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"Outside of Comfort Zone"
 
   In the past I have always chosen providers most would view in the 3 to 7 range. The thinking was that I would get better service given my appearance. I fear that providers in the 8-10 range would be absolutely repulsed by me, service suffering as a result.

I know that money is the major issue, from my perspective it shouldn't matter. However, I fully expect reality is quite different. Any advice on overcoming this? (Short of reinventing myself, or sticking to comfort zone)

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1. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   LAST EDITED ON 25-Nov-09 AT 11:40 AM (PST)
 
Don't sell yourself short. Ever. I have friends who are severe burn victims, some in wheelchairs, and others in their 80's along with other issues. GOOD Hookers have no problem with this in the slightest.

Trashy youngsters who are typically pimped out, might have a problem and some of the guys I know have been totally ripped off by them.

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2. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   LAST EDITED ON 24-Nov-09 AT 04:05 PM (PST)
 
Caseman,


I can give you some perspectives from my experience.

I have been many times to the FKKs in Germany and I have seen many folks there, that would qualify as repulsive to a young, pretty women. Old, bald, beer gut, etc...

However, they seemed to be having a good time, just like everybody else.

So, I suggest you go see a DDG provider, like Boa, Ayaka or Kara, give them a generous tip (at the beginning)and you will be pleasantly surprised how they react.

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3. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   Or check out evita moren; I read in one of her reviews that she went beyond the call of duty for a guy in hospital.

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4. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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LAST EDITED ON 25-Nov-09 AT 11:56 AM (PST)
 
>better service given my appearance. I fear that providers
>in the 8-10 range would be absolutely repulsed by me,

well, how exactly messed up are you? Are you like a fat, green lizard man in a wheelchair...or do you have some excess hair on your ass?

Rev. 22:20 "Surely I come quickly. Amen."

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5. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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Trust me on this one: Even in the civilian life, there is someone for everyone. People have different likes. Some dudes love women with no asses or flat asses. Some men love big fat asses. Some men love women with hardly any tits, some with big tits.

Some women like fat men, some like skinny men, some women love tall, some love short. Most all like the personality.

Just remember, again, people are not the same and like different looks. Period.

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6. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   one ddg provider told me the only thing she cant stand are men as pretty as she is...

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7. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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OK, I too am not what I would call a physically attractive man. Consider myself below plain, got the belly and I am balding at 48. However, personality and character go a long way. If you are sincere, yet can get a lady laughing your mileage goes up. Just things to think about, or perhaps work on, but don't try to remake yourself into something, someone you are not. Be the best you can be, work on your charisma and stop putting yourself down...

Oh, and be approachable!


1Dog1bone
Long Island 2 Las Vegas

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8. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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I doubt you'd have a problem getting great service from a girl who has universally great reviews for service, regardless of her looks. I can guarantee you that a majority of hobbyists out there are old, fat, or not otherwise traditionally attractive -- no offense...I'm no treasure. Girls that provide great service as a standard are not likely to be repulsed due to appearances, and that's been my experience as well.

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9. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   Mr. 10001, I assume that when you're talking about 3 to 7, and 8-10 range you're talking strictly about looks. I try to see only ladies who receive 9s and 10s for service. I do not care what their looks rating is. I've seen some gorgeous ladies, and some not so. The interesting thing, for the most part, is that these ladies treat me so well, and take such great care of me, their beauty increases over time. Sometimes it happens right before my very eyes during a session. There is a certain point that they just become so beautiful, fulfilling my every desire.

So why wouldn't the reverse be true. If your service rating was consistently high (9 or 10), wouldn't they start looking at you just as a beautiful person who shows great concern for them? And trust me, a gentleman also brings his own bfe service level to the session. So if your bfe service level is consistently high, most of the ladies you see will not care what you look like. You may even become a favorite client to some.


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10. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   Priceless advice! Thanks everyone!

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11. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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Although it does not always hold true, on average, it seems the better looking the provider the worse the service. Likewise, the worse looking, the better the service. Of course, this is stereotyping and there will be exceptions.

Have you noticed all of the BBWs with perfect reviews that will BBBJTCCIMWS? Coincidence? I don't think so.

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12. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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I'm a relatively attractive guy and I've had service which was sometimes "less" than what I've expected. It has nothing to do with your looks, and everything to do with which provider you happen to pick. Some of the most absolute BEST treatment I've received has come from providers that some would call NOT the most attractive.

It's just the luck of the draw sometimes. Don't sweat your looks or theirs. It's PERFORMANCE that counts.

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13. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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As long as you're not morbidly obese, don't have any out of the ordinary deformities and you don't stink, most providers will judge you strictly on whether or not you're a pleasant, kind guy. Your money is as pretty as anyone else's.

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14. "RE: Outside of Comfort Zone"
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   Look at the reviews of the ladies that look good to you. Find the ones that have high scores in service and a menu that matches your wants. I am old, fat and hairy and have gotten many high mileage sessions. When I first contact the lady I accurately describe myself and tell her if she doesn't want me for a client just let me know and I won't bother her again. I have had a few rejections, and I'm grateful for them because they saved me from wasting money on a session that would've likely been subpar. If she is repulsed by me, she isn't going to be having any fun and that can't help but affect her performance. A lose/lose situation. I was surprised to find many ladies not only agreed to have me as a client, but they tried to reassure me about my looks.

Once you find a suitable lady, I've found that they respond very favorably when I'm clean, polite, respectful and friendly. I put them at ease by immediately putting my donation down in plain sight without any comment. I honestly compliment them on their looks, as I am obviously attracted to them if I am paying that kind of money for their time. I know their rules and menu from their ad and reviews and I don't try to force them to go beyond that. There is no drama. If they are running a little late I am patient. A little kindness and consideration goes a long way.

I've seen many very hot woman who have given me outstanding service and I'm sure you will have success as well as long as you can be a nice guy.

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