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POLL: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how much do you typically pay for a session?
Posted by skyblue on 05-Oct-09, 04:01 PM PST
Result after a total of 23 votes

more than $500 6 votes, 26% Vote for this choice
$400-$500 3 votes, 13% Vote for this choice
$300-$400 3 votes, 13% Vote for this choice
$200-$300 6 votes, 26% Vote for this choice
less than $200 5 votes, 21% Vote for this choice

 
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Funsekr click here to view user rating
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1. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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   For the guys posting, can you tell us how long a session is. I would be assuming that to be multiple hours or whole evenings. And if the chemistry is good weekend trips.
Just curious.
thanks
Fs

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2. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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my best guess is that he is basing it on the hour......... just my 2 cents

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3. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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   There is a simple formula for calculating the hourly rate. Take the agreed upon monthly allowance and divide by the number of times per month you want to see her. In my case once a week is generally enough, so if the allowance is $2k per month, that's $500 per session. And sessions run from 3 hours to overnight. I'll generally kick in a few hundred extra for a full night, but I've also done all nighters for a few hundred. It all depends on the chemistry and how hard up for cash she is.

Never pay a full month allowance up front until you've sessioned a few times. If she knows she won't get paid until she sees you, you'll find she is available when you want her. Pay her up front and they tend to be too busy when you most want to get together.

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4. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   That is exactly the way I think about it, Monger.

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6. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   Thank you for sharing.

I was trying to figure out a payment strategy for my ATF provider I see, and make the transition to sugarbaby status because it will make more sense to me economically, and probably to her with this arrangement which will mean to her that she can count with the assistance for sure.

I was, however, considering pre-paying twice, like on the first and fifteen of every month, and seeing her once a week with the understanding that it was multiple hours, at least three, and some times overnight and extended hours during the day, should we choose to go to a social event.

Now, if she cannot host, and we need to get a room, that bites into the budget hard with four times per month. So, I guess we both have to compromise a little.

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7. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   i dont think you should have a sb/sd with anyone who works this site--you need someone in school, someone with a shitty job, someone who is sick of getting fucked over by players. then keep hobbying with your atf. i pay 2k a month for a once a week visit lasting 2-3 hours. but i think shed do whatever i wanted as far as time and how often goes...

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8. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   That's too much money. That's about $450/visit @ 2k per 4.5 visits. I pay much less (~$600/month) for because my SB actually works for a living, and she is a student. And, we hang out alot.

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10. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   i would tend to agree i overpay--i found my sb long b4 i found this site and was really making it up as i went along--but i wanted someone who had their own place fairly close to me, lived alone, and wasnt interested in going out to dinner or the theatre, ect. i already have plenty of people to do those things with me. also, she has never used the word the "no" to me about anything ive wanted to do to her. i feel in this case its been a good deal for me but if i was starting over i think id offer a tad less, especially in times like this...

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9. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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LAST EDITED ON 07-Oct-09 AT 04:28 AM (PST)
 
I have paid 2000 for four sessions a month but only because I was literally crazy about the chic, not because it was worth it. I've had much better and more often in the 200-250 per session range. When they can't host, I usually knock 100 off the date as I don't do Motel 6. As L4D says, you don't want a provider or someone that doesn't work for this, why bother? You want someone with a normal life. I usually do a per session amount for the first month as a kind of getting to know you thing, then switch to an agreed upon monthly amount paid on the first and fifteenth. A true non pro is going to want to get off the per session basis as soon as possible, it makes them feel like providers and we don't want that, do we?

tommy2morrow

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14. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   >i dont think you should have a sb/sd with anyone who works this site--you need someone in school, someone with a shitty job, someone who is sick of getting fucked over by players.

I am sorry to report that I have failed to meet a sb in such situations despite CL posts, and even using two of the sugardaddy oriented sites, which a friend of mine recommended joking. Not entirely sure what happened there, and it was then when I turned to RB looking for one provider whom I could interest into becoming sb. And you are correct, the expectations of providers tend to be different, much more elevated in economical terms, and difficult to meet in tight budgets.

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15. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   im going to inbox you and try and get it moving forward with a civilian type...

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5. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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   I pay for dinner, drinks, etc. but not directly for sex. I.e. I don't go for the blatant pros. Had some pretty good relationships.

"No matter how far you wander there you are"

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11. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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   Pay whatever the two of you can work out. Naturally you'll want to pay less, especially if you need to get a room for every visit. If you find a lady that costs a lot, just make sure that "no" isn't in her vocabulary. Otherwise find somebody else because there are plenty of beautiful, young women out there that will do absolutely anything for a few Benjamins every month.

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12. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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   I had inquiries from couple of sugar mamas on that site, but they're in their 50's and 60's and they're butt ugly. I'm looking for 40's, good looking MILFs.

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13. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   "I'm looking for 40's, good looking MILFs. "

LOL, good luck with that. Your only competition is every young and broke guy in the world.

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16. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how "
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By Session? It's not really like that.

It depends on the girl. Some are looking for a set figure a month and the number of times you see them is negotiable. Some are just looking for odds and ends. And others just want a BF, that isnt a loser and can pay for the date and spoil them.

You will find girls range the full spectrum.
1. Pros
2. Semi-pro
3. Amateur
4. Sugar Babe
5. Regular girl, that is tired of losers and wants a guy that can pay. She may want a monthly stipend or someone that just pays or helps her with her expenses.

You really have to decide what you are after and then find a girl that fits that. There is no problem finding that.

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17. "RE: For those of you who use the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby sites, how"
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   LAST EDITED ON 11-Oct-09 AT 03:53 PM (PST)
 
200 is what I always pay. No time limits and everything is always on the menu and the girls I see are always lookers and in their early 20s.

I only pay per meeting and I also NEVER pay allowance or pay in advance. That's foolish IMHO.

Since its my game its my rules and not one of girls I've seen over the years have ever complained about it.

A fair % of the girls I hook up with are also first times so they don't know what from what so its always an easy sell.

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