As someone who has lost a significant amount of weight only to find it again, I can offer that it does help your self esteem and drive.

I get a boner on average twice a week. Used to be a half-dozen times a day when I was younger!

Get horny enough to check ads about once every month. Get horny enough to do a session about once every 2-3 months. Used to be in my early 30's I'd check ads obsesssively every day, and do a session 3-5 times a week!

With regard to civilian women, I can look at young (mid-20's) DDG girls in the face, smile at them politely, and carry on a normal conversation, effortlessly, having no illusions or interest in actually fucking them, and dealing with them as just normal people, rather than not even being able to see them beyond my fevered fantasies of what I'd want to do with them. In fact, I rarely get such fevered fantasies at all, and when I do, it's about a few crushes I still maintain (alas, on a couple married MILFs I work with, so no go there).

A young guy I work with said he couldn't even look this one young girl his age in the face, she was too hot (and he lives with his GF), he would be too affected by even looking at her. I met her, shook her hand, and didn't think twice about her; yeah she was hot, but so what? It took me a lot of effort to remember feeling that tormented by sexual desire, or that uncontrollably attracted to anyone. I was never very good or disciplined at hiding it. I was one of those handsy, overly-attentive, over-the-top-flirty guys when I was young-- a sexual harrassment lawsuit waiting to happen (and it almost did too). I creeped most women out, big time. Now, I don't give a shit, which makes it easy to be a gentleman. Now I also understand why really hot women sometimes go for us older guys, too!

I'm relieved, actually. I feel like I've been (mostly) released from a lifetime of terrible, endless torture. It was horrible at times, really. I didn't have the social skills to carry on a relationship or even to get laid very effectively, and I never developed the self-discipline to "act cool" and hide my burning neediness. I couldn't think of anything else besides sex, and I did lots of stupid and occasionally evil shit just out of need for it.

I was going to say that I was sick or addicted, but, looking around at young guys I work with, and remembering how my friends were at that age, I don't think that what I was feeling was too far different from what most guys feel. I just didn't have the discipline to control it or hide it very well. I spent a lot of money feeding my needs, and a lot of time making money with which to do that.

Well said! I can relate to that.

I just reaching the big Four Zero and got a little depressed.

I used to get a boner every morning waking up and throughout the days. Now, some days I don't even get a boner or thing about girls any more. Kinda scary territory for me. I hate to think what gonna happened in another twenty years or so. It's kinda sad when I think about it.

Like you said, twenty years ago, sitting in the mall I would think which ladies are doable and how. Now, I think about other stuff and not think about girls the whole time.

Uncharted territory for me. Getting old. Just freaking me out.

One thing I have noticed is if you do not go all apeshit when you are talking to really hot women, they kind of like that.

They are used to dudes getting all weird around them, drooling and saying incredibly stupid things to them, so anything different than that seems to appeal to them.

Not giving a shit is a win win situation.

Pretty funny post for a monkeydick.

Sorry if this is not the effect you were looking for.

I can share the effects of a spare tire around your middle. In a complicated metabolic process, it causes your body to convert more of your testosterone into the female hormone estradiol. It is stored in the fat. The extra estradiol sends a message to your pituitary gland which is the master controller of your hormone production to slow down production in the testes of guess what, testosterone. Though there is no way we can stop the natural decrease in our bodies production of testosterone as we age, we can so something about it if we have a the stomach for it.

It makes your dong like a piece of iron.

The reason fat men have low sex drives is aromatase driven levels of estrogen. Basically, your fat is converting testosterone to estrogen. I know this sounds like BS, but it ain't. Bodybuilders learn all about this when we go to bodybuilding school.

Want to keep young? Keep lean.

"Bob. Bob had bitch tits."

I've lost 20 pounds and three inches off the my waist in a year. I use the treadmill every day and have changed my food choices.

Now I have more energy and can pound the girls at my local provider AMP like nobody's business. In fact, I find it amusing that the girls really like keeping track of my weight loss...

I can pass on the desserts with impunity!

The Eagle has spoken!

btw- throw in some blue pills and I can only imagine what would happen. Don't you just love science ?