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POLL: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation to avoid public confrontation in future.
Posted by kemp on 04-Dec-09, 01:58 PM PST
Result after a total of 57 votes

She looks yuck tell her so and split, what are chances of bumping into her in public. 15 votes, 26% Vote for this choice
Make lame excuse like forgot wallet and leave. 18 votes, 31% Vote for this choice
Leave without saying a word. 8 votes, 14% Vote for this choice
Give her partial donation, make lame excuse and leave. 13 votes, 22% Vote for this choice
Give her full donation leave. 1 votes, 1% Vote for this choice
Pay up & go through with the deed. 2 votes, 3% Vote for this choice

 
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kemp click here to view user rating
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1. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   Happened to me recently. Saw her in the same town I live in and decided to do the deed. This was after 30 seconds of going through all the possibilites of bumping into her in public, I decided paying for my mistake of seeing someone with mixed reviews was easiest option.

On the way out I did tell her to avoid me in public.

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11. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   If there is no resemblance to ad pics AND otherwise unappealing (I know thats quite subjective) I just leave. Have done without any compunctions whatsoever - after its my "hard" earned money.

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2. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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If a provider's pics are obvious fakes and she is unattractive, I have and would leave w/o compensation. If she protested I would tell her to produce the girl in the ad and I'll stay.

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3. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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Very well put NealDown!!!!!

"If a provider's pics are obvious fakes and she is unattractive, I have and would leave w/o compensation. If she protested I would tell her to produce the girl in the ad and I'll stay."

I have done that and will do it again.!!!!!

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5. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   >If a provider's pics are obvious fakes and she is
>unattractive, I have and would leave w/o compensation. If
>she protested I would tell her to produce the girl in the ad
>and I'll stay.

Yes, but that's a completely different question. Sometimes the pics are real but doctored, out of date, or just caught her better side. What about when you can see that you got the person in the ad and your just disappointed by the real life appearance?

For me, depends on my level of interest and the reviews that I've read. I've stuck it out with a couple of providers who missed my expectations on attractiveness and had pretty good sessions. I plan to repeat with one of the two, so that's half of the admittedly small statistical data that worked out well.

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7. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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>>If a provider's pics are obvious fakes and she is
>>unattractive, I have and would leave w/o compensation. If
>>she protested I would tell her to produce the girl in the ad
>>and I'll stay.
>
>Yes, but that's a completely different question. Sometimes
>the pics are real but doctored, out of date, or just caught
>her better side. What about when you can see that you got
>the person in the ad and your just disappointed by the real
>life appearance?

>
Fair point. However, if a provider posts pics that are 5 years and/or 30lbs ago, I consider them to be phonies. Again, I would politely say that 'You aren't the girl in the ad. She's younger and much thinner and that's who I agreed to see.' You might think that is rude but I'm not about to hand over money to someone who mislead me and whom I'm not attracted to. If I was going to do that, I would simply stay at home and do the old lady.

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4. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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If her pics are fake and she looks doable, I'll tell her so, and negotiate DOWN. If she's not willing to do that, I'll leave w/o paying and tell her that I'm going to inform my RB bros about the deception.

If her pics are fake and she doesn't look doable, I'll tell her that, and leave w/o paying. I will also tell her that I'm going to inform my RB bros about the fake pics.

Only once did I arrive only to find a provider who looked BETTER than the one I thought I was seeing. This one was younger and had a better body. She charged the same, but her service sucked. I wrote the bad review.

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6. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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I like your approach to negotiating.

I'm not sure I'd tell her I was planning to out her over the fake pics. It's not a matter of diplomacy. I simply wouldn't want to give her a chance to make a preemptive strike by changing her screen name before word got out.

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8. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   LAST EDITED ON 05-Dec-09 AT 01:55 PM (PST)
 
I would tell her up front that she doesn't look like the photos she is advertising with and leave. I'd still be pissed that I wasted a 30 to 45 minute drive and my own valuable time, but certainly wouldn't stay or pay anything.

Many times it's easy to tell (if you've been on RB for any length of time) that the pics are the same ones she posted when she began Hooking on RB about 10 years ago. Girls with airbrushed or Pro model shoot pics I would seldom call in the first place.

OTOH, The girls that post in RB Photos with very recent or same day cell phone pics I am substantially more likely to call and see if her Reviews are top notch and she's GFE.

A few Men on the board claim that they print out their Ad and bring it to the Incall. If she balks and states that is her photo, they pull out the printed ad. I guess this helps some in reducing potential drama/hassles although I haven't gone to that extreme.

I'm to lazy to bring friggin' envelopes (gave that up years ago and I pay afterwards anyway) so doubt I'd waste printer ink and just leave if she doesn't look like the photo I was willing to spend money on.


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9. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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RUN FORREST RUN!

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10. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   I had this happen awhile back. The girl didn't use face pics but I trusted my RB brethren who had scored her 7's and 8's on looks.

It really caught me off guard and I just didn't have the heart to leave. In the end I suppose it would have been kinder to her to not have to read the review I left. Leaving would have been better forme too.........it still haunts me.

It amazes me, last time I looked she's had reviews since mine that go right back to giving her 7's and 8's and trust me fellas, this is NOT a case of personal taste differing.

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12. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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id just leave if its not what the ad said it would be


the wetter the better

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15. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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Carrying around a printed ad might be good evidence to be used against you if they ever tried to bust you too.

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13. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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Not a donation, but a tip. Like maybe, "Hey, you should think about getting into another profession." M

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14. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   LAST EDITED ON 13-Dec-09 AT 10:10 PM (PST)
 
Well....unless it was a pretty extreme fraud** I would make a donation (maybe 25% of the girls rate) to be polite, and because she has probably invested some time at that point. Not because I was afraid of later confrontations.


** Such as an absolutely different girl in the pics, and the real girl was considerably uglier, AND had a bad attitude.

_____________

FriscoJack

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16. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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LAST EDITED ON 14-Dec-09 AT 04:08 PM (PST)
 
I've used a few excuses to get out of a date after realizing the provider was not good looking or worth it. Here are some of the excuses I've used:

1. I tell her I forgot the rest of the money in the car to complete the donation time and leave.

2. I tell her there are cops outside in parking lot and I am extremely nervous to proceed so we should schedule some other time and leave.

3. I tell her she isn't the same girl in the pics on the ad and leave

4. I tell her I just got a last minute call from work that I need to go in so I will have to re-schedule.

In all the excuses I've used I have done so politely. In other words, I apologize to them and tell them I simply cannot proceed. I don;t leave any tip or partial payment. Especially if the girl simply doesn't look like the girl in the ad.

NOTE: #2 actually did happen. I was releived that when I got there the provider was not really good looking and there was a cop outside in the parking lot in which he had pulled someone over. After telling her there was a cop outside (obvioulsy I didn;t tell her they pulled someone over) she became a bit paranoid herself and understood me wanting to leave.

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17. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   Cop thing happened to me once. Cop rolled into seedy motel as I was approaching door. I just kept walking to the nearest staircase and left. Called her later on told her get a better place.

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18. "RE: On arrival if you find Ho unappealing would you make donation"
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   this whole thread is punctuation on the goodness of mixers. you see everyone up close and personal and when you decide to session, when it comes to looks, there will be no surprises...

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