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"smaller waist bigger sex drive"
 
   At my age, just over sixty I never thought that my sex drive would increase but I found that after dieting for five months, dropping fifty pounds in the process, and several belt sizes, it did, both in stamina and appetite. Just curious if anyone else has experienced similar positive results, or effects in the relationship between sex and losing weight.

I feel as strong as a hundred camels in a courtyard.

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1. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   LAST EDITED ON 31-Oct-09 AT 08:18 PM (PST)
 
Well I'm impressed. Congrats, George - well done!

I'll let you know how it worked for me in five months. I'll keep this post as something to shoot for.

Prevert

ps - maybe it's about time you think about changing your icon

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2. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   i never had a weight problem but at 80 my sex drive is great as it ever was..the only thing that slows me down is money . my motto is--if you want to-and you can-why the hell not .keep on trucking.

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3. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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I think it's reasonable to assume that if someone, man or woman, does something for themselves that makes them feel more desirable that their sex drive would go up. While I've never been more than 20 lbs overweight, I know I feel like a stuck pig when I'm that heavy and can't bear looking at myself in a mirror. And, as incredibly vain and stupid as it sounds, I won't see really hot providers when I'm heavy figuring that I either don't deserve to or don't want to have someone that good-looking see me at less than my best ... which, at 49, isn't all that great anyway.

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17. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   Somewhat different topic, but even at $200+ an hour they should be able to tolerate imperfections! I should thank you, as you have helped me get over that. I never realized it was an issue of vanity.

As someone who has lost a significant amount of weight only to find it again, I can offer that it does help your self esteem and drive.

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4. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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Good job! Having extra weight on your body is not good for anything let alone for sex.Go have fun you only live once!

SB68

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5. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   Good job, keep up the good work. I've always been within 5 pounds of my high school weight so I have no input here.

However, for me age has been a big factor with sex drive inversely related to age. The big drop off happened in the mid 40's for me.

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6. "Age, for sure"
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   A huge change for me, happening right now (early-40's).

I get a boner on average twice a week. Used to be a half-dozen times a day when I was younger!

Get horny enough to check ads about once every month. Get horny enough to do a session about once every 2-3 months. Used to be in my early 30's I'd check ads obsesssively every day, and do a session 3-5 times a week!

With regard to civilian women, I can look at young (mid-20's) DDG girls in the face, smile at them politely, and carry on a normal conversation, effortlessly, having no illusions or interest in actually fucking them, and dealing with them as just normal people, rather than not even being able to see them beyond my fevered fantasies of what I'd want to do with them. In fact, I rarely get such fevered fantasies at all, and when I do, it's about a few crushes I still maintain (alas, on a couple married MILFs I work with, so no go there).

A young guy I work with said he couldn't even look this one young girl his age in the face, she was too hot (and he lives with his GF), he would be too affected by even looking at her. I met her, shook her hand, and didn't think twice about her; yeah she was hot, but so what? It took me a lot of effort to remember feeling that tormented by sexual desire, or that uncontrollably attracted to anyone. I was never very good or disciplined at hiding it. I was one of those handsy, overly-attentive, over-the-top-flirty guys when I was young-- a sexual harrassment lawsuit waiting to happen (and it almost did too). I creeped most women out, big time. Now, I don't give a shit, which makes it easy to be a gentleman. Now I also understand why really hot women sometimes go for us older guys, too!

I'm relieved, actually. I feel like I've been (mostly) released from a lifetime of terrible, endless torture. It was horrible at times, really. I didn't have the social skills to carry on a relationship or even to get laid very effectively, and I never developed the self-discipline to "act cool" and hide my burning neediness. I couldn't think of anything else besides sex, and I did lots of stupid and occasionally evil shit just out of need for it.

I was going to say that I was sick or addicted, but, looking around at young guys I work with, and remembering how my friends were at that age, I don't think that what I was feeling was too far different from what most guys feel. I just didn't have the discipline to control it or hide it very well. I spent a lot of money feeding my needs, and a lot of time making money with which to do that.

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8. "RE: Age, for sure"
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   Aching,

Well said! I can relate to that.

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9. "RE: Age, for sure"
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Aching,

I just reaching the big Four Zero and got a little depressed.

I used to get a boner every morning waking up and throughout the days. Now, some days I don't even get a boner or thing about girls any more. Kinda scary territory for me. I hate to think what gonna happened in another twenty years or so. It's kinda sad when I think about it.

Like you said, twenty years ago, sitting in the mall I would think which ladies are doable and how. Now, I think about other stuff and not think about girls the whole time.

Uncharted territory for me. Getting old. Just freaking me out.

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11. "RE: Age, for sure"
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I feel similarly, although my boners are more frequent, not that you asked.

One thing I have noticed is if you do not go all apeshit when you are talking to really hot women, they kind of like that.

