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pohaku
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25-Aug-06, 11:27 AM (PST)
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"Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 25-Aug-06 AT 11:30 AM (PST)
 
I just realized all the women I enjoy meeting are all frequent
posters. Also good posts by a lady often inspire me to see
them even before checking out their photo. But I know...
thats me.

How do their posts effect your decision about seeing certain
someone. Do ladies search the prospective clients posts as the part of screening process?

I know there are some provider who are weary of seeing
frequent posters on the basis of discretion.

I also have seen contemptuous and demeaning opinions of some men who believe providers should not discuss politics etc.

What are your thought?

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Consultant
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25-Aug-06, 11:40 AM (PST)
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1. "Just a guy's opinion"
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   Whether the girl posts or not had no influence in my decision to see her.

It's her:
1. reviews, ratings
2. demeanor in email/phone conversations
3. price range (I have my comfort zone, like every hobbyists? I stayed away from volume/low-price girls, dont' feel comfortable seeing very high price girls. --e.g. Amy Taylor, etc. lol )

Hey, Big Head, Get Out Of Jr.'s Way.

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Gretchen
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25-Aug-06, 12:13 PM (PST)
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2. "providers should not discuss politics"
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The notion is making me smile. oh wait! Here comes a laugh. Thank you for my first laugh of the day.

Beliefs about what women should or should not talk about are not going to have much of an effect on what we're actually doing. Not anymore.

The man who doesn't want to hear what women think is just going to be left out of the conversation when women are present. *shrugs* that's fine with me.

Anyway, to answer the question, po: speaking for myself, I do not search RB handles before making an appointment, because I do not make appointments through RB inbox. Telephone only. I need to hear his voice.

Once in awhile a client tells me his RB handle, so I can look him up to get to know him better. I like that. I like it alot if I find out that we have clicked before we met. It's exciting and fun.

Gretchen

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ShannonsBack
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28-Aug-06, 01:18 PM (PST)
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13. "RE: providers should not discuss politics"
In response to message #2
 
>Anyway, to answer the question, po: speaking for myself, I
>do not search RB handles before making an appointment,
>because I do not make appointments through RB inbox.
>Telephone only. I need to hear his voice.


Gretchen,
I am the same way when it comes to appointments. I will answer general questions, etc by inbox. When it comes to setting up the time/day though, it must be by phone. I think you and I insist on this for the exact same reason too.

Have a great week everyone!

Shannon

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Falstaff
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25-Aug-06, 12:54 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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   Long ago some providers realized that posting a lot was akin to free advertising. Or so it would seem. However there is a price. Any provider who posts a lot generates attention to herself and will almost always start getting slammed by some of the lesser elements on this board. Just look at the UG. They rarely post about providers who aren't, or weren't at one time, active on this board. Also some providers would be better served to never post as they (how can I say this nicely) don't help their cause with what they write.

This is a long-winded way of saying that of course providers who post will have it impact their business. For good and for bad.

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jim_smith2006
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25-Aug-06, 01:50 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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Now cutiepieltt comes to mind. What a writer of ebonic.

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deChat
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25-Aug-06, 04:41 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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I have seen a few women based in part on what they've posted... but only one based only on her words and reviews on RB (i.e. no pics at all). The good thing is that both parties can be a little more relaxed around each other from the outset, we each have a sense of what the other person is about. The bad thing is that if there's no chemistry or if either person has unrealistic expectations about the other, it can be a little awkward. (Doesn't mean that we didn't do it, lol.)

There are women who I'm interested in meeting based on things they've posted, or because of what they've projected about their personality, attitudes about life and/or sex, general cleverness, or whatever. But based on past experience, I won't waste my time (or hers) to try to meet her privately unless I felt some physical attraction (or chemistry if we happened to meet in a public setting).

Bottom line: it's a factor for me, but not a dominating one. I have a weakness for short, attractive, busty, hot blondes... regardless of whether their posts intrigue me or not!


deChat

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cilantro
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25-Aug-06, 07:40 PM (PST)
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6. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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Sure. Being smart is sexy. Many RB whores have shown themselves, through there postings, to be extremely smart and witty.

Of course good looks (what ever that means to YOU) and reviews that consistently report good service are an absolute requirement.


One of the reasons I don't like to go to AMPs is that I wonder if I'm supporting abusive human trafficking (sp?).

I'd also rather not see a whore that is a drug addict. The ability to write cogently and present, over a period of time, an image that they are somewhat together suggests a person that is more together than your typical crack or meth addict.

I'm sure there are many whores who have their shit together but don't post on RB. Of the ones that do post frequently, it is easy enough to separate the scary loonies from the sane folk.

C.

Were you not still my hunger's rarest food...

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Eliza_darling
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27-Aug-06, 07:23 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
In response to message #6
 
"The ability to write cogently and present, over a period of time, an image that they are somewhat together suggests a person that is more together than your typical crack or meth addict."

Generally speaking, yes. However, you may run the risk that the b*tch can't keep her mouth shut in session. (Yes, I am poking fun at myself.)

Posting is free advertising, of course. It's also a way to process some of the ups and downs that come with providing/hobbying. And for the more verbose amongst us, it amounts to a captive audience. What fun!

