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louis1960
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"Older or younger provider"
 
   Question for you guys out there. Would you rather spend less time with a younger provider (mid-20's) or longer time with an older provider (35 to 40), for the same price? Example would be the younger HH for $150 or Hr with the older for same price.

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1. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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I generally prefer providers 30+ anyway. So to answer your question, I most likely would go with the provider 35 to 40. If the older provider is an RB 5 star provider with a substantial number of stellar reviews, at $150/hour (if you can find that for such a 5 star provider), that would be a no-brainer for me.

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2. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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I've always had a minimum age of 25. Now I'm thinking closer to 30. I'm in my 50's and need to have some mental as well as physical stimulation and the young hard bodies I've never thought were there in the mental part. Maybe I'm wrong and there are some gems I've missed but I took a position and I've maintained it.

Perceived ideal age currently early 30's.

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3. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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It depends entirely on who they are.

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5. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   exactly. age is just a number. i know that's a cliche but it's true.

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13. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   LAST EDITED ON 08-Oct-09 AT 02:55 PM (PST)
 
14 is a number. 90 is a number.

Just making the point that, yes, age matters.

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14. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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Actually, I think you're missing the point.

Even if we're purely objectifying women (purely physically), then age as a number is irrelevant for our purposes. If for no other case, bodies age differently. Merely fetishizing on a number, is, IMO, rather sad.

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20. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   Even more than just physical. Personality, too. I have met 20-YOs with her act together and 40-YOs who are scatter-brained. Yeah, it's true that 14 is different than 70. But if we're talking coeds and cougars, once you get past the legal limit of 18, or 21 if you wanna meet in a bar, age doesn't define someone.

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4. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   LAST EDITED ON 07-Oct-09 AT 08:10 PM (PST)
 
I am new and have not had good luck . I am thinking of trying SF Lilly , who looks to be an older , 25+ , provider . She seems to have great reviews and at least I will leave feeling drained rather than just warming up . But I could be wrong on that one too .

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6. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   I think it depends on who you're attracted to. Do tons of research and you'll find the right one for you. Personally, 98% of the ladies I've seen are 30+. I so enjoy the warm caress of experience.............for an hour.

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7. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   Are you guys fucking kidding me?! Why hobby if you're going to see old these ladies?? Well I guess if you're fifty then thirty's not that old... I'm 32 and I've never seen a provider over the age of 27 (so she said), nor would I want to - my ideal would be 18-22...

The best experience I have EVER had hands down was with an 18yo.

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8. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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LAST EDITED ON 08-Oct-09 AT 02:31 AM (PST)
 
>Are you guys fucking kidding me?! Why hobby if you're going
>to see old these ladies?? Well I guess if you're fifty then
>thirty's not that old... I'm 32 and I've never seen a
>provider over the age of 27 (so she said), nor would I want
>to - my ideal would be 18-22...
>
>The best experience I have EVER had hands down was with an
>18yo.

Well Junior,
first off, you're liable to soon realize, that at 32, you're the odd man out here. I'd guess that's most likely the case for the hobby in general, and pretty much a sure bet among regular posters here on the boards.

Something else to think about. At the ripe old age of 32, you say you've never seen a provider over 27. Okay. You have also have implied that you have fucked some 18-22 yr olds. Okay to that too.

It would seem like you're not in the position to be much of a judge of the services of pro's 28 and older, so I gotta wonder how you can equitably compare the services and even "hotness" of these "old ladies" with that of their younger counterparts.

At 52, how many providers in the 18-22 age bracket do you suppose I might have fucked by now? What about some of the more senior members here, or the ones that have been hobbying much longer than I have? Also, by the time a guy hits fifty, there's a pretty fair chance he's been with a woman or two that's over 27.

You see where I'm going with this? Somebody 20 to 30 years your senior might just have a different take on things. You know, one of those "been there, done that" kinda things.

That said. There's plenty here that will see things your way, but maybe not necessarily for the same reasons.

Bottom line is, these guys are relating their preferences based on their experiences in the hobby. In some cases, a great deal of experience, in others, not so much, but rest assured, they all have reasons/experiences in support of their preference.

EDIT: BTW, I have only two that I would consider ATF's. One is 20, and the other is 43. What does that tell you? Anything?

I think it means I'm old and I like em all.


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19. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   Noworeezm8:

Fair enough. As you said "these guys are relating their preferences" and so am I! I am just not turned on very much by "older women" in general, and no matter how good the service is if I'm paying I'd rather be with a girl that turns me on when I look at her... Maybe some day I'll see an older provider, but I have to say that the thought of flappy boobs makes me shudder.

