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louis1960
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30-Oct-09, 07:37 AM (PST)
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"Screened"
 
   I called a local provider the other day and I got screened for the first time. Has anyone ever been turned down just because they had given a provider a deservedly bad review? I've given around maybe 8-9 reviews and only one has been a bad review. She told me that she read my reviews and thought I had treated the other girl like shit, which is bull, and decided she was not going to see me. What pissed me off is she first had told me to drive to the part of she was at, then she turned me down.

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thatsjustwrong click here to view user rating
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30-Oct-09, 10:02 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: Screened"
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   If after the screening process a girl is not comfortable with a potential client, then by all means it is not a good idea for either party to consummate a deal.

If she doesn't do her screening before she gives you the green light to come on over, she is not very professional.

If she had done her screening beforehand and still had you drive to her area only to turn you down, she sounds like she might have a grudge and is exacting some measure of revenge. Again, not very professional.

Whichever way it happened, having you drive over and then saying "sorry, Charlie" is wrong. She flaked on you. It is fair to submit a review stating that you didn't get service and why. In fact you are helping other RBers make a better (more informed) decision.

I don't know if your reviews are under the same handle as here, but if you want to warn others about her in the forums you should say who it is and point to the reviews.

TJWrong

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30-Oct-09, 10:37 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: Screened"
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Why are you upset? looks like the two of you are not really compatible anyhow; if you treated the reviewed provider in question fine as you define it, but the lady you called thinks you treated her like shit, then the 2 of you should agree to disagree and you should happily go about the business of finding someone more in line with your thinking.

The main thing she did wrong was wait to tell you this so I would out her in the NW and be happy you actually didn't see her because it probably would have been a bad session anyhow based on what you have just dewcribed.

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StrongSilentttt
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30-Oct-09, 10:37 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: Screened"
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   What is the providers name or handle who screened you over?

It's only a game...

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30-Oct-09, 10:40 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: Screened"
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Unless you just want to bust a nut, half hour appointments can vary greatly in the experience you get.

Actually I wish more providers would read review of potential dates. It would give them good info on a hobbyist’s preference and style.

I’m not saying that this is what happened in your case, but I’m offering a possible scenario. She books a date with you and while waiting calls a friend who has access to the full reviews and asks for some feedback on you. She gets it and decides that based on your history you and she probably won’t click or her incall is similar to things that you noted as negative in your reviews. So rather than going forward with a session that won’t be satisfactory she cancels.

BTW, this situation doesn’t meet the requirements for being a flake as she told you the deal was off. A flake is when you sit in the parking lot waiting for her to answer your second call and after some period of no response you finally leave wondering what he fuck happened. Or if it’s an outcall she never shows up or calls to tell you she can’t make it.

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Too much sex is still not enough

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30-Oct-09, 11:17 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: Screened"
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   >BTW, this situation doesn’t meet the requirements for being
>a flake as she told you the deal was off. A flake is when
>you sit in the parking lot waiting for her to answer your
>second call and after some period of no response you finally
>leave wondering what he fuck happened. Or if it’s an outcall
>she never shows up or calls to tell you she can’t make it.
>
I agree, I misused the official term. But it was pretty flaky.

TJWrong

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tiga
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30-Oct-09, 11:11 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: Screened"
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LAST EDITED ON 30-Oct-09 AT 11:12 AM (PST)
 
Her screening worked perfectly, she only wants guys that give lapdog reviews.

By only accepting lapdog reviewers, this girls reviews will be skewed higher, regardless of quality of service. To maintain the integrity of the review system guys should just not give out their review handle. Next time a girl asks just say you don't write reviews or give the handle of some lapdog.

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ngsfmale click here to view user rating
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30-Oct-09, 11:24 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: Screened"
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   This just contrary to all we are trying to achieve, let providers know our handle.

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luckiest1
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27-Nov-09, 09:34 PM (PST)
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22. "RE: Screened"
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Well said..........

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NealDown click here to view user rating
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30-Oct-09, 06:04 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: Screened"
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I had a similar thing happen to me so I don't give providers my hobby handle. A provider referral/reference should be enough screening in most cases.

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callecochrane
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30-Oct-09, 08:05 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: Screened"
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   There are definitely some ladies out there who choose to follow that pattern. I don't know if it's because they are less confident, don't want to work as hard for a good review, truly feel that we've aggrieved a peer, only want to hang with their lapdog friends, or some other reason. But all of us who've written a less than stellar review, have gone through what you went through. If either person has at any time, any doubts whatsoever as to the quality of a session, it's always best to just let it go and move on. No harm, no foul.

We (ladies and gentlemen), all choose how we want to operate on rb. It's a totality of all our experiences that gets us to a certain point. And I would have to say that I'm just as guilty as the ladies who follow that pattern because I do something similar. If a lady has no reviews, I pass her by. If a lady has less than mostly 9s and 10s on her reviews, I pass her by. And if a lady has even one no show on her reviews, I pass her by. That's where my experiences have taken me, and that's probably where their experiences have taken them. For me, this hobby is way too expensive, so I always do my homework, stick to my rules, and I'm usually extremely happy with the results.

I'm sorry you had your experience. Welcome to the club. But let her go, and find someone you can hit it with.

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kemp click here to view user rating
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31-Oct-09, 03:58 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: Screened"
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   Since she refuses to serve you can you please out her? Save your brothers the same embarrasment of a hooker turning yo u down.