As for how much business it generated for me....quite a bit. I never posted with an overt intention of gathering clients, but I'd occassionally provoke a sense of shared experience with someone I had never met. He'd then take a chance and book with me -- more than a few times this resulted in a very nice, regular professional relationship.

The only downside was that there'd be total strangers who would quote back what I had written while in session. After a while I got used to it, but the first few times were a bit weird.

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oralio
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27-Aug-06, 00:24 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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   I know that a few providers screen out potential clients whose posts they dislike.

I can't speak for the men here.

That said, I believe most clients and providers don't make their session choices based on forum posts, partially because most users on RB aren't active posters, and hopefully, because most people here are adult enough to know that posting doesn't have much relationship to interpersonal relations in sessions.

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bobnbs
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8. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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i've never been asked by a provider what my RB name is

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KylieJordan
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27-Aug-06, 10:24 AM (PST)
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9. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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I post often and am very outspoken and yeah, it’s helped my business. Sure, every once in a while I end up in the UG but to be honest half the crap that's said about me there is just me having fun...lol. Yup it’s true I post in the UG about myself, my rates and my ass, I think it's funny.

I don't worry much about the downside because the people who post negative things about me are not my clients and probably never will be and I feel like most of what they say is their own personal opinions not any kind of solid fact. They say "She's fat" or "Her rates are too high" but no one ever talks about my 6 retarded kids or my paralyzed pimp anymore. See if they talked about my husband and how he makes me blow is cat than I could see getting upset but everyone is entitled to an opinion.

On my reservation form I have an area for guys to give me their handles but I have never looked anyone up. From time to time a client changes e-mails or numbers and I use it as an emergency contact. I'll just inbox them that I don’t have current info.

It's fuuny because somtimes I'll get inboxes from clients and I have no idea who they are!


Kylie
Yeah,I know...but I can't help it.

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Durruti
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27-Aug-06, 08:14 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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   I'm with you, Pohaku. I have made appointments with providers based almost solely on their posts. Faye comes to mind.

The guys that can't hang with women posting are a lost cause imo.

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Bdogg
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12. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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   Truth is if you post anything leaning towards a preference for the old days before providers were posting, one of the PC boot-licking moderators will delete it faster than you can say "perpetrate".

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rainsingin
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28-Aug-06, 04:37 PM (PST)
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14. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
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   LAST EDITED ON 28-Aug-06 AT 04:40 PM (PST)
 
...I will admit to being drawn to certain providers based on their posts. I am very attracted to strong, intelligent, women. If a provider displays her intelligence and pro sex worker opinion via posts, I am more likely to feel assured that she is willingly participating in this career choice. That is the ideal for me: an intelligent (and I'm not necessarily limiting myself to "educated" when I use the term "intelligent"), strong, witty (a sense of humor is very attractive), sexy woman who has chosen to become a GFE provider because they have an above average libido.

I also enjoy learning about providers via an email relationship but this is very rare as, understandably, they simply don't have the time.

Of course, I have also decided to avoid certain providers based on their posts...especially if they tend to project hostility. If someone's posts illicit pity from me, that is a bad sign. It sounds a bit silly to write it explicitly, but "pity isn't sexy". I also try to avoid drama and those who appear to be jaded. Now that I think about, I wish more providers would post more often! Maybe an essay option in the classified section!?!

...until we recognize,
a grandeur in the beatings of the heart...


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Gretchen
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28-Aug-06, 04:58 PM (PST)
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15. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
In response to message #14
 
I like a man who quotes William Wordsworth.
G

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rainsingin
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29-Aug-06, 03:31 PM (PST)
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17. "what's our opinion of plagiarism in posts?"
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   ...one of my atf's:

Wisdom and spirit of the Universe!
Thou soul is the eternity of thought!
That giv'st to forms and images a breath
And everlasting motion! Not in vain
By day or star-light thus from by first dawn
Of childhood didst thou intertwine for me
The passions that build up our human soul,
Not with the mean and vulgar works of man,
But with high objects, with enduring things,
With life and nature, purifying thus
The elements of feeling and of thought,
And sanctifying, by such discipline
Both pain and fear, until we recognize
A grandeur in the beatings of the heart.

-William Wordsworth

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datys_lil_princess
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28-Aug-06, 05:42 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: Poster vs Non Poster: Question for Both Genders"
In response to message #0
 
"How do their posts effect your decision about seeing certain
someone."

To me, it is just one part to their personality, and I have read some posts of certain people only to meet them later and feel it just didn't make any difference, and in some cases they (to me) where TOTALLY different people...you can't judge a book by it's cover the majority of the time, and I don't try too hard. Opinions like most people change with time!

"Do ladies search the prospective clients posts as the part of screening process?"

Sure, why not - I assume a lot of gents do the same thing. Curiosity...ya know!


JMTC

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LasVegasProvider1
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29-Aug-06, 11:48 PM (PST)
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18. "When I was based in Reno.."
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   I had a discount for RB members. To get the discount they had to give me their "handle"(most gave it without me having to ask). Funny thing was that some of the guys trying to book me would have posts abot really mean spirted things about "fat girls" yet still wanted to see me LOL!I never would book with them. There are many "closet chubby chasers" here. Never could understand that.I get my kicks above the waistline sunshine Devin LasVegasProvider

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