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"Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
 
LAST EDITED ON 14-Oct-09 AT 02:44 AM (PST)
 
I strating to have concerns with the way many of the new providers are conducting themselves professionally wise. One of my biggest issues is the way some of the new providers will call you consistantly looking to make a buck.

One of the thing I can appreciate about being a hobbyist, is the variety of providers I can have a good time with, without have all the problems that comes with trying to juggle multiple relationships at one time.

Now I don't mind the occasional phone call where she(the provider) might travel a lot, or we haven't heard from eachother in a while, and she gives you that phone call where she's (a) checking up on you, and (b) she want to know, if you want some company. But some of them can be down right outrageous with the way they can harrass you, as if either your in a realtionship or you owe them money. And as far as I'm concern, even if there is a pimp, boyfriend or whomever prompting them to call, makes me no nevermind, I'm going to start putting the on blast about it, by posting it in a review, and being very rude about it at the same time. I find it to be rude and totally lacking in any respect for me and whatever situation I might be in, (ie. wife, girlfriend, significant other or whatever it may be)

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1. "Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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It has happened to me twice. Both times I didn't know who I was and both times the girl wasn't willing to immediately identify herself as an RA. When I realized that it was I felt violated and when I realized that the whole purpose of the call was to make a sale, I felt insulted.

I didnt' express my displeasure vocally but there were a lot of silent moments.

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22. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   "Both times I didn't know who I was..." Really threw you, huh? I can totally identify with that level of disorientation. But for me it's usually when I'm getting laid and about to cum, not when I'm trying not to.

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2. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   Next time they call you, you can let them know that you don't want them to call you. All providers are cautious about getting ratted out by the LE, so they will comply with your request.

Also, do you use a hobby phone? A separate phone used to call providers? If so, then that kinda isolates this interaction from your normal public life.

Finally, it ain't a bad thing. Often times, they cut you really good tempting deals.

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3. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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I have a hobby phone that is turned off 99%+ of the time so I've never picked up an unsolicited call. Since I don't have VM set up it isn't an issue. Before that, I did receive calls from a couple of providers and wasn't happy about it.

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4. "Have you tried being direct, but polite?"
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You discuss your uneasy feelings, but you don't mention if you have ever just asked the lady to stop calling. Instead you say 'I'm going to start putting the on blast about it, by posting it in a review, and being very rude about it at the same time.'

If you haven't already, I'd suggest you politely but firmly explain that you'd prefer she not call you and that, if you're interested in seeing her again, you'll call her when you are ready.

Usually, being a gentleman and just being honest and polite about your thoughts will help resolve the situation.

There's often no benefit to rudeness - unless it's absolutely necessary as a last resort.

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10. "RE: Have you tried being direct, but polite?"
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Well let me first say, that having a hobby phone certainlly sounds like a good idea, but maybe in my attempt to keep this post short and to the point, I failed to communicated the fact that I have let it be known that all the phone call are not acceptable. Now I'm single, with nothing to lose in my dealings with providers, but what if I was with someone, that could lead to an embarrassing situation.


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14. "RE: Have you tried being direct, but polite?"
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If you haven't yet asked her to stop calling and explained to her that you find it annoying, then I think that should be your first step. I'd suggest that you convey to her a polite but firm request to stand down. My guess is that, faced with your reasonableness, she'll comply - there's nothing in it for her not to!

Certainly, it makes no sense to be rude and confrontational if you haven't even yet asked her to stop calling.

Good luck.

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16. "RE: Have you tried being direct, but polite?"
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Wait let me make it clear LOL, I have no problem conveying my feelings on a certain issue. And although in the past, I've certainlly came off like an asshole (on purpose of course), generally I am a fairly a polite person. What fustrates me is (a) The number of those that don't get the fact that it's not protocal to call(esspecially continueously) a hobbyist phone,(b)the lack of respect that comes with the calls in the first place, but I basically said all of this before, and you keep assuming that I never ask for the calls to stop before. That's why I mentioned putting them on blast. Now maybe you don't know this or not, but some providers cn be difficult to deal with, and believe it or not the nuber of them are growing, when it comes to doing things that are not professional.

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18. "RE: Have you tried being direct, but polite?"
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   A hobby phone is not just for keeping your SO in the dark. It's a great way to segregate your activities so you're not bothered by solicitations. My phone is off unless I'm actively hobbying, so I never get calls I don't want.

FS

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5. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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Wow. I have nothing against girls wanting to inform past customers they haven't seen in a while that they're in the area or have a special. However I'd expect that in an e-mail or inbox message.

Contacting someone by phone is a lot riskier due to potential significant others. To take it that step further and be borderline harassing sounds pretty ridiculous. What exactly did they do to take that step further to make you feel you have to "blast about it"?


