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jjeremy_williamms
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"How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
 
   I just read the ad from an asian provider named "Annie" 510-712-1985 who continues to receive raving reviews about her services and also receives quite a few hits(looks) at her ad in general.It doesn't say much about the clients she sees on a consistent basis( or even one timers) when they are okay with the fact she is exclusionary. Racism is a mental disease and deficiency which should be met with aversion not reward. Some of you should be ashamed.

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1. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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Maybe she just can't handle the big black ones?

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2. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   If "Annie" or any other provider chooses not to see a certain race...that is their decesion. I don't agree with or condone it, but she obviously isn't being hurt by it so she doesn't care.

I had one provider tell me she doesn't see black guys because early on in her "career" she had two really bad situations with black clients that made her stay away from all black guys. One invloved a black guy trying to become her pimp and the othe involved abuse.

Perhaps "Annie" has had similiar experiences and it has made her shy away...or perhaps she just can't handle the big black cock...

But to tell hobbiest they should be ashamed for seeing her is ridicoulous.

Should Eagles fans be ashamed for buying a ticket because Michael Vick is on the team?

Should people be ashamed buying a Michael Jackson record because he touched litte children?

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jjeremy_williamms
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3. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   The mere fact that you even had to ask those ridiculous questions at the end of your reply which can be answered by a RESOUNDING..."yes" to .....ALL, shows a lack of common decency on your part which isn't a surprise.

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4. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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While I agree that racism is ugly and wrong, I would rather have a provider like Annie who is at least honest - says she sees only Asians & whites in her ad - so that hobbyists of color or fat hobbyists or bald hobbyists, etc don't waste their time.

I do find it ironic that there you display such a keen sense of outrage yet participate in a business that many find exploitative of women. High-minded idealism doesn't really fit on RB or any P4P site. It sounds awkward and reeks of selective morality.

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5. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   We all have preferences, and it is OK. It is her pussy and your money.

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6. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   Why is it racism? It's preference, just like black girls don't date Asian guys. So, quit complaining.


(Civilian) black and white chicks are the racist of them all.

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7. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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Its her right or sense of stability. Accusing her is as silly as why don't everyone just stick to one's own race then? or those who only see Asians. The hypocrisy .... Its a free market, demand prevails for both parties. Many things reinforces her decision. Past experiences, attitudes, robbed, size, tip hassles, etc .... Plenty of other cusines elsewhere.

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8. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   This subject has been beaten to death, it's not racism to have preferences. If someone prefers blondes that doesn't make them a racist, get over it!

"Alea iacta est!"

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9. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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You prefer blondes over brunettes!? You sir, are a mentally deficient racist!


brother, can you spare some change?

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10. "Is it racist ?"
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   When most Black pimps don't want their girls seeing Black men. And many Black providers won't see Black men.

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22. "RE: Is it racist ?"
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That's not true when it comes to Black Providers, first of all, all I choose to see are only Black providers, and that's because we can relate to each other, better than if I was to go outside of my race. She know's that I'm not calling her a bunch of ". Bitches" behide her back or thinking she's less worthy than a white provider (or one of another race) of respect, and many of them say that they don't date Black Men.

Many of them say that to make white hobbyist feel more secure in calling them, remember it's more white hobbyist other there than it is black ones. And funny as it seems, I've developed a repore with many of the Black providers and have given then reviews that were positive ones, only to have them be followed up with negative reviews from white providers, not saying that the white reviewer was lying about his experience with the provider, but her comfort zone was different with me becuase we are of the same race, then it was with them because they are not. And that's where my comfort zone rests in....

Chaos has left the building

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14. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   Brunettes will always surpass blondes....

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11. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   It's possible because a substantial majority of the male hobbyist population (like the general population) are not black and, therefore, are not likely to be aware of her "racist" tendencies because they would not have been applied to them. I'm sure that she does say to each and every client that she meets that she dislikes black men, so if you're not black then you just get to fuck her and have your dick sucked without ever having to concern yourself with her politics, racial preferences, food allergies, choice of feminine hygiene products, favorite mexican food or what have you...it's superfluous to the task at hand.

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12. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   As much as I hate racism I can't get with your logic here. Providers have every right to pick an choose who they sell their bodies and services to and no one has any right or justification to tell them they can't do so. Doesn't matter the reason! It's their BODY! And why would I (or anyone else) give a girl a bad review ever if her service to ME was good?! I don't give a fuck what a provider thinks or does in her own time, all I care about is the service.

Also, after seing many providers over the years this is no shock to me. These girls have horrible experiences, and if they think avoiding men in different races or age groups will prevent it from happening again, more power to them!

Some advice: get fucking over it. There are plenty of providers who will not discriminate, so go and see them!

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13. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   >I just read the ad from an asian provider named "Annie"
>510-712-1985 who continues to receive raving reviews about
>her services and also receives quite a few hits(looks) at
>her ad in general.It doesn't say much about the clients she
>sees on a consistent basis( or even one timers) when they
>are okay with the fact she is exclusionary. Racism is a
>mental disease and deficiency which should be met with
>aversion not reward. Some of you should be ashamed.


97% of women on match DO NOT select African American. Get over it.