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01-Nov-09, 05:48 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Screened"
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   For goodness sakes why do you frickin care? These gals are a dime a dozen even though they've created the lacy euphemism of 'providers' what nonsense; still trying to make a silk purse out of a sows ear), look at the ads there are bushels of 'em - like bumper crops of pumpkins. Pick one you like, shake hands and do your business with them, then throw their number away and get another one. And to heck with those that require screening (btw, they aren't any more worth it (than girls who don't) and are usually seriously overpriced) there are BUNCHES of ladies who are all to willing to see you part with your benjamin - screening or not.

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12. "RE: Screened"
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   LAST EDITED ON 01-Nov-09 AT 06:41 PM (PST)
 
Have to agree with tiga in this thread, he nailed it, her screening really did work perfectly she was afraid of an honest review that might not be filled with praise.

What we learn from all this is NOT to trust some reviews by girls who do require references and or do detailed screening, they will always be very positive.

Alternatively, you have to use a different handle for your honest and truthful reviews that aren't "glowing" with praise and another for your solid 8's and above.

And, as sexproject7 alluded, move on, plenty of others that don't play these petty games with better service and no hassles.

How sad.

L4B

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01-Nov-09, 06:42 PM (PST)
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13. "RE: Screened"
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   i'd review her on just that alone!.... that you drove to her location and given the run-around.

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14. "RE: Screened"
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   LAST EDITED ON 01-Nov-09 AT 07:05 PM (PST)
 
i had an interesting situation happen recently... i reviewed a provider a while back and gave her a satisfactory review; she was horrible! mean and disrespectful... i gave her a high score on looks and the score she deserved for service.
i received an inbox from her almost a year later asking me to help her by removing the review and she would give me a FREE SERVICE because (her words) "i really screwed-up her money"!??? i replied and said that i didn't think that my 1 mediocre review of her had much to do with her money loss... and i told her that i believe it had more to do with the economy and lack of return clients... ? i said that the review was fair... but would be willing to give her another shot. i told her that i would pay for the service... because i believe in fairness and didn't want to taint the session...(which i knew would have been tainted anyway) of course i never heard back from her. i noticed that she is still giving poor service and thinks that she can get by on looks alone! GOOD LUCK!

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sky_diver_1980
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05-Nov-09, 03:55 PM (PST)
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15. "RE: Screened"
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I have had a similar experience with one of the agencies.

I submitted a 8.5-ish review and received an email from her assistant the following week saying that if I wanted to see her again that I would need to write straight 10s.

We sent a couple of emails back and forth arguing about it, but that's life. I was basically saying that my review pretty much said what the others thought as well (pretty, face, good service but not very good service).

Providers obviously try to have as good as reviews as possible with as little effort as possible. It is up to the men to stay objective, because the main purpose of reviews is not to make providers look good but to let men know what the providers are like.

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golf72
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17-Nov-09, 08:13 AM (PST)
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16. "RE: Screened"
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   We should protect the guys and post accurate reviews.

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AndyDufresne click here to view user rating
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17-Nov-09, 10:20 AM (PST)
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17. "RE: Screened"
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I've noticed some guys give out all tens and every woman they see is fantastic. Those are the guys we have to worry about. Do not compromise or take any shit from anyone ever.

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18. "RE: Screened"
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   NEVER give out info. You deserve getting screwed if you do

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20. "RE: Screened"
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   I often wait a few weeks or more to submit my reviews so that providers are less likely to make a connection between me and my handle for similar reasons. Even if I'm going to give a glowing review.

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27-Nov-09, 03:21 PM (PST)
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21. "RE: Screened"
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All any provider needs to know from me is my name, my number, what services I am requesting, and the appt date, time, and place. If she wants more than that, she can go to hell.

It is none of her business who else I reviewed OR who else I've seen. A provider that I've seen doesn't need to know who else I'm seeing instead of her. I also have no time to wait for the screening to complete.

So I avoid those who want references and do all that screening BS. I prefer word of mouth on who the good providers are and as a result I don't have bad sessions.

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sportsman20 click here to view user rating
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28-Nov-09, 09:16 AM (PST)
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23. "RE: Screened"
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Im starting to think it is better for all (hobbiests) to respond by RB inbox to 411 requests instead of leaving reviews. That way all the lapdogs who leave all 10s would become irrelevant (more so than they already have) and the real info on the providers would be in the hands of those who want it and it would more likely be honest because there would be few repercussions for honesty. The only downside is that the email could be reporduced and sent to a provider but the damage would be far less than posting on the review board.

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30-Nov-09, 05:39 AM (PST)
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24. "RE: Screened"
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I don't know how a provider knows who reviewed her in the first place. I don't use the same name to review providers as my name here. I don't write the review right away either. Providers don't need to know my rb screen name either. Just too much information.

I prefer to see providers and their friends and their friends' friends and their friends' friends' friends. No references. That's BS. Also eliminates the bad experiences. In fact, I only have good ones this way.

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25. "RE: Screened"
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This is an important thread. I like to go for variety, so checking reviews is part of the process. It pisses me off when I see lapdog and obvious manager reviews. There's one guy in the East Bay who has three pages worth of provider reviews and they all receive 9's and 10's.

The guy described one ghetto trash ho as "his little poet" and then he went on to describe how they held each other all night discussing poetry. This review for a chick who advertises 15 minute blo and go's and has pimp tats on her tits...

I agree with others. If a provider gets vindictive calls you out on a bad (but honest) review, then you should post her handle on here.

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