One of the thing I can appreciate about being a hobbyist, is the variety of providers I can have a good time with, without have all the problems that comes with trying to juggle multiple relationships at one time.

Now I don't mind the occasional phone call where she(the provider) might travel a lot, or we haven't heard from eachother in a while, and she gives you that phone call where she's (a) checking up on you, and (b) she want to know, if you want some company. But some of them can be down right outrageous with the way they can harrass you, as if either your in a realtionship or you owe them money. And as far as I'm concern, even if there is a pimp, boyfriend or whomever prompting them to call, makes me no nevermind, I'm going to start putting the on blast about it, by posting it in a review, and being very rude about it at the same time. I find it to be rude and totally lacking in any respect for me and whatever situation I might be in, (ie. wife, girlfriend, significant other or whatever it may be)

Chaos has left the building

I didnt' express my displeasure vocally but there were a lot of silent moments.

Also, do you use a hobby phone? A separate phone used to call providers? If so, then that kinda isolates this interaction from your normal public life.

Finally, it ain't a bad thing. Often times, they cut you really good tempting deals.

You discuss your uneasy feelings, but you don't mention if you have ever just asked the lady to stop calling. Instead you say 'I'm going to start putting the on blast about it, by posting it in a review, and being very rude about it at the same time.'

If you haven't already, I'd suggest you politely but firmly explain that you'd prefer she not call you and that, if you're interested in seeing her again, you'll call her when you are ready.

Usually, being a gentleman and just being honest and polite about your thoughts will help resolve the situation.

There's often no benefit to rudeness - unless it's absolutely necessary as a last resort.

Contacting someone by phone is a lot riskier due to potential significant others. To take it that step further and be borderline harassing sounds pretty ridiculous. What exactly did they do to take that step further to make you feel you have to "blast about it"?

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What sucks is when a girl does a group text message to all her customers with a general 'Im available'. Always a reminder that I'm just a ATM to them.

He is single and has a hobby phone. Answers when and if he feels like it. In fact, he wishes there was a forum where men available for the evening leave their hobby phone # so that the providers could contact them if they too were available that evening. It would be so simple to reverse the process now that is at best, tiresome.

>I have a hobby phone that is turned off 99%+ of the time so
>I've never picked up an unsolicited call. Since I don't
>have VM set up it isn't an issue....

if ya'll had a batphone, the point is moot and this wouldnt be an issue...before even phones became dirt ass cheap, i bit the bullitt and bought a dedicated phone just for the hobby...for reasons: ALL OF THE ABOVE...
first of all, this hobby aint cheap guys!
so...why the fuck any of you would cut corners to compromise yourselves????

i think this conversation is in the same line as those guys thinking its safe to call from their work/home(hard line)phone?
WTF some of you guys are thinking sometimes just make me literally rolling on the floor and laughing out loud!..and then you guys look around for somebody to blame, except yourselves...

doh!!!
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After that I switch to a family plan and added a new line for 10 bucks a month the phone is always in my trunk turned off and I changed name on the caller id I couldn't imgaine not havin a "work phone" anymore I see a few guys on here said they have one Att has the cheapest pre paid or you could even add a line for 10 a month it's worth it

STRESS IS A KILLER, so don’t sweat the small stuff.

First, let’s put this in perspective. The number of calls is not voluminous, unless you are making an awful lot of calls to providers and giving them your number.

Ladies you want to hear back from save their number and name in you contact list. A call comes in from a number or lady you don’t want hear from don’t answer, let it go to voice mail.

As you say "Chaos has left the building" so don't invite it back in.

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Too much sex is still not enough

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