what do you mean slightly rude. you sounds like you have problems. perhaps you think

My point was simply that the question, as presented, seemed a very odd one all told. I love my work, and really enjoy most sessions, but have difficulty imagining having much enjoyment from someone who was both inexperienced and unconcerned about my pleasure, as it seemed Rusty was stating. I actually -do- enjoy first timers.

So, again, sorry if I offended anyone.

Love as thou will.

Gwenyth

Love as thou will.

Gwenyth

I'd love to dig into this.... Your perception of your pleasure verses other people's perception of their pleasure. When I was working, I focused completely on the other person and their pleasure, I never pursued my pleasure and had very little faith my companions would have the slightest clue where to begin to help facilitate that end. If I had been in it for my pleasure... I wouldn't have charged in the first place. It's all about service.
There were a few, a very few who provided me with pleasure. I could count them on two fingers. The main person... yes, you know who you are. If you have to ask, you're not him.

Love,

Cindy

Deanna

Is this a fact or your opinion? Do you have experience other than what you've told us thus far?
I believe from my experience as a provider, seeing many, many clients in a day, it would be unrealistic to expect the provider to fully enjoy each experience. I like the quote from Venezuela in another recent thread, "Personality = Technique"
I can't read her mind but I think she was basically saying that if you focus on your client in a genuine way, they have a great time and give nice reviews etc. This is a service industry, not a boyfriend girlfriend thing in any real sense. Sometimes, I let my work blend into my real life but those times were very rare.

My opinion may differ from that of other readers, this is in no way meant to ruffle feathers,

Love,

Cindy

Of course it's about serving. I do get a kick out of that too. But I also take real, honest, sexual pleasure out of the majority of the sessions I do. And some are phenomenal. It's one of the reasons I don't see 'many, many clients a day'. I see maybe 4 a week.

I charge because it's a nice supplement to my other job, and even more because...well, being paid for my looks, my touch and my service is a kink for me. It turns me on that someone would want to, and even more that they come back again and again.

This doesn't make my service more, nor less then yours(the consummate professional, who I have heard great things of). Just a bit of a different vibe.

And yes, I do realize that it's his dime, and his pleasure is paramount. No issue here at all. I put a certain emphasis on the question of whether a session in question would be really enjoyable. And, in the case of someone unconcerned with my pleasure, the answer is likely no. I'd still see such a person, and give them the same quality of service as anyone else. I just likely wouldn't see them again.

To each their own.

Love as thou will.

Gwenyth

Why not go with a GG and get some greek? Never really thought about it in that sense.

Im not opposed to being in the room with another cock, what I meant is that I dont care if they can get hard, size, cum, etc, things that I find most people on this forum are truly interested in.

Im willing to bet, in regards to your hormones comment, that they would not have the patience to show me the ropes.

Comments??

Are you sure you won't provide ( sell) "to" antiques?
and it becomes a simple proposition!

I'm in baby....but you knew that!

It's good to be bad ( or naughty)
sie

As to "I'm in baby," it reminds me of the Proctologist who asked his bent over patient to spell "RUN" three times.

A TV that knows how to dress and act is the "look" I'm into but its a pretty small group in my neck of the woods. So I go with what I can get in my area, which means the TS market.

I prefer a smaller cut dick.

I think I'm a little off in that I'm a TOP that likes to suck TV/TS dick. Most of the hard dicks are tops. I know not all but a majority seem to be I have a hard dick-I'm a top kinda gal.

It could not have been a better experience. She was patient, kissed with a passion I had only had from a few GG's and was not a rush. Although after we were done and I had showered she did give me a serious look and said,"Get my shit and get out". She says the look on my face was priceless. lol

Good luck with your first time,
Cal

Have me, on the side!

We sat downstairs, had a drink and spent about 15 minutes, getting, getting to know one another. Naturally I was pretty nervous, but we started kissing and petting and she said we should go upstairs, and once up there, the kissing and petting continued, and soon she was topping me. After five minutes, it started to hurt a little and I mentioned it and she said to be quiet, she was having an orgasm, (not her exact words.) After we rested she apologized for getting off so quickly, but explained that she was horny and turned on. I felt like a king. She then proceeded to take a Viagra, and gave me an anatomy lesson. We then proceeded into a session I have rarely experienced since. we did about everything there was to do, and then some.

The session lasted about well over the two hours agreed upon with her orgasming again in my mouth, and me orgasming twice. It was the most beautiful session I have ever had with anyone on RB, (GG or TG) before or since. I was so exhausted, I thought about getting a room in SF, as I thought I would never be able to drive back to Sac, but once outside I was okay and drove home and my facial cheeks ached from grinning.

I never went back to see her as I knew nothing could top that experience. She is gone now and for the life of me I cannot remember her name. But I am forever grateful to her for showing me that a provider (show me where it says a provider CAN'T enjoy the session) and it was very pleasurable, at least to me, when she was showing me through body language what she really enjoyed and she certainly reciprocated. It was waaaaaay beyond GFE.

It was an experience I will remember and treasure for the rest of my life.

One way to find such service is via the review system. I know there is a lot of controversy (both pro and con) about the validity of reviews. In the TS/TV community, it is very difficult to have the client we see to write a review. For example, most of my clients are from RB, but getting someone to write a review on us is so difficult. The problem is that society has this social taboo about trans women, and seeing a trans provider is like super taboo. So the thought of writing a review is even more taboo. But alas, I am content in just providing awesome service. But there is that little part of me that gets irked that a review is not done on the service I provide. Even with the anonymous handle, clients are still fearful of doing a review.

Maybe one day, those social stigmas will be shattered. Just my opinion though.

Lots of Love,

Megan Louana

That most certainly has not been my experience. The men I saw were always happy to write a review when I mentioned it and if I didn't get the chance before, I mean ot thank each and every one of you who did. I think you all were overly kind, the reviews you gave me were often worth more to me than the gift, often worth more to me than the fun we shared. I kept all of them in my scrap book.

http://www.myredbook.com/showpro.aspx?id=667020

Love,

Cindy

Lots of Love,

Megan Louana