So my question to you guys: If it were you, how would you want your first time to be? How did you want your first time to be, what were your fantasies?

E

Good things happen to those who hustle. -A. Nin

If nice guys finish last I guess I'm bringing up the rear.

dong

1. Is it deflowering if you use a condom ?

2. assuming you use a condom... then afterwards, quickly slip it off and pretend like it was not on during the process...

Call him a week later and tell him your preggers... He'll never forgot you ! LMAO

I'd say that if you allot at least an hour for the tryst that would make things much less time pressured. A drink or two, plus some small talk at the beginning, couldn't hurt. If you're capable of stripping in an erotic manner, then that's always a fun experience for the recipient. After you're naked, get him naked too, then give him a nice massage followed by some genitally focused hand and lip action. Assuming that you aren't planning on doing him bareback, once you get to the CFS part, don't let him finish too soon - or if you do, encourage him to go for another pop.

And remember, there's nothing like having some beautiful, naked young vixen on hers knees before you and swallowing your entire manhood bareback while looking up at you the entire time...gauran- fuckin' - teed to make his first experience a memorable one!

Oh yea, let him take some pics too, so that as memory fails he'll always be able go back and relive that experience.

Give him a little female anatomy lesson on the pleasurable spots in your vulva, inside and out. Guide his efforts at pleasing you gently. Explain that you are more open and comfortable with sexuality than will be most young women he meets, but that ease and comfortableness comes from self knowledge. It's something worth inculcating for an enjoyable sex life.

Reject any sense of shame he may be bringing to the session. It is death to a satisfactory sex life. Cause him to see and respect you as a person.

Anything you do to his dick he will always remember in vivid detail. Count on it. If you can pull off your very best performance. If you can have him look into your eyes when he cums. Being in that moment when it happens is an awesome experience. If you can both be there, wow!

Try and have it be fun, it is. Remember to breath.

Some guys want to learn how to be a good lover. Some guys just want to get it over and know what the big deal is. Some guys want to feel like a stud that pounded the crap out the girl like in a porno. Some guys want candles, romance and an emotional connection. Whatever he's looking for, he will most likely remember this for a very long time, if not forever. All you can do is find out what he's looking for, and if that's fine with you, try your best to cater to his desires and create a memorable experience.

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Hope burns bright!

I really like the idea of helping him relax and letting him explore, acting as a guide.

E

Good things happen to those who hustle. -A. Nin

"Wow, it's really warm in there..."

EB, do the poor lad a favor (and your friend as well) and make sure that you are really, really, really that chaps ideal type. If you are you can just go with the flow and he'll be alright. If not, he'll turn gay... ...well, probably not. But you get the idea.