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15. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   Dude, grow some balls and stop whining about racism. They have preferences just like men do, and crying about racism every time you don't get you way makes you the biggest racist of them all.

Oh and you're a fucking pussy too.

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16. "Lack of a woman's right to choose = Fascism"
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Yes, racism is a disease.

But when a girl can't choose who she has sex with, even for money, then we're past racism -- we're at fascism.

NO ONE should be able to tell a ANYONE how she or he must choose who to have sex with.

When having sex becomes a social obligation, then maybe we can revisit that rule.

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19. "RE: Lack of a woman's right to choose = Fascism"
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   >Yes, racism is a disease.

Then clearly you cannot fault anyone for being a racist any more than you can fault them for having brain cancer.

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17. "Raving reviews????"
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LAST EDITED ON 10-Oct-09 AT 11:49 PM (PST)
 
I think you meant to say rave reviews -- there's only one RBer who's known for raving reviews, and he should stopping by at any moment to try to change the topic.

In Annie's case, it's not racism so much as a lack of people skills. I saw her about a year ago, and she's definitely attractive and articulate, if not exactly passionate. After the main event, we were chatting about restaurants in Oakland and I casually asked her if she'd like to grab some lunch at one of her favorite places nearby. Most providers are tactful enough to graciously deflect such an offer, and a few might even say OK. From her reaction, you'd think I had just offered to give her a case of leprosy.

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18. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   Where is the link ?

It is obvious she does not care or need your money so why should you care about her. You should be thankful she is honest and not waste your money or gas.


>I just read the ad from an asian provider named "Annie"
>510-712-1985 who continues to receive raving reviews about
>her services and also receives quite a few hits(looks) at
>her ad in general.It doesn't say much about the clients she
>sees on a consistent basis( or even one timers) when they
>are okay with the fact she is exclusionary. Racism is a
>mental disease and deficiency which should be met with
>aversion not reward. Some of you should be ashamed.

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20. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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Her ad is easily searchable -

I'm Annie and ready to make your day a dream come true. Call me and let the magic begin.
I see asian and caucasian men only!
Please unblock your phone.1h/200. 510-712-1985

BTW, there are providers out there who "only see clients over 35" and others who ask for men who are not too heavy. Racism, ageism, discrimination against weight, etc, etc -- all exist.

Annie and others are engaged in what is not a public or even legal enterprise. Theirs is an intensely private, personal service. I personally won't see an provider who for any reason doesn't fit my bill, and I expect some symmetry. I would decry this if were Denny's, but this ain't no Denny's.

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21. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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Hey , I feel your pain cousin. It is frustrating when you come up against these preferences but she does have the right to have said preferences. I appreciate her honesty and it saves me the trouble of contacting her and wasting each others time. I have had on 2 occasions where I have identified myself as African-American and they just hung up in my face without any explanation or common courtesy. I kinda agree with you , my personal opinion is that it is odd for a person to have preferences when their main goal is to make money from having sex. Their preference should be green , in my opinion but I digress. If the reason is bad experiences in the past , I can understand that but I will bet my last dollar that every experience with a white or asian hobbyist hasn't been without problems. So should those past experiences stop her from seeing all white or asian hobbyists. Hmmmmmmmmm , what a dilemma that would put her in. So , if past bad experiences with white or asian hobbyists doesn't stop her from seeing all white or asian hobbyists , why would past bad experiences with black hobbyists , stop her from seeing all black hobbyists , Hmmmmmmmm , makes you wonder. Just my 2 little cents in the matter. And I will end with and reiterate , the young lady has the right to see whomever she wants to see.

We are all the same when the lights are out. LOL

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23. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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>I just read the ad from an asian provider named "Annie"
>510-712-1985 who continues to receive raving reviews about
>her services and also receives quite a few hits(looks) at
>her ad in general.It doesn't say much about the clients she
>sees on a consistent basis( or even one timers) when they
>are okay with the fact she is exclusionary. Racism is a
>mental disease and deficiency which should be met with
>aversion not reward. Some of you should be ashamed.


As stated by IamGod, the subject has been discussed many times. Link to a recent thread.

http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID25/14968.html

jjeremy_williamms since you are new here, perhaps reading this thread might give you a little better insight on the subject.


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Too much sex is still not enough

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24. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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   Well, I'm sure you kind of got the idea from the myriad of post and I'm sure you noticed, there are some good answers up there.

I'll assume you are black and as such, do and have encountered racism in your day to day life, so it makes you more sensitive to the injustice.

In reading her Ad, she is excluding, more than just blacks.

I personally have a preference for asian woman and yes, there have been some asian women, that will not date white guys, though its a little rare these days.

I'd look at it this way. We all have our preferences, so find someone that works for you and move on. Its her pussy and she can decide her preference for what ever reason she wants, just as I can select a woman, for any reason I want.

Tell you what, I'll TOFTT and report back, so you don't feel left out.

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25. "RE: How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?"
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>> "How is it possible a racist provider thrives in her work?" <<

Hmmm......Could it be because she's hot, has really great tits, good service, sessions for 200/hr, and as Argo said "this ain't Denny's"?.....yeah, I guess that's probably why.

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