In my expereince $2,000 a month will get you a super hot you thing for a weekly multiple hour session.

What sites do you use? I've dabbled with some girls from CL, but that as well all know is the world's largest casino with the world's worst odds.

There use to be a huge gap between a sugarbabe and a RB Provider as far as volumn and hotnessss .. but not anymore .. my rb atf is as hot as any sugarbabe you can find

So where is the benefit of your commitment? 2000/4=$500 for a multiple hour session. Probably any lady on this board would agree to that without the monthly commitment. My friend saw one of the hottest and most expensive ladies of RB for that exact price. So why commit when you are gaining no real advantage at least that I can see?

You guys may be right in saying if that's what I want I may be better of looking at other providers on RB. But as frigginidiot pointed out the upside, I like having sessions that are not time bound.

Now moving on to my unanswered questions: How should I set up the initial meeting? Can I request a trial session or night? How much should I spend on the initial meeting and the trial?

People who already have a SB (including you sir, frigginidiot) - would you please give me some pointers about where and how you made the arrangement?

A real sugar daddy relationship is a more intimate... more like a mistress or girl friend relationship. Expect to take her out, buy her jewelry and clothes and stuff, take her on get-away trips and slip her some cash when she asks every now and then.

Call yourself a sugar daddy when you're prepared to drop $5,000+ per month on that relationship...and fuck her whenever you want.

i have had my share of sugar babies.

it is took much work. my buddy made an offer to a pretty young lady a few weeks ago. she at first was into it..i think,,maybe, at least he said so..

then she abruptly did an about face.

so..who knows what the market can bear now.

he is really well off. trips to aruba, vegas, went to new york a few weeks ago just fucking because.

he treats his women really well. it really confuses me why she turned him down but who effin knows. i read the email, it was kind of , well different. but at least she was to the point.

we went to the 49ers game last week end with 2 really hot babes. well we met up after his girl had to work at the game.

she is hotttttt. and actually really nice, she has been all over him forever i can remember, hopefully he is coming around.

so the sugar baby thing,

1 you wont be the only one tappin that ass.
2 you wont be the only one tapping that ass.
3.expensive.
4. sometimes you can get emotionally involved and then your really fucked. because you are a bank, and then the pussy dries up.. but you will still crank out the cash.

5 it's better to just be ice, see them once in a while and then help them out with little gifts or cover the cell phone and some groceries. kind of like a girlfriend. but better. no bullshit.

no more sugar babies for me. my cash is too hard to earn and it is getting harder every day. too much competition for them, and too much they demand.

so good luck,, a grand isn;t gonna get you shit. my former playmate was getting 4 bills from me and that still wasn't enough to keep her happy. so i cut it off and now i cant get rid of her calling me.

says she loves me..bullshit..

she misses the boat trips, the suites in vegas and the trips to hawaii.

thats all she misses..you know what the pussy wasn't even that good.

so remember this....

looks can fade, but a true "friend" never fades. get yourself a good friend and take care of her. you will be better off.

per my buddy brian " be loyal, be the friend you want your friend to be".

big

It's expensive, it's a hassle, and IMO, the ones who get the best deals are the ones who are above average either in looks, in charisma, in bed, in possessions, or all the above.

Be the change
you wish to see

Not true at all. Don't know what you've been doing with your sugar babies but since I'M paying it's what I want, when I want, where I want.

"since I'M paying it's what I want, when I want, where I want"

JimiC, that's no different than being a regular client to an everyday working girl.

What you're describing is not being a sugar daddy or entering in to an 'arrangement' - that's a whole different situation, and the notion that it's more intimate, includes socila time, and is more of a fixed-support level is closer to reality.

Could I give her more $, lease a car for her, get her an apartment - sure - whould the sex be any better - nope! I get everything she has every time we meet. Why whould I throw more $ and not get anything more out of it?

A 'sugar baby' is whatever I want it to be same with an 'arrangement' is whatever I want it to be.

Yep, you have a good point - anyone can define a 'sugar baby' or 'arrangement' any way they want JimiC. I'd have to agree with you on that.

But, if I'm going to respect your notion of an ideal sugar baby, then you should probably tolerate mine as well.

Essentially, you sound like a guy who primarily sees the ladies to get himself some good sex and that's your focus in the hobby - sex on your terms and when you want it.

That's OK and a lot of guys share that focus with you. But, in all fairness, it's important to recognize that some guys (actually quite a few) see the ladies for companionship and spend a lot of time with them (overnights, weekends, travel, dinner dates) in addition to the sex.

Either way is OK, it just depends on each person's needs and preferences. But, the two type of hobbiests will each define a sugar baby in a different way. I think you're definition is pretty clear. Mine's just a little different - but both of us are right based on where we're coming from.

Not necessarily true. I've heard lots of horror stories of married SD's getting blackmailed by their SB's. SB's are usually non-pro's, and as such, they (particularly the young ones) will act as such.