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The7thStorehouse click here to view user rating
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"One of the biggest problems with many girls"
 
   Either they do not answer their phones nor do they set up their voicemail or voicemail is full.

Any reasonably-minded guy can't help but wonder how these girls make any money running their business this way.


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1. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   I have found that in general, sex workers are the most incompetent communicators of any category of business I've dealt with.

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2. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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It comes down to 'supply and demand'.

Those that have enough inquiries/request have bad communication skills and those that have problems receiving calls are somewhat better.

Another way of telling whether they are good communicators or not is their ring tone

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3. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   I agree it is an issue of supply and demand. Having said that I'll try calling twice and if she doesn't return either call I move on. Frankly, it is rude behavior (how long would it take-really?)and if that's what turns you on get a girlfriend for some real drama.

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5. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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>I have found that in general, sex workers are the most
>incompetent communicators of any category of business I've
>dealt with.

Absolutely could not agree more!!

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10. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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>I have found that in general, sex workers are the most
>incompetent communicators of any category of business I've
>dealt with.

Contractors are the most incompetent airheads around.

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4. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   Notice they aren't very good at returning inbox inquiries either

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6. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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It's kinda like Lotto system. You really have to put your top 5 list and go down the list and see the first girl available.

Having said that, sometime you feel like you want that girl because she's damn fine! Unfortunately, she doesn't feel the same.

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9. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   That's how I feel. When I'm planning a hobby date, I always look for 3-5 possibilities in the hopes of getting one hit. More than once I've had to call on Rosy Palms when no one else would call back.

Of course, then I get the next day call backs...

FS

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7. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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Are you chasing after higher than average rated providers?

Providers who are popular and who are independent operators have less time to answer calls as they increase the number of meetings they have per day ( you don't want them answering calls during sessions right? ).
If a provider does three, 1.5 hour sessions that's 4.5 hours there is no one to answer the phone. If she is charging an average rate and her costs aren't out of control that's a good days pay. So she is done.

[1.5 hours so that can prep before/after an hour session. ]

So someone running their business the right way, if popular, won't necessarily answer every call.

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8. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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>Either they do not answer their phones nor do they set up
>their voicemail or voicemail is full.
>
>Any reasonably-minded guy can't help but wonder how these
>girls make any money running their business this way.
>

Apparently you've never tried to reach a house painter when times are good.

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11. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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You may find as I have that many of those who don't answer phones and have full voicemail boxes use text messaging as their primary means of arranging appointments.

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12. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   another probleM is that some charge way more than they actually think they are gonna get. especially in this market.

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13. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   Simple. They answer their phones as often as they need to in order to get the amount of business they need.

This isn't like buying a book where they can take 100 messages and do fulfillment another time. They can only make money when they work and that's when they answer the phone.

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14. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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they only work when they have to, otherwise they are high somewhere else.

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15. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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There's more than one way to interpret the data. If a girl does not answer her phone or her voice mail is full, it's equally likely that she has all the business she can handle.

Putting it another way, if she throws a party and doesn't invite you or me, that doesn't mean she's unpopular.

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19. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   >if she throws a party

I bet her invite reads:

I'm having a party in my mouth, wanna cum?

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16. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   >Either they do not answer their phones nor do they set up
>their voicemail or voicemail is full.
>
>Any reasonably-minded guy can't help but wonder how these
>girls make any money running their business this way.
>

When the supply of horny men runs out, they're really gonna be in trouble.

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17. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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>When the supply of horny men runs out, they're really gonna
>be in trouble.

LOL, I don't think that's going to happen.

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18. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   Damn Tuna,, is the apocalypse coming

Fs

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20. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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To me, that is a sign that differentiates a good provider from a so-so provider. You have to be open for business. That is one reason why I discourage girls from signing up with MetroPCS. Sure, their unlimited plan is cheap.... because it is so limited. There is very limited voicemail space, just enough to save three to four messages. When I showed a girl how much business she was losing, her jaw dropped to the floor. She tought that business was down. It wasn't. It was her phone that curtailed her business opportunities.