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6. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   Man I'd love it ... Means you can negotiate a sweet deal .... You have the power now not them

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7. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   That's the best time to haggle over services & prices. Tell her you want her to throw in anal for the regular price, 50 bucks off, etc.

What sucks is when a girl does a group text message to all her customers with a general 'Im available'. Always a reminder that I'm just a ATM to them.

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8. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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It's a good thing I'm an ATM to them, if I have to go by my looks, I'll be in big trouble ....

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9. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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My friend told me it would be so much easier if they called him. He would like it. He almost stopped calling providers because nobody responded to messages (simple calls- my name is xxx - call back if you are interested in talking further -nothing explicit). Seems like if they don't pick up the initial call, they never called him back. Major pain in the ass.

He is single and has a hobby phone. Answers when and if he feels like it. In fact, he wishes there was a forum where men available for the evening leave their hobby phone # so that the providers could contact them if they too were available that evening. It would be so simple to reverse the process now that is at best, tiresome.

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11. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   LAST EDITED ON 14-Oct-09 AT 05:31 PM (PST)
 
>In fact, he wishes there was a forum where
>men available for the evening leave their hobby phone # so
>that the providers could contact them if they too were
>available that evening. It would be so simple to reverse the
>process now that is at best, tiresome.

You can't possibly be even remotely serious.

I'm single and would not want calls from pimps and robs.

That is all you would have calls from and absolutely no one else.

You need to think this out a bit more.

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13. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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This will happen.

Many years ago, when I was dumb and in Vegas, I called an agency....

They spammed my hotel room phone for 3 days, night and day, non-stop.

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15. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   naw get google voice and you can filter out the calls you dont want.

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17. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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Please to explain, sir?

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20. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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www.google.com/voice

"One number for all your calls and voicemail as easy as email."

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19. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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No so sure about that. I don't get spammed by pimps on my RB inbox and they are certainly free to do that. Once in a while I get a legitimate RB email from well known providers responding to a post of mine letting me know they are available and so forth.

I don't turn on my playphone and don't call back till I first google the number or search it on RB; then I check the reviews. If it got to be a problem, I would just throw away my current $5 playphone and get a different one. Seems like less trouble to me than trying to get hold of some of these ladies. But who knows really?

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12. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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ND, on post#3 said it BEST:

>I have a hobby phone that is turned off 99%+ of the time so
>I've never picked up an unsolicited call. Since I don't
>have VM set up it isn't an issue....


if ya'll had a batphone, the point is moot and this wouldnt be an issue...before even phones became dirt ass cheap, i bit the bullitt and bought a dedicated phone just for the hobby...for reasons: ALL OF THE ABOVE...
first of all, this hobby aint cheap guys!
so...why the fuck any of you would cut corners to compromise yourselves????

i think this conversation is in the same line as those guys thinking its safe to call from their work/home(hard line)phone?
WTF some of you guys are thinking sometimes just make me literally rolling on the floor and laughing out loud!..and then you guys look around for somebody to blame, except yourselves...

doh!!!
http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/User_files2/j9qqv3jzrwa54yc9.jpg

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21. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   I had the same problem she first sent a group text about her "speacial " then she called tellin me about her cable bill or some shit I talked her down to a cool price but damn the 60 for the hour but i started thinking her servuce is pretty average and she's kinda out the way and if shes calling me not knowing my living or money situation or even if I had alot of other shit going on she should be the one cutting the price in half making me a offer I can't refuse as much trouble as I go through when I want good service I kinda felt like the chosen trick lol but maybe that will teach them to lower the rates and give better service so they don't have hard times like that


After that I switch to a family plan and added a new line for 10 bucks a month the phone is always in my trunk turned off and I changed name on the caller id I couldn't imgaine not havin a "work phone" anymore I see a few guys on here said they have one Att has the cheapest pre paid or you could even add a line for 10 a month it's worth it

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23. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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>One of my biggest issues is the way some of the new
>providers will call you consistantly looking to make a buck.

STRESS IS A KILLER, so don’t sweat the small stuff.

First, let’s put this in perspective. The number of calls is not voluminous, unless you are making an awful lot of calls to providers and giving them your number.

Ladies you want to hear back from save their number and name in you contact list. A call comes in from a number or lady you don’t want hear from don’t answer, let it go to voice mail.

As you say "Chaos has left the building" so don't invite it back in.

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24. "RE: Providers who repeatedly calls you, , looking for a date"
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   I don't care who's calling or why anymore... they're calling my hobby phone. It's been a great investment, for peace of mind.

c-man

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25. "RE: Dedicated Hobby phone solves your problem."
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Dedicated Hobby phone solves your problem. I will only give out my private cell phone no. if she had reached the status of my current ATF. This is to facilitate advance booking via her private cell line and bypass her PO and get the time slot that I want. Anyone that do not reach that level will only have access to my hobby phone no but I usually have her private cell phone no. on my hobby no. if I wish to repeat her service. This is what it is. Cheers

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