close your eyes and pretend I'm a girl.

Most of the time a good sex worker is going to treat you well if you treat us well. In a client and provider relationship there has to be boundaries. Just because you are paying for us does not give you the right to not be gentlemen and not have any shame. A happy sex worker is a fun sex worker.

To have a good provider and client relationship we both must respect each other. We all hear what you guys do not like either. It should be easier for you to communicate being the consumer. We can not complain to you guys straight out because we do not want to sound like a nag. I am sure you as a client do not want your sex worker dread seeing you. You want her happy to see you. It makes her do a better job.

OXOXOXO

Angel

OXOXOXO

Angel

Before the "something" I wanted to say, let me say first that I do completely see your point and understand your frustration given the fact that you have been treated that way. I think it is not unlike the way people feel when they are successful financially, (regardless of if it is a Trust or from their own endeavors) and have friends or an SO that is not on the same level financially. I know that when in that situation, I feel I could never know if people care about me or if it is just about what they can get from me financially. I ended up doing what is a behavior I really dislike, which is associating only with those on the same financial level as myself. That way, it is far more likely that we are doing nice things for each other from the heart and no other motive. This is why I always say that people only need X amount of money to be happy, beyond that it breeds discontent. It goes that way for many attractive women as well when it comes to what people can get from you sexually or in the department of attention from being with you.

That being said, the type of people that would be better for you to see, though few and far between, have a different perspective. One of those I see said it nicely once when I declined what I thought was excessive for his "gift" when we went on an extremely wonderful trip.

"It is a symbiotic relationship. We both take care of each other, and we have different roles in accomplishing that. It is not up to me to decide if what you are giving me is too generous, and it is not up to you to decide that for my job to you! Who are you to tell me what I can give you, you brat!"

I realize that what you are talking about was far from them being too generous, rather referring to viewing the concept of how some of us view the "client/provider" relationship. I don't even think of those titles, as they seem so inaccurate most times.

Anyway, it is happy on the flipside! I swear, it can happen.

The reason I say this in response to your comment was that other then on the board, I have never heard anyone have that opinion when speaking about providers. This is because the people the see do not treat them or think of them that way at ALL; I know I don't. The same goes the other way around. I don't have any complaints whatsoever about those I see treating me with anything other then exceptional love and respect. No, I am not mistakenly choosing my words; almost all I see are on a consistent basis and there is love for those whom I choose to have in my life and vise versa.

Anyway, there are exceptions to the rule in everything, including this. I sometimes hate always being the exception to the rule in life, as it is an annoying and inconvenient often times, plus hardly anyone relates when you are that way. In this case, I am oh so grateful to be (the exception), and for those I see being so as well.

So try finding better matches that neither side has the complaints listed here. It's fairly easy to do. Truly!

hmmm but I thought you had the choice who you are going to meet.
If you felt you were treated like that too often why do you continue to hobby?

Isn't it YOUR responsibility to chose the right woman?

I will tell you what I experienced just as comparison.

I have been hobbying from 2003 which is rather short time in RB standard. But during that time, I never had bad experience like what you describe above. I never met ROB, clock watcher, or disconnected woman. I felt all women I met put in a lot of effort to enhance what I wanted and that is beside them doing hairs and perfect makeup wear sexy lingerie etc. They were all very generous about their time and we often corresponded via email to plan and create the session I requested.

There were even instances when some women made it easier for me to meet them. Over all I honestly believe that I was given more than what I gave in material and in non material forms. When I had very difficult time in my life, many offered to be available to me emotionally.

All I did from my side was simply respect each woman as my fellow human being and not pass judgement or assume things about them only based on their occupation.