For me....The answer has changed over time. When I first started mongering, it would have been the one I found most attractive, period.
But now, I realize that soemtimes the most attractive one may not be the best experience for me. So I look for clues that she may be too bossy (reference checks required or lots of screening) or that she may be too restrictive (lots of rules posted) or too distant (posting no gfe or no kissing), etc., and in the process the most attractive may get screened out.
Also, since '02 I've been burned a few times (only). Once, a girl welcomed me into her house, I went into the bathroom, when I came out, she was on the phone, and started screaming at me that I was the one who had stood her up the week before and that she was going to keep my money, and I was to empty my pockets or she would call the police and she was only 16, etc etc. I bolted. A few minutes later, I got a call advising me that I should be calm about having been robbed and not cause a scene otherwise they would track me down by my phone number etc etc.
Another time I was in with a gal, having paid up front for the hour. About 15 minutes in, the door opened to the chain/slide that I had hooked. The chick started in with why did I latch the door like that, and tried to unlock it. I blocked it long enough to get my clothes on before she opened it, and in walked 3 guys asking her if she was ok and why she hadnt answered her phone. I am pretty big and it was the middle of the day so I just shouldered past and got to my car with no more problems but I felt like they were chasing me.
And another time, after turning down upsell mania (More $ for top off, for bj, for bbbj, for multiple positions, etc), I just left. As I walked out she made a call and out of antoher door came her friend saying to me wait up, you owe me, etc. I made it into my car and left with no more issues.
This kind of shit happens to all of us I guess.
All 3 happened within the first 3 months I was out here mongering.
All 3 girls (and friends) were same race.
Since I have stopped seeing girls of that race (unless reviewed by someone with a long history of true reviews) I have had zero problems involving my money or my safety. Now its just the routine teethy bjs or whatever to complain about.
So, is it racial profiling? Yes. Is it justified? I think so. Is it fair? Not to the non-rob girls of the same race who will be dismissed simply due to coincidence.
But when you think about it, it is just as fair or unfair as dismissing girls because they require refernece chacks, or that post a bunch of rules, or post a $300 per hour rate.
As the consumer we do owe it to ourselves to use whatever filters we have that might help us get satisfaction.
Yes?
Or is it racist?
It's only a game...