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POLL: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of RB playground.*Escort = amp, aamp, street action, indy, outcall, incall, pimped..etc.
Posted by scorpy on 08-Oct-09, 10:16 PM PST
POLL ENDED: Result after a total of 46 votes

Escort only 10 votes, 21%
Escort and FBSM 9 votes, 19%
Escort, FBSM, and SC 1 votes, 2%
FBSM only No votes
FSBM and SC No votes
SC only No votes
None of them is cheating 26 votes, 56%

 
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jimmy_funs
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1. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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I think it will depends on what she said when she finds out.

Can't imagine anything good.

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2. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Oct-09 AT 01:01 AM (PST)
 
I think most consider all of them as cheating also add frequent visits to RB as another choice.

Sorry guys.

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3. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   FS definitely...but probably anytime you have an orgasm away from her.

"No matter how far you wander there you are"

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4. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   It probably doesn't matter what the guy thinks, it is what the S/O thinks. If she is all well and good about this kind of stuff, you have nothing to worry about. If she is going to have a big problem, like many women would, then any and all of the choices listed would be cheating to that woman.

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19. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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Agreed. It all depends on your particular relationship, and what your SO is comfortable with you doing without her. I refrained from voting, simply because I'm single right now.


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Hope burns bright!

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5. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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Probably a better question for the SOs but I don't think any of us are going to ask them to chime in on this. Mine doesn't have issues with SCs but would with FBSM & FS providers.

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6. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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LAST EDITED ON 09-Oct-09 AT 10:13 AM (PST)
 
I forgot to mention SC includes lap dance and private show, which means physical contact with another female.

It would defeat the purpose of the poll if SC doesn't include touching otherwise it would have been the same as just watching porn or peep show, which is outside the realm of RB.

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7. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   If you have to hide it from her it's either cheating or dishonest.


.:. quality not quantity .:.

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8. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   C'mon guys, quit kidding yourselves. As far as what constitues cheating on your SO/wifey/GF, you know it when you are doing it.

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9. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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Relax guys,
None of this is cheating.
Some guys like a therapeutic massage only.
Some guys like a massage with a happy ending.
Some guys like just the happy ending.
In all cases, it's just therapy.
It is a business transaction.

This therapy helps guys put up with the SO.
It is a win-win.

It's only cheating when you don't pay.

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daven
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10. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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If you are doing a provider or getting a hj during a massage, you have crossed the line. Come on be realistic. Unless you are cumming with your SO and not using your own hands to do the job, you are cheating.

What would you think if the situation was reversed and some guy was banging your SO, etc. or going down on her?

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13. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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>If you are doing a provider or getting a hj during a
>massage, you have crossed the line.
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YOUR line, yes.

Everyone else's...you dont get to decide.

Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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18. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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True. My line. That said, I have crossed it and don't hold judgement against others who cross it.

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11. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   I like to pretend that if there's no emotional involvement, just be getting off, that it's not cheating. But realistically, I know that's a bunch of BS. It's true that it's less dangerous if there's no emotional involvement, in the sense that you're not dealing with someone who might want to "take you away" from wife or S.O. -- at least it's less dangerous until she finds out about it -- but if those of us who have wives or S.O.s are honest with ourselves, we know that it's cheating.

--BBG

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12. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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Kinda..depends on the social contract in the relationship, doesnt it?


You dont get to judge others relationship with your own rules...

Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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14. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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How about SO's who cheat men into marriage? Who's cheating now?

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15. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   Do we have to split electrons? If you even think about it, you are cheating already. Yes, I am cheating now. Remember Jimmy Carter? Why do we have to patronize ourselves?

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16. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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LAST EDITED ON 09-Oct-09 AT 06:59 PM (PST)
 
The female .'s have got us feeling guilty over every little thought. And females don't have even a tiny bit of those thoughts. The light of hypocrisy is bringing out terms like Cougars, MILF's etc ... Sex is power or enpowering or visa versa for both.

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17. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   If you are getting aroused with anyone, it is cheating. Lets not play "Clinton" semantics.

tav

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20. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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They are all cheating.

But some are more grievous offenses than others.

For example, getting a handjob may be less grievous than fluid exchange.


Be the change
you wish to see

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21. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   If you lie to your S.O. about it, you are cheating. And that includes the lie of omission.

To me, the lying is the darkest part of this activity.

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22. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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Jimmy Carter had high standards, which makes us all cheaters: "I've looked on many women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times. God knows I will do this and forgives me."

This clears my conscience! Since I've crossed the line virtually anytime I've seen a woman from, say, the age of 12, why not go all the way as much as possible? In other words, heck, I've already cheated by the mere fact there I've admired living, breathing, fuckable women out there. So let's get down.

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23. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   I wish a heart would chime in on this

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24. "RE: What constitutes cheating on your SO/wifey/GF in the realm of"
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   LAST EDITED ON 11-Oct-09 AT 04:58 PM (PST)
 
This is a Mens forum, just like E411, Hearts don't post here. Likewise, Men can't post in Girl Talk. It's been that way for well over six years now.

If someone has a post and wants comments from the girls, they can start the thread in the SF Lounge or SoapBox.

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25. "Best"
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   Mr. L4B,

He has much Clarity regarding many issues, forward and precise.

Lance

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