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POLL: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'll be unfriendly in person?
Posted by vykyng on 10-Nov-09, 07:10 PM PST
POLL ENDED: Result after a total of 69 votes

Yes: that's been my experience. 51 votes, 73%
No: there's no correlation. 18 votes, 26%

 
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1. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   That is one of my criteria when I'm looking for a playmate. It shows whether or not she's a generally happy person which generally leads to a FUN time.

No smile, no go. That's one of the benefits of chat, getting to see some of the ladies in real time. I wish more of our lovely ladies used that resource.

Fs

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2. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   I know that when I'm having my picture taken, and someone says "smile", I can't do it. The best I can do is a grin. I don't have a fake smile. Only something worth smiling about makes me smile.
So I get it when they're not smiling.

Having said that, I do like to get some sense of kindness and good nature from a photo. It doesn't have to be a smile, but certainly not a snarl either.
I think a lot of them are trying to look seductive or smoldering, or something, when in fact they come across looking either bored or pissed off.

There are plenty of non-smiling pictures here that are still appealing.
Maybe it's just me and I'm projecting personality into the photos, but I try to get a vibe from the mood of the photo more than just the pose and facial expression..

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9. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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>I know that when I'm having my picture taken, and someone
>says "smile", I can't do it. The best I can do is a grin. I
>don't have a fake smile. Only something worth smiling about
>makes me smile.
>So I get it when they're not smiling.
---
Youre just providing a way out..I dont let people take photos of me if Im not enjoying myself.

If they're enjoying a photo shoot, they're comfortable with themselves, it means a lot.

If they cant get into the risque business of a photo shoot, then they aint gonna be all that into you later on.

Thats the major difference between a 3* and a 5* provider..giving a shit and enjoying it.

Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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3. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
In response to message #1
 
   > It shows whether or not she's a generally happy person which
>generally leads to a FUN time.

Or shows she can fake it well enough anyway, generally leading to a fun time.

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4. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   Not smiling = pimped

Always one to pass on.

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5. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   Those who are not pimped, the not smiling likely means that she doesn't enjoy what she does. She just needs the money, so wants to do this temporarily and get it over with. Not good obviously for the hobbyist.

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6. "Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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   not smiling + bathroom mirror cellphone photo == stay the fuck away.

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7. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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   do you mind elaborating on this??

I don't see why that's such a bad thing

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10. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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You see nothing fundamentally wrong, with a lady taking a grainy cell phone shot, in a hotel bathroom, who cant smile?


Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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13. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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   Who said they had to be smart or organized?

Just an example, say a nonpro wants to give it a shot but she wants to keep her identity a bit hidden. She checks into a hotel and then snaps a picture of herself and then publishes her ad.

Maybe the shot is grainy...maybe she's nervous (hence the no smiling)...

You know, next time, instead of answering a reasonably-asked question with another question, you might want to consider enlightening others with this "fundamental" knowledge that you have. We'd all expect that of someone with 10000+ posts.

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14. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
In response to message #13
 
LAST EDITED ON 16-Nov-09 AT 02:02 PM (PST)
 
>Who said they had to be smart or organized?
---
Most of us that wont call a dim looking unhappy woman in a hotel bathroom. SOME intelligence, and some organization would be considered selling points.

You're avoiding the "could give a shit" look on their faces.

>Just an example, say a nonpro wants to give it a shot but
>she wants to keep her identity a bit hidden. She checks
>into a hotel and then snaps a picture of herself and then
>publishes her ad.
---
Youre missing the "could give a shit" look on their faces again.


>Maybe the shot is grainy...maybe she's nervous (hence the no
>smiling)...
---
Then she's not smart enough to understand she's selling a product, or plain pimped/not happy with the situation/etc, and most of us aint gonna call her. Thats called walking into a shitty session for the most part.


>You know, next time, instead of answering a
>reasonably-asked question with another question, you might
>want to consider enlightening others with this "fundamental"
>knowledge that you have. We'd all expect that of someone
>with 10000+ posts.
---
My 'fundamental' observations on shitty unhappy photos, are inline with the greater RB observations on the same.

When everyone around you seems crazy...maybe its you?

Edit: And..thats 73% of us that say its you.


Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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15. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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   I think you are looking too deeply into this and generalizing. I was responding to the guy who said that no smiling with a bathroom mirror cell phone picture means to stay away...and I simply played the devil's advocate by giving a girl who does that the benefit of the doubt. You have added more information into this and none of it is for sure and you can't blindly tag that on the girl. She can still see a happy (yet shy), true independent (not pimped), cell phone picture taking (pissing off the pro photgraphers), and smart (wanting to make some extra money). I can imagine a housewife doing it, for example. Maybe to you every girl who wants to be a provider wants to be a professional and MUST take professional pictures, plan it out to the T, even be pimped or managed. Anyway, these are just my observations. Sorry if you think it's crazy to think so

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17. "It's not rocket science"
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   It's just been my experience. I don't have a hugely airtight mathematically-rigorous theory why it is so; it is just so in my experience (and apparently that of the dude you got into a pissing match with too, and, according to him, 73% of the RB guys too).

