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jbplayer
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"References Needed?"
 
   I really want to set up an appointment with a provider but she requires 2 references. I have not meet wiht anyone from RB yet so I can't provide references. Do I have to suck it up and see a few providers that don't require ? Any suggestions?

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1. "RE: References Needed?"
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In short....yes. We all start somewhere. Jump in the pool and just go for it. I know Daniela Rae doesn't require references and is one of the best in the valley.

HL

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2. "RE: References Needed?"
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For the most part, that is correct. Many of us find wonderful providers that don't require references, and then refer to those ladies (with their permission) to start seeing those providers that do require references.

There are other options sometimes such as work references, however I personally am not comfortable giving that much personal information away.

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3. "RE: References Needed?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Nov-09 AT 09:54 AM (PST)
 
What did she tell you when you called her? You have called right?

She might not require any references and just have that in her ad, not unusual, and if you don't call you'll never find out.

Tell her you don't have any and work from there. This doesn't require a great deal of thought, every Hooker is going to be different, explain your situation and if she says "no", and doesn't give you any alternative whatsoever, forget about it and find someone who does want your business and $$$. There isn't the slightest thing "special" with a girl who wants references, anyone can ask/request them, this doesn't make her the best thing since sliced bread.

There are almost endless threads on references, search for them.

Sometimes if they truly want references they will take a work phone or will meet you in some public place instead. Call and ask. Far too much hassle and time consuming/wasting for me to bother with, but you do what you feel OK with.

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HappyNoodle
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4. "RE: References Needed?"
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I was in the same situation jbplayer, until recently. Business is pretty slow for many of the girls these days (tis the season for property taxes, family vacations, and expensive gifts for the kids), so some who ordinarily require references have been willing to make an exception. Consider writing a polite email to a provider that you really want to see and be upfront about your situation vis-a-vis the references. It never hurts to ask, and if you can convey to her that you are not a psycho who plans to bring garbage bags, duct tape and hack saws to the session, you might get lucky.

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spiff
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19. "RE: References Needed?"
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   > Consider writing a polite email

I have not had any luck with that. I think it falls under the "if you don't want a no, don't ask" rule.

Instead I just call them and ask for an appointment. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but with the email approach, I got 100% insisting on the references.

To be frank, my sample is pretty small.

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Proximo
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22. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Email has worked for me about 1/2 the time. Mostly I don't bother with girls who require references as I like to see girls on short notice. The whole reference thing takes a whole lot longer and none of the girls I've sent references to have ever been able to confirm them.

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LanceP
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5. "RE: References Needed?"
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   I suggest http://www.datecheck.com . This service is very discreet.

Certainly there are few exclusive prostitutes that only need a referral from known Gents. Small circle and a code.

Keep trying and good luck.

Lance

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6. "RE: References Needed?"
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   >I suggest http://www.datecheck.com . This service is very
>discreet.

I suggest that people NOT put their information in a database like this. I cannot believe that people do this. Very discreet, lol.


.:. quality not quantity .:.

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8. "Bull shit!"
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   Other than your "exclusive" high price hoes, of the 50+ RB "high class" (regular prostitutes to you) escorts I've seen, almost none mentioned nor used DateCheck.

How many "regular" RB prostitutes have you seen close & personal? Really.

It's stupid to trust an on-line database.

jbplayer, you better listen to REAL RB hobbyists such as L4B.

Jackasses & pedophiles. WHY? WHY? WHY?

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LanceP
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12. "RE: Fine"
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   Sir, it was just a mere suggestion as I have never had a problem with this comapny. I travel and it's convenient for me. So far, so well.

I do not understand the term "regular RB prostitutes".

I have an ATF or two there and initially did not need any references at all. I never use them as references because it is none of their business who I choose to meet with.

Pardon me if I upset you.

Peace, good luck,and enjoy,
Lance

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7. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Many reference-requiring girls think that they are in a whole new class higher than those providers who don't. So when she discovers that your references don't require references themselves, she may never call you back.

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9. "RE: References Needed?"
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The preverbal endless loop… She won’t see you unless you have references and the providers that do references won’t see you because you don’t have references… and so on and so on and so on…

Big TITS boggle my wits...

