>I like your reaching out for feedback and suggestions in a
>respectful manner. It gives a good impression.
>
>So I took a quick "scan" look at your ad. Two things popped
>out. Again I scanned so may have missed something.
>
>First, your weight and height do not match your pictures.
>Pictures are of a slim and very fit lady, but stats
>mentioned would make you a bit larger, not much, but
>noticeably so, and fit but not as slim. But discrepanies
>slow people down from taking action.
>
>Second, $280 as an entry point is high and no half hour
>listed. So my assumption would be that seeing you would
>involve a larger financial layout. Might discourage some
>types, but if that is deliberate then that works fine.
>
>Anyway hope that helps. Best of luck in these tough times!! Massageman, Dong, thank you for your comments I will take them into consideration. Your responses were thoughtfully written and answered my questions.
Nicefun, I appreciate you taking the time to respond, but you didn't answer the questions I presented. I didn't ask if I should do 1/2 hours or lower my rates, or if my description matches my photos.
My description is accurate for a slim, fit female...those measurements are for a 5'2" woman who is a size zero. 32b-24-34, at 110lbs, is not big at all. That is the fit model for a size 0, the smallest size they carry.
In regard to my rate, I have been on RB almost a year, have almost 2 years experience as a provider and have good reviews. Just because you did not know I was here, doesn't make me new. I try to keep my volume low, so I make sure that my rates never go below a certain point. If I ever have to choose between higher rate/too few clients or lower rates/tons of clients, I'll get a job. Any job is better than feeling like you are not getting paid what you are worth for work that is as intimate as this.
I don't offer 1/2 hour rates because they make me feel like a sex toy. No offense to the men who would like 1/2 hour rates for whatever reason and the women who offer them, but I should hope that my sessions are more than a series of acts, to be performed with some sorta of time limit. I have done 1/2 hour rates, they didn't make me feel good. If you can't tell that I am worth an hour from my reviews, my ad, and speaking to me on the phone; or don't have time to spend I can't help you. I don't want to be treated the same way that I treat my dildos. It is impossible to make a connection with a person on the first appointment in a 1/2 hour, and an hour is barely enough, which is why I have always set up my rates to encourage multi-hour appointments.
When you guys are booking 1/2's and quickies, please take into consideration how the lady must feel. Having someone come in, that you don't know and barely get a few minutes conversation before sticking things in holes, does not feel good...at least for me...and I have a feeling for other ladies too.
If you want to schedule a 1/2 hour to see if we click, we could do that over coffee or cocktails, I know some good places.
Sorry, to digress. I felt strongly about your comments. I don't want to start a debate in this thread. I would appreciate it if everyone who responds please answer my questions and add any other comments that might seem relevant and appropriate, use the first two posters as an example.
Thanks,
Naomi