If a girl looks miserable, desperate, bored, uncaring, and/or under duress, she's not usually going to be the happiest, most outgoing, most joyful, enthusiastic provider. It's a correlation; and correlation does not infer causality. At worst-- and this has happened to me-- you could be in for a life-threatening run-in with their pimp. Just sayin'. So I steer clear of girls who look like they are having a miserable time; it works well for me.

On the other side of the coin, one thing I notice about the Tantra types, is that they charge a shitload of money, but they sure are happy-looking (in pictures, and in person). Then again, I'd be happy-looking too if I were charging 30% more than competitors and getting away with it. And then again, if I were happy and joyful and spiritually-awakened or whatever, I'd be delivering sessions that could get people to pay 30% more for them too. See, it's not so easy to untangle all the circles of causality here.

Nor is it necessary. My experience has been what it's been, and I shared it. You can either take note of it, or just ignore me, either of which would be fine. But arguing to convince me or anyone else to deny what our own eyes, ears, and body have experienced, is not a recipe for success.

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23. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
In response to message #15
 
LAST EDITED ON 29-Nov-09 AT 00:33 AM (PST)
 
>I think you are looking too deeply into this and
>generalizing.
---
No..not really.

Welcome to the 27% that dont see it the same way the rest of us do.


I also dont hire miserable looking employees, contractors, or dine where people look unhappy and unkempt either.

See how it works?

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18. "RE: Especially bathroom cellphone photo"
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   I totally agree, if a chic isn't smiling, most likely she is a bitch. Especially if their pictures are taken at Nubian, big red flag for a pimp. That is what I was told by a provider at least.


But, on the contrary, if she is taking pictures with her cellphone or web cam, and no smile in pic, I just think she is being sexy, no big deal. And if they do not show their face, even better. That shows me that they are normal ladies and most likely live in the area that they have their ad posted. Since playing around on this sight, I have found that girls with un professional pictures are the most fun to be with. They are not tainted by pimps, or their girlfriends that have been escorting for years. They really try to have fun with it, and of course the fast cash. Just my opinion though

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8. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   I don't have experience with a lot of providers, but all I can say is that the absolute best experience I've had was with a provider who didn't smile in her picture. I have seen this provider several times now and she is a really fun person who really gets into her sessions. I know that this is only one person out of many so I really can't say that this applies to other providers. And by they way, to the person who said no smile = pimped...not in this case.

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11. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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>I don't have experience with a lot of providers, but all I
>can say is that the absolute best experience I've had was
>with a provider who didn't smile in her picture. I have
>seen this provider several times now and she is a really fun
>person who really gets into her sessions. I know that this
>is only one person out of many so I really can't say that
>this applies to other providers. And by they way, to the
>person who said no smile = pimped...not in this case.
---
There's always some, but then again, there's always the majority as well.


Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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12. "NO :) = P*I*M*P*E*D is Correct"
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   Mr 9 posts says this and OFCOURSE we should all heed his words......


"I don't have experience with a lot of providers, but all I can say is that the absolute best experience I've had was with a provider who didn't smile in her picture. I have seen this provider several times now and she is a really fun person who really gets into her sessions. I know that this is only one person out of many so I really can't say that this applies to other providers. And by they way, to the person who said no smile = pimped...not in this case."

OOOHH REALLY,

Most of us mere mortals actually find this to be the case indeed.
Would you care to share your "hidden gem" (who you wouldn't happen to be managing yourself???) w/the rest of us clueless RB'ers???


THAT IS ALL; As You Were,


mr.BIG

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16. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Nov-09 AT 10:12 PM (PST)
 
I responded yes, but there are exceptions.
I was a photographer in a previous life and am astute at examining photos.
Ive had great results in the past purely going by facial expressions of an ad (which are also a turn on.)
But also I liked SensualGrace in Marin.
She doesnt smile in her pics ,but she is a fox and something told me she was sweet in real life.
I made a good call there.

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19. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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Look at her reviews.

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20. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   Some of the friendliest ladies I've met in this hobby have had non-smiling pics. I think most of them have the idea that they'll look glamorous, as mentioned a few times in this thread. Look at pin-up shots of super models to see where this thinking comes from.

SweetestDesire used to run ads where she wasn't smiling. I've seen MichelleGFE without smiles in some ads. Asian Kay has had a shot with a smile for about a year, but didn't always. MaryRose didn't have a smile when I saw her at the start of this year, but she and I clicked in an amazing way and had a great conversation that made me wish I knew her in the real world.

Some of the ladies are simply great actresses and some of them are genuinely having a good time. Either way, I've been with ladies who have been fun and others who have been real bitches and I don't think lack of a smile necessarily means either one. I've also seen ladies who smiled in the pics and then had a disagreeable attitude. And yes, sometimes you can look at a picture and tell that she hates what she's doing, but don't confuse hates it with thinks this will turn you on.

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21. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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I don't go by the smile in the pic, I go by word of mouth, the appearance of her body, and her reviews.

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22. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   The funnest girl I have ever been with did not smile in her pictures, and she is not pimped. I think that its just her personal on camera to look serious, and dark, but once you are with her in person she is just simply a very sweet girl. I know that this is just one person, but that was me experience.

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24. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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No smile, no boom boom

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25. "RE: The escort is not smiling in her photos. Does that mean she'l"
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   Doesn't matter. If she's hot, she's hot!

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