If she doesn't do her screening before she gives you the green light to come on over, she is not very professional.

If she had done her screening beforehand and still had you drive to her area only to turn you down, she sounds like she might have a grudge and is exacting some measure of revenge. Again, not very professional.

Whichever way it happened, having you drive over and then saying "sorry, Charlie" is wrong. She flaked on you. It is fair to submit a review stating that you didn't get service and why. In fact you are helping other RBers make a better (more informed) decision.

I don't know if your reviews are under the same handle as here, but if you want to warn others about her in the forums you should say who it is and point to the reviews.

TJWrong

The main thing she did wrong was wait to tell you this so I would out her in the NW and be happy you actually didn't see her because it probably would have been a bad session anyhow based on what you have just dewcribed.

It's only a game...

Actually I wish more providers would read review of potential dates. It would give them good info on a hobbyist’s preference and style.

I’m not saying that this is what happened in your case, but I’m offering a possible scenario. She books a date with you and while waiting calls a friend who has access to the full reviews and asks for some feedback on you. She gets it and decides that based on your history you and she probably won’t click or her incall is similar to things that you noted as negative in your reviews. So rather than going forward with a session that won’t be satisfactory she cancels.

BTW, this situation doesn’t meet the requirements for being a flake as she told you the deal was off. A flake is when you sit in the parking lot waiting for her to answer your second call and after some period of no response you finally leave wondering what he fuck happened. Or if it’s an outcall she never shows up or calls to tell you she can’t make it.

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Too much sex is still not enough

By only accepting lapdog reviewers, this girls reviews will be skewed higher, regardless of quality of service. To maintain the integrity of the review system guys should just not give out their review handle. Next time a girl asks just say you don't write reviews or give the handle of some lapdog.

We (ladies and gentlemen), all choose how we want to operate on rb. It's a totality of all our experiences that gets us to a certain point. And I would have to say that I'm just as guilty as the ladies who follow that pattern because I do something similar. If a lady has no reviews, I pass her by. If a lady has less than mostly 9s and 10s on her reviews, I pass her by. And if a lady has even one no show on her reviews, I pass her by. That's where my experiences have taken me, and that's probably where their experiences have taken them. For me, this hobby is way too expensive, so I always do my homework, stick to my rules, and I'm usually extremely happy with the results.

I'm sorry you had your experience. Welcome to the club. But let her go, and find someone you can hit it with.

What we learn from all this is NOT to trust some reviews by girls who do require references and or do detailed screening, they will always be very positive.

Alternatively, you have to use a different handle for your honest and truthful reviews that aren't "glowing" with praise and another for your solid 8's and above.

And, as sexproject7 alluded, move on, plenty of others that don't play these petty games with better service and no hassles.

How sad.

L4B

I submitted a 8.5-ish review and received an email from her assistant the following week saying that if I wanted to see her again that I would need to write straight 10s.

We sent a couple of emails back and forth arguing about it, but that's life. I was basically saying that my review pretty much said what the others thought as well (pretty, face, good service but not very good service).

Providers obviously try to have as good as reviews as possible with as little effort as possible. It is up to the men to stay objective, because the main purpose of reviews is not to make providers look good but to let men know what the providers are like.

It is none of her business who else I reviewed OR who else I've seen. A provider that I've seen doesn't need to know who else I'm seeing instead of her. I also have no time to wait for the screening to complete.

So I avoid those who want references and do all that screening BS. I prefer word of mouth on who the good providers are and as a result I don't have bad sessions.