I am somewhat surprised that other Men have not been asked for loans and reported it. In a recession, and with all the CL bimbo pimped hookers everywhere, has your ATF no longer asked you for loans....

We all know not to do this since she should borrow from her family or other Hooker chums if she is in needs but total saps abound that will never get repaid so this is the target audience.

So......How often have you been hit up recently given the current economic climate?

For those who do give out loans, for whatever reason, how efficient was the payback? Any hassles or issues?

L4B

My track record (over 30+ years)

Lending money, receiving cash in return (1 out of 4)
(NOTE: THe 3 out of 4 losses were Moderate to large. Shame on me) The one gal that paid back in cash (and promptly) was a SW in the TL. Go figure!

Lending money as an advance against future sessions at 1:>1 (2 out of 2) (1-1/2 to 2 sessions for 1 session lent)

Lending money as an advance against future sessions at 1:1 (4 out of 6) (lower end dates, I waived "interest")

I typically don't lend money unless I've seen the lady 4 or 5 times and develop a "little rapport".

DaiLun

Be the change
you wish to see

TJWrong

Yeah, I'm just kidding. Sort of...

Considerations that guide my thinking when asked for a loan:

1. I am in control over how much to “lend.” As the old farmer said, “when you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging.”

2. I am not a bank. Banks don’t loan money to people with no or bad credit and they don’t use friendship/lust as collateral.

3. I am not in denial in expecting to get paid back. They are in a financial situation that causes them to borrow money, what is likely to change in their future financial condition to be able to repay.

4. I am not a predator using this loan to hold over them to get them to bend to my will/desires.

5. I am not vindictive out to get vengeance if they don't repay. I am not to interfere with the workings of karma.

Communication of consideration # 1 is most important. I explain that just like Visa and MasterCard have credit limits so does the “HighStepper” card. When the credit limit is reached, there are no more loans until the balance is reduced. This has worked well in keeping money issues from messing with the friendship.

"Loaning Providers Money - A Different View"

http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=show_thread&om=29702&forum=DCForumID21&archive=

b3

A couple of general rules I follow - that I learned the hard way..

1. never loan her more than one fucks worth of $

2. Don't expect it back. If you follow #1 then you can minimize how pissed you are for getting burned. When you don't get it back you really realize how much of a ATM you were to them vs a friend.

And not just because they're providers. It's a shitty idea to loan money to anyone if there's any doubt that it won't be paid back. If I'm going to lose a friend over a loan, then better it be for not extending it rather than because the person couldn't pay it back. Now I'm assuming the OP is single as I can't see a married guy ever doing this. But even still, who wants to get that deep into a relationship with someone you pay for service. Would you loan your doctor, plumber or lawyer money?

Everyone gets in a serious cash bind at least once in their life... I certainly have.

When I {help} someone out I give with no strings and no trades and I make this clear up front.

If I treat it as a loan I make this clear also but leave the deal open ended and don't expect a return.

I'm not rolling in dough and sometimes I have helped out providers when I could have used the money elsewhere.

I have some street time under my belt and can read people pretty well, not as well I am certain as Oralio who's words often "Ring True Like Silver On The Saloon Bar" but still , I can read people pretty well.

When a provider asks me for some help because she is in an immediate bind I help her the same as I would anyone else.

There have been times when a provider was in a desperate state and I really felt good about helping.

Over thirty years ago when I lived in Shasta County, I was bitten by a Rattle Snake in the hay fields and was immobile for almost a month, and dead broke, hungry and was flopping in an old trailer that was on a guy's property.

The foreman from another ranch who barely knew me stopped by to see how I was doing and asked me if I needed any dough until I got back on my feet.

I asked him if he could loan me twenty bucks, he gave me thirty and that money bought me enough canned food and two bags of rolling tobacco to sustain me until I got back to work, bucking hay for 10 cents a bail.

I paid the guy back.....

We all have our own life experiences which affect and define our behavior later in life.

So that's my slant on the issue and I don't have any opinion in regard to what anyone else posted here; Because everyone has their own opinion and they are wellcome to it... Even Gusy........

maybe I got way off subject here but what the hell...

NOHASSLES

p.s.

It is easier "To Have A Need Not to Know" Which often makes for comfort; But not for knowing what it is to be human...

pss.

Nealdown,
I loaned my Accountant and my Lawyer money in the past... I'm dead serious.... lmao ! .. ?

Mick Cooper

Whore are whores and they can never be anything else

When they start loaning sex, I can loan money

http://www.virginmoneyus.com/Virgin_Money_Social_Loans/tabid/447/Default.aspx

This won't stop them from defaulting on the loan but it gives you
some avenue ot collect later and penalize their credit score. Regardless
I have problems getting my brothers to pay me back so no way I'd
loan a hooker money under any circumstances.

Nuff said