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"some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
 
   How do you handle this if you want BBBJ?
I have noticed several providers recently for whom reviews go back and forth.
Do you ask? Do you ask if they are RBGFE?

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1. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   LAST EDITED ON 21-Oct-09 AT 01:14 PM (PST)
 
I ask.

Haven't had a problem, and in fact I suspect a few that have said CBJ did so out of honesty and not wanting me to spend money and be disappointed. Very seldom are the girls I am interested in seeing are mixed on this service but when it does happen, an email or call takes care of it.

I haven't had anyone be upset when I explain and point out that she has reviews that indicate 1/2 the time a cbj and other times a bbbj it is a very reasonable question IMO. Some are to afraid to do so for some reason so I don't have much sympathy for them forking out 300 and making a drive over to see someone only to find out it's not the service(s) they want.

Some girls, at least according to posts on the message board, will claim they will hang up and/or never discuss services, but seems to be a giant smokescreen or preference and when it gets down to a guy moving to another, will tell you precisely.

When you think about it...What is the absolute most horrible thing that can happen? Hang up on you? I'd rather have that instead of wasting time and gas going over to an Incall.

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7. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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Agreed. If you're looking for a particular service, and are uncertain that a particular provider performs that service, the best way is to just ask in a polite way why you're confused.

Also, there are some guys that prefer to use covers for everything, and that could be part of their reviews.

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2. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   This is proof that YMMV

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12. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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Yep, simply 4 words -- Y M M V. Also, if you're up for it, go for the CBJ/LK ladies, and see if somehow you end up with BBBJ/DFK. But don't force the issue, make her feel comfortable with you; enjoy yourself being witty and charming, like a real date. Seriously. Else, go hire a blow up doll.

Okay, let me cite an example. There was once this pornstar that rolled into town. A lot of guys were hesitant to see her because, well, you guys know, pornstars just won't put out like they should when they're in provider mode. Right? But I wanted to see her, I thought she was real hot. So, I call her up and I tell her I'm her #1 fan. She was surprised and she laughed. What a line, right? So there, got her softened up some. So I say, when I see you, can you autograph this cover picture of you. Made her laugh some more. And you guys need to say this like you're really pulling a line, not some needy grown-up kid that lives under Mama's roof and all he does he jacks off on porn movies. LOL. And she knew I was pulling a line, and I sensed she's all game and challenged. So I get there the next day (sheez, I had to find a good cover pic you know) and we get in more on this "challenge". I think she was challenged, like who the heck does he think he is pulling such a line on me. So she lays out a few rules -- CBJ. Hehehe. Whatever. Let's go, babe. Well, the freaking cover never came on during BJ, but of course, I had to work for it. I gave her a huge O during DATY with lots of dirty porn style dirty talk. Then the second rule of the day comes up -- no CIM. What?! Whatever. So at the end, I say I'm cumming and I want to cum in your mouth. She sticks her tongue out and I unload all over in it and some splashed on her face. What the heck? What happened to all the rules? LOL. What a slut, huh? We both had a great time, and to this day, I can actually call her friend. A fluke you say? Maybe. But imagine if I didn't do all that extra effort. Different outcome? Of course!

So there -- Y M M V, but let me add this, you set the pace for the YMMV.


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13. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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You are Da Man and just nail it better than I can put it. I used to see top tier Asian Ras that only do LK and covered bj as evidenced by previous mongers' reviews so I make it obvious I am looking for more encounter until she ante up the goods which most will do after several sessions. I asked them for their favorite snacks or deserts or take out foods so I will bring them on my repeat visit. I called it courtship and dance. Nowadays in this recession climate, the newer K girls all ante up on initial visit so I sometimes missed the chase but I am not complaining. This is what it is. Cheers

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14. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   How much did that session cost?

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15. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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300. What a deal, huh? She's a total sweetheart, too.

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18. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   unbelievable! is she still around?

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3. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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It is to be expected. Just think of the variety of men on here, young and handsome (me , fat and ugly, old and can't get it up, clean or smelly etc. The girls will obviously treat the men differently and you can't excape that. This being said when I started here on SF Redbook my ego was boosted because a well known 5 star provider was giving me bbbj while not to everyone else. She told me to not ever write that I was getting that and I never did and lucky me no one else wrote recieving that either because if that was a lie she would have blamed me.

