LAST EDITED ON 22-Nov-09 AT 02:01 AM (PST)
The key is connection, chemistry and the art of seduction. Hobbyist who have it and do research in finding providers that are a good fit to their interest are going to have a better experience.As previously stated in a thread about honest reviewers:
http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=show_thread&om=42359&forum=general&archive=#10
A review is the subjective reporting of a hobbyist’s experience with a provider.
The skill and attitude of the provider as well as the skill and attitude of the hobbyist will shape the experience.
A lot of hobbyist consider a provider’s skills on the basis on what she does with her mouth and tongue during a blow job, the way she thrusts her pelvis during intercourse, and the way she touches, caresses, and fingers his balls. Hobbyist vary in how they like it, different stokes for different folks, so much depends on how intuitive she is to apply her skills in the way that will most please her man. (in the context of a GFE session you are her man during that hour) and how capable the hobbyist is in communicating, mostly non verbally, his desires to his woman. (in the context of a GFE session she is your woman during that hour)
Some hobbyist like to keep it simple, they just want to bust a nut in the mouth or the pussy of a hot babe. A reasonably pleasant demeanor and a drama free environment is all that is needed.
There is no wrong or right approach to the hobby, just different depending on the needs and interest of the participant. However, the hobbyist who has a low opinion of women that “sell their bodies” or thinks that since he is paying her he need not respect her, or take her feelings into account, is not likely to get as good of a session as the hobbyist that has the skill and attitude to make a woman feel safe, comfortable and appreciated.
So key things I look for in reviews:
1. She is not LE or a ROB or a dangerous person.
2. What is on the menu, i.e., DFK, BBBJ, DATY
3. Attitude, does she like providing, is her approach mechanical or passionate.
4. Any comments on pics being accurate or not.
Scores are even more subjective and I tend to see 10, 9, 8, as being almost the same score. I'm more interested in the narrative.
BTW, I think a lot of hobbyist will write more detail in a TOFTT first review than on a provider who has 2 or more pages of reviews where a quick confirmation of previous review findings or pointing out differences may be all that is needed.
Edit: YMMV, I kind of feel sorry for the guys who have not experienced a 10. But perhaps they don’t need a 10 they just want to get off….there is nothing wrong with that.
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