
I haven't been participating lately because none of the current topics interest me.

Maybe if postings on more fun topics happen...

"...and you know that she's half crazy..."

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HottestLatinaLover HottestLatinaLover rating
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9. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #6
 
Yes, same thing here.

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jimmy_gilmour
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84 posts		 06-Sep-10, 07:28 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #5
 
   You have some good points..yet I believe that what You see as misogynist posts are a back lash of what seem to be misandrist posts by some of the Dommes. post that include things like "I want to piss on some twerps head" should be no more tolerated here that someone shouting out in a singles bar "any of You bitches wanna fuck?" this is a forum not a free for all

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HottestLatinaLover HottestLatinaLover rating
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2583 posts, 70 feedbacks, 126 points		 06-Sep-10, 08:14 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
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I am interested in seeing whats going on with other people. What types of new things they have tried lately. How things worked out for them. I use this forum to educate myself and expand my "play book" lately I have not seen anything of value.

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paulzz paulzz rating
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241 posts, 8 feedbacks, 16 points		 06-Sep-10, 08:51 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #8
 
   LAST EDITED ON 06-Sep-10 AT 09:10 PM (PST)
 
> posts by some of the Dommes include
>things like "I want to piss on some twerps head"

Jimmy, remember this is Domination Station.

The sort of language you are concerned about is actually what many clients want the Mistresses to say to them (and indeed do to them).


>I am interested in seeing whats going on with other people.
>What types of new things they have tried lately. How things
>worked out for them. I use this forum to educate myself and
>expand my "play book" lately I have not seen anything of
>value.

HottestLatinaLover, what do you think of the recent threads on "new services" involving "cock sucking classes with two male assistants"? While it would not be my own thing, it certainly is a bit different and kinky. I'd say that might fit the bill of "new things" that might be of some interest to some clients and Dommes.

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jimmy_gilmour
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12. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #11
 
   Yes Paul I understand..this "is" Domination station and indeed it is true that getting peed on is what some people want..but when a Female Domme says that She wants to pee on someone...wouldn't it be fair for someone else to deride Her without being thought a misogynist? Some Women enjoy that type of thing..

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paulzz paulzz rating
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13. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #12
 
   LAST EDITED ON 06-Sep-10 AT 10:07 PM (PST)
 
Your position is completely reasonable. Except that I doubt that there are many women looking for domination on this site.

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14. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #13
 
   I love reading, it's just hard to type -with my hands tied!


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jimmy_gilmour
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17. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #14
 
   Well just think..if You had some blindfolds on You couldn't read either

no reading no typing..nothing to do but sit there and.. be Yummy

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LillyPearl
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15. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
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I can only speak up for Myself.... and I'll tell you honestly that I'm somewhat new to this site. I've only ever been an observer here before, but recently I tried posting to a few threads - only to no avail. I think I may have made a mistake in responding to a thread about Myself and the group of Dommes I currently work with. I was just trying to be helpful as I was simply clearing up some questions. But not only was My post deleted within minutes, but My profile was then disabled! It seems as though someone wanted to shut Me up fassst. So now I am hesitant to do anything but read here. I get the feeling that's the way "they" want it.

Mistress Lilly

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16. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
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   Hot pic!!!

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SinfulSuzzi SinfulSuzzi rating
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18. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #0
 
   I still visit sometimes, but it's pretty much the same thing over and over. That's for me personally, but some members can act pretty obnoxious to just about any female that comes in and says anything. You wanted a sausage party. You got it.

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19. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #18
 
another limiting factor is the judgmental neocons who feel that any deviation from mainstream perversions is evil.

It's great to read your comments, Suzzi...you're the original reason I came to RB.

I hope you're happy in your life. And anytime you'd like to play, just contact any of your fans...including me.

-Ashe

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20. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #19
 
   Thats sweet. I am very happy right now. I am in love and got everything I was looking for. Thank you.

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21. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #0
 
   Hmm. I agree with both Tara and Lilith.

Also, I think it's possible, and perhaps even desirable, to find a happy medium between a culture of lapdoggery and one of attacking every provider who doesn't do what you enjoy or draws her lines in different places.

Mistress Tatiana Belodyne
of FantasyMakers

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22. "RE: Where have the Hearts gone?"
In response to message #21
 
Hey Tatiana

What an elegant way to put it. Nice

Leia
I am the Mistress of my Soul

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