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21. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   Thats the most interesting post,didn't know that either

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22. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   If new, they make BUCKETS of money and don't have to concern themselves with not calling back.

Any new girl on the scene is going to be overwhelmed and especially if she can get a well known monger recommending her and especially in one of the Men PF's.

It lasts a few months then dies down. If she isn't jaded after a few months and is fairly sharp, she can maintain a good level of service after 6 months which is the time to see her. Price has dropped since all the the guys who hit the fresh meat have seen her, and now it's up to her to maintain that level of service.

OTOH, I have called in 3 month intervals, some popular girls over the course of 3 or 4 years and never heard back. I'm not persistent with calling several times a day so that's my problem. Nonetheless, now, they are a bit old and worn I have taken them off my list of favorites.

Bottom line. There never has been any shortage of dudes for the girls. Take a look at the AMP scene. Popular girls are, and always have been, cranking out "around" 8 or more dudes a day.

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23. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   LAST EDITED ON 14-Nov-09 AT 10:31 AM (PST)
 
I appreciate the responses to this topic, but what irritates me most about most of you -- particularly the veterans -- is that you persist in looking at this whole thing through the eyes of the provider. You put her on a pedestal...even worship her, no matter how irresponsible and outright stupid she can be.

And that was the plain and simple point of my post: their stupidity.

Yet, many of you claim that supply and demand...or that she's too busy to return calls...or that she's too fine and we should wait in line...etc. I, for one, am VERY busy...I don't have time for that crap thinking. You think they are raking it in? Some of us guys are making ten times more than they do, and when they are too stupid to invest in a better answering service, they not only miss the opportunity to meet wealthy guys, but they cast themselves in a negative light to the good guys out there. Believe me, we are not going to call her more than 2-3 times before we give up on her. I personally don't have time to call the same girl 10 times to make a date -- I'll leave that up to the psychos who are desperate to see her.

These are the same girls that advertise daily. My argument to those who constantly defend them is, why advertise so much if business is too great to answer calls or fix their voicemails? Please...don't sell me that bullsh*t. And I'm talking about independents, not AMP or high-volume girls, so let's not confuse the two and compare. Truth being told, their business must be terrible, since these are the same girls that advertise today as "Daisy" and come back in a few weeks as "Stacy"...girls that are doing great business don't need to be so difficult.

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24. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   LAST EDITED ON 14-Nov-09 AT 11:23 AM (PST)
 
The7thStorehouse,

I agree wholeheartedly. I know of at least two providers, upper crust, whose stupid schedulers I've contacted and also e-mailed. I've been on Redbook for a while and leave a few rating, especially if the provider was worthwhile for my fellow mongers. No response back. A-holes.

I make plenty of money and I make it legally and like the rest of the mongers, I don't mind throwing it at someone who is worth my time. If these providers are too busy for an established monger, fuck em.

The same goes for these girls who ask for references. Hey stupid, I've given you my Redbook handle. That's worth way more than a reference because I don't usually repeat. Not only that but my handle will show you that you have nothing to worry about. Why repeat when there are some many to pick from although I have?

Speaking about voicemail. Take that ghetto music off if you are serious about getting some decent mongers as clients. There is music and there is music. Sure, you don't have to play Bach but don't play some profanity laced bullshit music (if you can call it that) or some other stupid stuff that is suppose to be music. Show some class. Lastly, leave a decent outgoing message.

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!

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25. "RE: One of the biggest problems with many girls"
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   LAST EDITED ON 14-Nov-09 AT 02:31 PM (PST)
 
Thanks for the support, tryinharder, and then adding your own point of view. I for one NEVER give out personal info and I NEVER give references. That's none of their F******G business. A lot of RB guys are pussy-whipped wimps who will throw away their lives to see girls, and you can tell who they are by the way they defend stupidity. As a successful businessman and entrepeneur, I value discretion, time, and yes...MY money. There are tons of other things I could enjoy with my money, and I typically do. These stupid girls make it very easy for me to choose those alternatives. And that's the way I look at it whenever I cannot get together with one...quite simply...THEIR loss, not mine.

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