I do agree that many of the younger providers I've seen have crap service, but dammit I'm in it to find some more good ones!

Also, really enjoyed reading your response. So thanks for that.

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23. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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Hey, ya know, you like what you like, and you know what you want. You've got your preferences, same as everybody else. Nobody can fault you for that.

>> I do agree that many of the younger providers I've seen have crap service, but dammit I'm in it to find some more good ones! <<

Well there's certainly plenty of good younger providers out there, both with, and without any rankings, reviews or traceable history here. Some of my favorites are near complete unknowns. I have pretty good luck that way.

So far this year, I've only sessioned with two ladies over 22. As for the younger women, none are ranked or "famous".

For the most part, not only do I have no complaints, I'd have to say that I've been well served, and overall it has been a great value for what I get.

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18. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   >Are you guys fucking kidding me?! Why hobby if you're going
>to see old these ladies?? Well I guess if you're fifty then
>thirty's not that old... I'm 32 and I've never seen a
>provider over the age of 27 (so she said), nor would I want
>to - my ideal would be 18-22...
>
>The best experience I have EVER had hands down was with an
>18yo.

That's what you think...

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9. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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I don’t do half hour dates. 1 to 3 hours is lot more fun for me.
As to age, I’ll take em from 18 to 80.


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10. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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Wow, an 80 year old provider? That'd be.... interesting.

As to the original question, I'd probably pick the older provider. I don't think the idea of hhr sessions works for me. I'm more for connecting and taking my time rather than trying to rush and finish the experience within such a short amount of time.

There's also the fact that a session can vary so much depending on your connection with each other, her services, skills and so much more.

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11. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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I agree that 18-80 is good. It is the service and attitude that counts. In general I would say that the older women give better service and are often into it for more than just the money. To some, the money is actually secondary.

A note to that fact. I am hosting a gang bang next week for a 74 year old slut that love to fuck and suck and can go on for as long as the cum is flowing. You don't find many 18 year olds like that.

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12. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   The young providers are fun just because their bodies are so hot, but providers between 27 and 35 have seen just about everything, so any request I have is usually accepted and acted upon. Also the older providers are much more likely to give you extra treats like camel slides. I've had some real duds with young providers, but rarely am I disappointed by a mature one.

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15. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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Variety is the spice of life or its like a box of chocolate. Had good ones & bad ones in different ages. When they can suprise you with a skill or twik a bell or whistle you didn't know you had, its mind boggling, knee shaking .....

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16. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   In general, young one do have hard bod and hot, but older one know how to fuck. What do you want?

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17. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   I agree with the opinion that age is not the only measure of who is a turn on. But in turn experience doesn't necessarily make a woman good in bed. My preference is for the 20 year old for half an hour. Raging hormones add to a woman's performance more than thousands and thousands of bjs past. The psychological factor is legit - a brat is not a turn on, but if the young woman has a good head on her shoulders then a hhr is as good as an hr.

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21. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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My priorities are in order from highest to lowest:

1) Good reviews
2) Banging body
3) Age

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22. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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LAST EDITED ON 09-Oct-09 AT 04:31 PM (PST)
 
It was said that I prefer the younger women, but 35 is younger in my book.


I wonder if DickDick will adjust his formula as he gets older. Currently his is 1/2 his age plus 2 to 6 years. Therefore at 42 he would seek out 23-29 year olds and at 52 he would seek out 28-32 and at 62 he would see the light of the older women!

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24. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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Younger ladies anytime!

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25. "RE: Older or younger provider"
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   LAST EDITED ON 10-Oct-09 AT 12:31 PM (PST)
 
I understand the argument put forth for older providers, and in my experience the success rate for older providers is much higher, but when I see an older provider there's selection bias as I only see older women that are reputable and extremely well-reviewed.

On the other hand, I gamble a lot more when it comes to the younger ones, its the nature of the beast, and I wind up with a fair number of disappointing encounters. Even when they're good, I find I seldom repeat, because there's a lot of fun in the novelty, but a lot of drawbacks to the general demeanor and predicament. The younger they are in this biz, the harder they live and the faster they go off the cliff. But in general its the young ones I fantasize about, its the young ones that turn my head on the street, and its the young ones that when you have a good session with them make you feel like a million bucks.

So I'll continue to session with both, but when I have to pick, I'll take young, hot, and unpredictable over older, less supple, and reputable. Still if you have less money to play with, I'd recommend spending wisely on well-reviewed providers above all else.

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