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MysticXxX
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21-May-12, 12:46 PM (PST)
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"What do you look for in a DOM provider?"
 
   Hey guys, new to rb, well seasoned in this field.. Just wondering what it takes to be considered a top notch Dom.

A bit about my expierence.. I can usually be found in 4 and 5 star hotel bars, mon through thursday meeting and making friends.. Lately there has been an increase in request for domination. This particular art form seems to come natural to me although I have very little training. A friend at PE has been giving me a few pointers, but he is not a client. Since I'm considering posting here on rb, I'd like to get a since of what your needs are. If I can get a since of your needs I'll end this thread with a few pics, and create my ad.

Thank you kindly!
MysicXxX

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sm_player
Member since 24-May-09
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23-May-12, 12:41 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: What do you look for in a DOM provider?"
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   From my post "Frustrated and Broke":

When I say Dominant, I'm looking for someone in complete control, who knows what they want, who knows what they want to do, who's comfortable doing so, and most importantly who enjoys being in control and knows it's their natural place to be. A Dominant should control the timing and activities of the entire encounter - not by ignoring the bottom, but by giving the directions, deciding what to do when, how to start, and how to end. Ideally this would be someone who's excited by their dark places, who relishes the permission to tap into their mean streak, and who finds this kind of play powerful and edgy. Someone who knows how to negotiate a BDSM scene and agree upon safewords so they can have the framework to allow them to trust their submissive. Confidence and competence are amazingly sexy.

I also have a particular preferred type - I prefer larger women. Besides always having had a preference for BBW, even for vanilla sex, being sat on by a big ass turns me on.

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ubisububi
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28-May-12, 11:45 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: What do you look for in a DOM provider?"
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   Strong, confident verbal skills really do it for me. I like the language profane, degrading, humiliating, and continuous, in combination with physical man-handling (hair pulling, slapping, stomping) and corporal. I haven't had much luck finding a domme that can do all of those things simultaneously, though admittedly I only have a modicum of experience compared to some on this board.

I like women of various shapes and sizes as long as they are healthy.

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28-May-12, 07:30 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: What do you look for in a DOM provider?"
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Well..honesty..I can see why You are frustrated. What You are looking for is perfection..and You won't find it anywhere..not in a vanilla relationship..not in bdsm not in this hobby or in any other hobby. Save Your money and take a little time to look for the experience that You think will make You happy..in time You will find a little bit about who You are.

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