They are used to dudes getting all weird around them, drooling and saying incredibly stupid things to them, so anything different than that seems to appeal to them.

Not giving a shit is a win win situation.

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23. "RE: Age, for sure"
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>One thing I have noticed is if you do not go all apeshit when you are talking to really hot women...

Pretty funny post for a monkeydick.

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7. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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LAST EDITED ON 01-Nov-09 AT 01:58 PM (PST)
 
Thats why I admire Jack Lalane. Used to watch him every morning on KTVU.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_LaLanne

Every doctor, fitness expert & health professional knows theres no remedy to good health than maintaining regular exercise.

Easy George! Friendly advice. I know there's that urge to make used of this now found strenght .... I know I did. My pelvic muscle was aching from all that bouncing & watch the pocketbook.

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10. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   Absolutely, I wasn't very overweight but when I dropped 15lbs I had a lot more energy and stamina.

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12. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Nov-09 AT 12:45 PM (PST)
 
Now I know why dieting and fitness are such big business. The body will slow down no matter what you do to it. Anyone taking Testrosterone? Care to share the effects.

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13. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   ngsfmale,

Sorry if this is not the effect you were looking for.

I can share the effects of a spare tire around your middle. In a complicated metabolic process, it causes your body to convert more of your testosterone into the female hormone estradiol. It is stored in the fat. The extra estradiol sends a message to your pituitary gland which is the master controller of your hormone production to slow down production in the testes of guess what, testosterone. Though there is no way we can stop the natural decrease in our bodies production of testosterone as we age, we can so something about it if we have a the stomach for it.

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14. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   Georgie, what you are telling me is fat dudes, can't fuck. I can see that it is hard to fuck with a Fat Tire around your waist, drank too much Fat Tire. I know as a fact that there are a lot of horny fat dudes.

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15. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   When I was bigger, I'd have less energy. Now that I'm more fit..I can go on and on. I also feel more confident in my body.

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18. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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>Now I know why dieting and fitness are such big business.
>The body will slow down no matter what you do to it. Anyone
>taking Testrosterone? Care to share the effects.

It makes your dong like a piece of iron.

The reason fat men have low sex drives is aromatase driven levels of estrogen. Basically, your fat is converting testosterone to estrogen. I know this sounds like BS, but it ain't. Bodybuilders learn all about this when we go to bodybuilding school.

Want to keep young? Keep lean.

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19. "Bitch tits!"
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   LAST EDITED ON 14-Nov-09 AT 08:16 PM (PST)
 
For some reason, when I read this, I can't help thinking of Robert Paulson from Fight Club.

"Bob. Bob had bitch tits."

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20. "RE: Bitch tits!"
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Lolz; you don't want them, bro. I've had estro dump after a trenbolone cycle; I didn't grow tits, but I sure felt like a bitch. A very veiny and muscular bitch, but a bitch none the less. Crying at hallmark commercials and everything.

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16. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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Well I have lost 175 lbs. Not only has my sex drive gone through the roof, but I gained length and girth where it counts. I do know some experts say it does not really get bigger, just more of it is revealed, but that does not explain the increase in girth.

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21. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   Well move over guys and let Fat Bob have a word.

I've lost 20 pounds and three inches off the my waist in a year. I use the treadmill every day and have changed my food choices.

Now I have more energy and can pound the girls at my local provider AMP like nobody's business. In fact, I find it amusing that the girls really like keeping track of my weight loss...

I can pass on the desserts with impunity!


The Eagle has spoken!

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22. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   50 lbs! jeez, that's huge. congratulations!

My guess would be that you're finally able to *see* your wiener for the first time in ages without a hand mirror. Loosing 50 lbs would be like a reunion with a long lost friend. No wonder you're hornier.

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24. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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   > At my age, just over sixty I never thought that my sex
>drive would increase but I found that after dieting for five
>months, dropping fifty pounds in the process, and several
>belt sizes, it did, both in stamina and appetite. Just
>curious if anyone else has experienced similar positive
>results, or effects in the relationship between sex and
>losing weight.

I don't know. When I pile on the meat and potatoes, the libido seems to increase. Perhaps due to the SUPER-HIGH protein content in Rib and T-bone steaks...

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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25. "RE: smaller waist bigger sex drive"
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In case this helps. Testosterone treatment actually was a big boost. Doctor prescribed a gel which you rub on every morning. Was diagnosed with low levels as I approached 50. The upside ? Easier to excercise, not tired all the time, and my 'buddy' is happier more often Go to your doctor and ask them to check your levels (blood test) and you may be suprised. Normal levels are 275-1200. I was 250 or so. Granted, don't want 1200 as I'm sure I'd go broke hobbying. But being somewhere in the middle sure is a nice fountain of youth that you could have your medical plan pay for.

btw- throw in some blue pills and I can only imagine what would happen. Don't you just love science ?

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