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10. "RE: References Needed?"
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   I would strongly suggest to the OP (or anyone in the same boat) to first call the girl they want to see and ask if it is allright if his references are girls that don't require references. Hearing that, either the girl will say yay/nay OR HOPEFULLY...

"Welllllllll, let me see...okay...I'll make an exception this one time and see you!"

It would suck if someone sees two girls he doesn't feel anything for only to be denied by the provider he really wants to see. That's money down the toilet.

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11. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Dude the world is not running out of pussy. Find someone else.

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TantricPlayer
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13. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Sometimes either to get an early appointment without a reference rather than calling for one after dark.

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16. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Good point...I play during the day, so I dont enter any vampires dens!

Love the one you're with

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14. "RE: References Needed?"
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I keep getting :

Hello there. We won't be able to accept that company as a reference. You
will need to get verified through the verification companies we accept
like RoomService2000.com, Date-check.com, or

from a well know US agency WTF.... those are pay sites?

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15. "RE: References Needed?"
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yep go session with a few gals that dont need as much reference info...
I did that ... and had so much fun I forgot about the 2 reference female ..

now its easier ..

dong

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17. "RE: References Needed?"
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   this woman is one of the highest, most extensively rated providers on this site and asks no references for incalls...

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18. "RE: References Needed?"
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   Dude she is 6 ft tall.

Besides if you wanted to do someone harm you would see a couple of ladies who don't require references to develop reference base and harm the girl who required reference. If that was to happen would the reference ladies give you a bad reference in the future?

Does anyone really believe references serve any purpose.

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21. "RE: References Needed?"
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Sure there are some flaws in the system.

Of course, who would tell a provider to call their old bad experiences for a reference.
But at least it does give a little insite that he's seen at least someone in the past. He's not a lurker who doesn't ever see anyone and he's not a known abusive jerk.

Of course, they know that they are stuck with only the good experiences, but its the same risk that we take. Just because a provider has a good review doesn't mean that she didn't have a bad seesion with someone who didn't review it for us.

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20. "RE: References Needed?"
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Yeah, the whole references thing was wierd for me at first.
Some of us keep our provider lists short and even though its just business, your mind creates this illusion of an exclusive relationship with your providers.
Then when you want to try something new, having the new provider call one of your regulars might feel a little weird. Especially when you think you are still going to use the regular in the future. Sort of feels like having your girlfriend call your wife for permission. You get over it.

But really, most of the good providers are okay with being called. The system is there to protect them all. They all need to stick together too. Some ads will actually say "Reference friendly"

I took the bullet at one point and made sure I went to a couple credible providers before I went to my "reference only" girl.

Some providers will also forgo the reference requirement if you have reviews in the system.
If you REALLY REALLY have a hard time getting some reputable experience behind your belt first, I would just inbox her first and try to develop a rapport.

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23. "RE: References Needed?"
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IT IS TOO MUCH.REFERENCE FOR FUCKING THEM. EVEN I HAVE ,WILL NEVER RELEASE MY PERSONAL CONFIDENTAL TO THEM. THEY ARE LOT OF OTHER PROVIDER NO NEED REFERENCE.

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24. "RE: References Needed?"
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   I've seen over a dozen providers in the past couple of years, and when they ask or require a reference, I don't even bother or waste my time, reason is when a man calls a provider for some ass, he does"t want to feel like he's applying for a job, or a credit card, all he wants is some ass nothing more nothing less. Also you can find a girl that you are comfortable with and stick with her, like me I would meet a provider and if we click then every session will get better & better. Good luck with your search!!!

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25. "RE: References Needed?"
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   You could start out with 3 no-screen providers...then ask each of them for 3 referrals to others just like them

then you'll have 9

then ask each of them for 3 referrals each

Now you got 27

3 again each and you got 81..by this time, you're set for life...or dead broke.

This is called Network Mating.... LOL!

Where there's a willy, there's a way!

Or go to a mixer and meet them in person and add to your todo-list

or write a post and inbox a responder you like...

So many ways to skin the pussy..I mean the cat! LOL!

Love the one you're with

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