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"Best overnight experience"
 
   Probably like most of you guys, my hobbying has mostly consisted of AMP/AAMP visits, or 1-2 hour stays with escorts. But now I want to expand my horizons and get a nice room in the City for some overnight entertainment.

Any comments on the pros/cons of booking one gal for the distance,or calling 2-3 different gals at regular intervals? Not looking to break the bank, but sure this experience will cost me 4 digits.

Any suggestion on a SF provider that makes an overnight experience something to remember?

Skin

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1. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   I can't offer much help suggesting a provider, but having done many overnighters with sugar babies and providers, you also might want to consider an alternative.

There have been nights and full weekends where rather than dumping a load of cash on a single woman, I'll break it up and get multiple hours with several ladies. If you check into the hotel at 3:PM, set up an appointment at 4 for a couple hours, and then set up a dinner date for around 7:PM. If you feel like you can handle it, set up another one at 11:PM. After she leaves, get a good nights sleep alone, and pre-arrange to have another come by at 9:AM. If you survive the night and can manage to get a woody for every girl (Cialis helps), I can guarantee you'll be satisfied for at least a couple weeks, because your muscles will hurt for at least a week after that night. I used to do this with providers years ago, but then discoverd the wonderful world of sugar babies. Chances are if you book a few providers in a weekend, one or more will flake on you. Sugar babies tend to be less busy, and will stick with your schedule. When I'm in the market for a new sugar baby, I call this my interview process. I'll set up dates with several over a weekend and then decide on one or two after taking them all on a test drive.

Spending a full night with anybody you don't know very well can be great or can be the worst night of your life. If for whatever reason you two don't hit it off, or the chemistry just isn't right, you both could end up miserable. I wouldn't suggest spending the night before having a session or two with her first just to make sure you can handle each other.

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2. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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Very Good Advice!

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3. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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Damn, I actually agree and support some of MA's comments.
Before you go that far you need to see and feel comfortable with the provider. Ask yourself are there some common interests that can maintain the flow of the evening? Do not expect her to have her legs wide open for you for the length of the evening. You might get three maybe four pops during you time spent together. If at a hotel, where are you going to take her to dinner that evening after pop number 1? After pop number 2 what are you going to converse about before number 3 and possibly 4? (I don't have 4 in my body anymore) What are the actual sleeping arrangements? Snuggled up all nice and cozy or you on the floor and she in the bed? Do not do this on a whim. You need chemistry or you might wake up and she has already wished you adieu. Which then raises the issue of when does she expect payment?
There are many things to consider so think it through and communicate with your date what your expectations which is very important to do. Other than that have fun and bring the bankroll.


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4. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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Do your homework on this one. The last 2 nights I spent with a provider I unfortunately found out they weren't the cuddly type. More like, "Get the hell off me, I'm trying to get some damned sleep here."

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5. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   IMHO, the best overnight ever is with Rebecca (MFC).

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6. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   This is one activity that I truly don't understand. First, you're asleep. What do you care whether someone's there or not? And secondly, how many working girls do you know that you'd actually like to spend more than an hour with? If that?

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7. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   Thanks for the detailed and thoughtful replys! Yes, the whole sleep angle is something to consider for sure, as well as the sugar baby possibility. I doubt I could go for round 3 without some sleep, and I'm not sure I could really relax and get to sleep?

Planning is called for, as well as the careful choice of provider(s)

Skin

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9. "Ever wanna try your hand at herding cats?........."
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.....It can be a real kick in the ass. My best in four attempts are two 2 out of 3's, one 3 out of three, and one 3 out of 4. I think I would have done better if I had put more thought and effort into my list making.

Select a hotel and time that suits YOU, and construct a multiple-session scenario for that time that YOU think is realistic. In my mind, being realistic should include that you have no expectation of cuddle time that may include mock (or real) intimacy. I suppose it's possible, but don't bank on it.

Make a list of inexpensive providers that you find appealing. Research them to the extent possible.

Filter that list as rationally and objectively as possible.

First impression vs. hotness vs. performance vs. menu, vs. reliability/flakiness, etc vs. etc. Then sift through that list again based on your gut instinct of how likely you are to be satisfied with the "performance" of each selected provider.

Now, select AT LEAST THREE providers for each intended/desired session (pop) of the day/overnight in question. Check your list AGAIN against their ads for for current and/or VERY RECENT activity.

Update or rearrange your list as required and make the calls. When you do make the connections, tactfully but firmly inform them that your schedule is inflexible, and that they must be (reasonably) on time with their confirmation calls and arrival times.

Rotate them in, and rotate them out on your schedule. Play your cards right and there is potential for a four (?) pop overnight to morning checkout with multiple women for 1k or less (plus expenses).


Note: If possible, try to choose a hotel located within a "hotbed" of activity, just in case.

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10. "RE: Ever wanna try your hand at herding cats?........."
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   Wow, I have clearly struck a nerve, and I'm impressed by the strategic and tactical strength of you guys!

Noworeezm8 - remind me to contact you the next time I invade Normandy or plan to overthrow the government. You are planner extraordinaire!

Skin

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11. "RE: Ever wanna try your hand at herding cats?........."
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Well, Normandy has been done, and winter is coming on........ so how bout we invade some place nice and warm? Some small easy place, like Belize or Costa Rica? Even if we fail and they seize my 10 foot inflatable marine assault craft........ we can always kick it on the beach swappin' lies and havin' drinks on the cheap.