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17. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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Have you watched The Tao of Steve yet, grass smoker?

I was serious about this assignment.

It will count significantly against your final grade.

You can only leave the temple if you see it and you can snatch the pebble from my hand.

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4. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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IamGod said, “This is proof that YMMV”

President_Bush said, “…well known 5 star provider was giving me bbbj while not to everyone else. She told me to not ever write that I was getting that and I never did…”

A lot of providers are very picky about who they will give a bbbj to and therefore don’t have that on the advertised menu. If you have squeaky hygiene, make them feel comfortable and appreciated, your mileage goes up and you MIGHT get this service. You are not special per se as an individual, but in the category of special hobbyist.

This should never be mentioned in the reviews as to do so is unfair to other hobbyist making them think that they can have this experience and it is unfair to the provider as she could be pressured by boundary pushers.

Also, the mixed bbbj vs. cbj could be that the cbj reviewers did not want bbbj and reported their experience. One way to assess what is really likely to be offered is to click on the handles of the cbj reviewers and the bbbj reviewers. Of course you will need VIP membership to do this.

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21. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   >Also, the mixed bbbj vs. cbj could be that the cbj reviewers did not
>want bbbj and reported their experience

Exactly, I've done that, especially in my early days. Although as appropriate I will report that it seemed like BBBJ was available even if I didn't partake.

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5. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   You take a shower, act polite, and don't have running sores on your dick.

I mean seriously, put yourself in a provider's place. She's in the sex business so she's going to suck some bare dicks from time to time. But she's under no obligation, nor would she want to suck EVERY bare dick that walks in the door.

Surely that's obvious?

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6. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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Some of our brothers can't tell the difference.

Hard to believe, but circumstantial evidence exists in AMP and AAMP reviews, particularly with providers who slip the cover on in the sly, e.g., with their mouths. That's when you get high variation in reports, where some swear it's BBBJ even though it's really CBJ.

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8. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   This is a YMMV hobby. So if I read a review with mixed bbbj & cbj I would assume that I'm going to get the cbj service. No dissapointments. It could be the lady felt comfortable enough with some to provide bbbj and not with others. Also providers may start by offering only one but then change services along the way. So look at the history and see if there is a consistant difference in services offered.
As someone said in another reply, some guys just think they got bbbj or the review is for a different provider with the same name.
Since I can enjoy a session with a cbj it isn't a deal breaker. If I'm attracted by the photos and otherwise the service is highly rated I'll go for it and ask, beg, lay on the floor kicking my feet & pounding my fists trying for the bbbj.

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9. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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I love grabbing a hunk of hair and holding onto head sort of like pigtails are like handle bars but I love the long hair as it gives me something else to grab onto and hold on before I explode

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10. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Oct-09 AT 08:31 AM (PST)
 
I assume guys who write both in one review get started out with bbbj or just licking of the shaft, then she puts a cover on and she goes to town. Therefore I will look at that as a cbj which no longer interests me.
If a provider has multiple reviews that say cbj and one review that says bbbj, I will assume the reviewer either checked the wrong box or was clueless on the acronyms, or he impressed the provider and she went above and beyond ymmv. Same as if just the opposite lots of bbbj reviews and one cbj. Either the reviewer just prefers covered or confused about the acronyms.

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11. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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When I was a newbie on the Asian board, I accidentally mentioned that I had received bbbj from my then current Asian ATF at thst time, I was facing the inquisition by the likes of Astroglide, Captain Q and so forth. On my next session with my ATF, she was annoyed that I had mentioned it as she was faced with the the request of BBBJ that was not on her normal menu but available to me only because I had partaked her services several times. Initially, I did not get BBBJ either and I should have known better to keep the good stuff to myself. It is the click factor and YMVV too. This is what it is. Cheers

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16. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   It never hurts to ask especially if you ask nice and your a gentleman to the provider. You would be surprised what some gals will offer.

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19. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   I always thought that reviews reflected the services they actually experienced. I have always made my decisions on the sum of all reviews. In every case the provider was bbj no questions asked. Leading me to belive that previous hobbiests have requested CBJ.

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20. "RE: some reviews say BBBJ and others CBJ"
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   There's providers that make a judement based on your hygiene so I usually shower before, shave and cologne.

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