"There are Nights when the Wolves are Silent....and Only the Moon Howls"

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20. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   >This is one activity that I truly don't understand. First,
>you're asleep. What do you care whether someone's there or
>not? And secondly, how many working girls do you know that
>you'd actually like to spend more than an hour with? If
>that?

I second that! Cept the last part. I love spending 2 or 3 hours with a girl...

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8. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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3 pops a day. Ahh to be young again. Lets dream, to be young and have loads of money.

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12. "Multi-hour in the evening/day time is much better than O/N"
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   Unless the O/N is not on clock. I much prefer to have a quality night's sleep for a morning round.

Happy Tricks Make Happy Hoes.

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13. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   No specific suggestion on any particular lady.

IME, for me to schedule an overnight the itinerary would be diverse.

I would certainly choose to be with a lady that I have had great rapport with over and time again.

Overnights are quick, and can be very fulfilling. It depends on what your intentions are.

I like having one special lady that I am comfortable with and really treat her to a nice dinner ( her choice of cuisine, restaurant), some extraneous activity ( a show or concert entertainment)
ETC.

....be creative...

A little nightcap of sorts. Perhaps.

In the A.M. room service?

In essence, your search for the BEST would be one that you yourself have chosen.

Good luck, Mr. Skin
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14. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   The only overnighter's I have ever done is when I am at a hotel and call an ATF to join me. More than a couple of times it has been late and she is giving signals that she does not want to leave. I let them know they are welcome to stay and none has ever dared ask for more money nor would I entertain the idea.

They seemed more than happy with casual talk, a in room movie and room service in the morning.

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16. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   I guess I don't quite get it.... It sounds what you SHOULD be looking for is a casual encounter with a civilian.

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17. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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I did an overnight one time with my ATF, who I had already had several 2-hour sessions with, and had a good rappore with. We arranged the time, but she called and changed it at the last minute (trying to squeeze in one last customer). I picked her up and drove her to my home, made her dinner while we chilled, drank adult beverages, and talked. Then we went and sat in the jacuzzi and talked some more and did some light cuddling, and then she just slipped it in. My first BBFS with a pro, and I tried to act unsurprised. We got out and went at it uncovered, but I guess I was taking too long because she said she came, she was tired, and going to sleep. WTF?! She was out like a log, and wouldn't wake up. Eventually, some DATY got her good and wet and she woke up, and we went at it again, and I gave her the internal creampie. We went to sleep, woke up in the morning, no nookie, and I drove her back to "the office."

So, while I had planned on 5-6 times (I was young), I only got one. But it was one night I'll always remember. Every time I saw her after that she also offered BBFS, until she retired (this was years ago, so don't bother asking). YMMV, be a gentleman, never pressure the provider to do anything she doesn't want to do, batteries not included, no warranty expressed nor implied.

It's hard, you should talk to her about your expectations, but it is difficult to walk the line between making a checklist of everything you're going to do (which spoils the mood), and leaving everything up in the air (which leads to disappointment).

I'd agree with the recommendations to do a series of multiple-hour sessions instead of the overnight. I'd only think about an overnight if you already have a good relationship with her, and just enjoy spending time together outside the bed. But then you're heading into civvie territory. Bottom line, be honest with yourself about what you want, and keep your expectations realistic.

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18. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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LAST EDITED ON 03-Oct-09 AT 11:11 AM (PST)
 
I've done only a couple of overnights but even more so, were overdays. An all day date during the day/night. Like Noon to midnight or 10 AM - 10 PM etc. I did these with 2 different providers. 1 who became somewhat of a sugarbaby for a couple of months. They are far greater (IMHO) than any overnight.

Of course, these were done with ladies that have cliqued well with me and vice/versa. We had a freakin' blast ! They are both 5 Star providers and gave me a seriously lowered rate, compared with their hourly $250/Hr donation. Also, I had spent a considerable amount of time and $ with them already.

Something you may want to take into consideration, considering there is no sleeping involved I've also done a weekend out of town for 3K + all expenses paid for and doing 1 in and around the bay area has also been fantastic ! Hope this helps

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19. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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Your best bet is to do your overnight experience with your current ATF. I had done several with my ex-ATF and current ATF and I had never been disappointed plus she will probably give you a superbreak on her hourly rate. I had even done a couple on the freebies as I was her last appointment and she had decided to invite me for a sleepover. I brought her an expensive breakfast that topped up with champagne. I know it is early in the morning but you got to do what it is right for the lady too. This is what it is. Cheers

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21. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   for me it was a time when i was with a provider who was my atf. we were in reno and we spent the time just having fun eating pizza in the room sex, video games etc. i never felt it was anything but hanging out with a gf. so before you do an all nighter make sure you can be with the person on alot of different levels. if not an hour or two would be enough.

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22. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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My best overnight experience was having hosting a wild 9/9 GFE session in my hotel room then having the provider leave so that I could go right to sleep afterwards.

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23. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   I never did see the value in overnights.

The closest I've come is a session that lasted for almost five hours when we both fell asleep between rounds. She didn't want anything about the normal session rate, but I tipped her well.

Bush Sucks.

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24. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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   When Lisa was just starting in the business, her rates were 25% of what they are now, and, the dollar was worth more than the Euro. It made for a very fun weekend.

The lesson: find someone that really wants to spend the time with you.

http://www.lisa-escort.com/english/index.htm\

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25. "RE: Best overnight experience"
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I did a full 4 day weekend with one of my favorets and it was great! I didn't think about the mulit-girl route. That sounds like it could be lots of fun too.

Live your fantasies!

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