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"References ... is it a racial thing?"
 
   9 out of 10 white girls ask for references...
9 out of 10 black girls don't ask for references...

Are white women just naturally more paranoid than black women?

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1. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Yes, but not in the way you think. For the same reason as why black girls tend to command lower rates on average. It is just a question of supply and demand. The pool of clients available to black girls is much smaller because not all white or Asian men are colorblind.

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2. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   I'm not so sure I follow your reasoning...

You're saying that supply and demand has something to do with requiring references?

You're saying that rates have something to with requiring references?

You're saying that number of clients has something to do with requiring references?

I fail to see the connections you make. If you think white girls are "prettier", "sexier" or "more desireable" than black girls, that's not only racist but not true. And if any group is getting the volume, I strongly believe blacks first, asians second, and whites a distant third. The much higher rates and the paranoia about who they are seeing greatly contributes to fewer clients IMHO.

Anyway, I thought requiring references was about avoiding LE or bad clients...should have noting to do with race/color. I'm just very impressed that black women are more into just having sex and satisfying guys than wanting to know so much about who their seeing.

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3. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   Why is any reference to racial preferences - loosely or direct - always met with the charge of "racism"? C'mon, racism is about hate.

We all have preferences. I prefer Asian women over white women and black women. I really, truly think they are prettier, sexier and more desirable than whites or blacks.

Guess Tiger is a racist since he seems to prefer whites.

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5. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   Watch out General_Colon_Bowel!!! Tiger is my friend.

Am not as rich as TW but I've seen more providers that he has. If I had hos money I'll be dead by now from seeing providers!!!! LOL!!!

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8. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   I so agree... people have their preferences. I personally don't base my preferences on race; if I find her sexually attractive, no matter her color or race, then consider her preferred. BTW, what's up with white guys and Asian women anyway? In my opinion, they are not sexier and better proportioned than white, black, or latin women. Just saying.

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4. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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>If you think white girls are "prettier", "sexier" or "more desireable" than black girls, that's not only racist but not true.

Wrongo. It is an American birthright to stick your dick in women of your preference.

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6. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   >>If you think white girls are "prettier", "sexier" or "more desireable" than black girls, that's not only racist but not true.
>
>Wrongo. It is an American birthright to stick your dick in
>women of your preference.

I agree, and the ladies have the right to choose who they will fuck.

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13. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   I got a Shanghai girl in Sunnyvale last week and she asks me on the phone if I am black. I said no and when I get there she says 'oh you sound like a black guy on the phone' so I said 'why are you afraid? Because you think they have big penis?' Then she tells me that black guys are black on the outside but also on the inside and I said that's not true of all black people. Sorry, but that is racism no matter how you look at it.

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10. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   >It is an American birthright to stick your dick in women of your preference.

But not for long, let me tell you. As soong as they are done with health care reform, carbon offsets, redefining the clear water act to cover the puddle in your back yard and legalizing 25 million illegal democratic voters, the US Congress will make sticking your dick in the wrong colored provider a hate crime. If, of course, the California State Legislature does not beat them to it.

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11. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Please! We have two political forums for this. Can we just stick to pussy here?

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18. "A few comments..."
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   I myself prefer Asians but I am pretty sure White girls get the most volume followed by Asians and then Black girls. It makes sense to me that if a gal is in high demand she can afford to be more picky (i.e. require references).

As to why Asian women? They may not have all the curves of White women but they generally have less (if not none) body hair, smaller bodies with tighter pussies, breasts which although not as big usually have huge erasor nipples and have the pretties faces and sexiest eyes....

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7. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Without any reliable statistics, I'd guess the customer volumn for white providers is much higher than for black ones. Screening then allows the white providers to moderate the number of clients they need to deal with.

Going further with this unfounded assumption, with a higher average volumn, white providers have probably had more than their share of whackos. This would increase the need to screen.

Btw, black girls rock!!

I_D

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9. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Another reason for this, though certainly not the only one, is that many Ebony providers are street savvy and feel they can take care of themselves better than most Caucasian ladies do.

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12. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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>Another reason for this, though certainly not the only one,
>is that many Ebony providers are street savvy and feel they
>can take care of themselves better than most Caucasian
>ladies do.

You do realize that you just called "many" black hoes "ghetto", don't you?

And that "most" white hoes are relative naifs.

I'm cool with that, whatever, just sayin. No judgements.


Just calling a spade a spade.

-- Some people are offence kleptomaniacs --

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20. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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You're the guy calling them 'black hoes' not me. Reread my post and this time try to do so for comprehension. If you're successful, you'll see that you're wrong on all counts.

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17. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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>Another reason for this, though certainly not the only one,
>is that many Ebony providers are street savvy and feel they
>can take care of themselves better than most Caucasian
>ladies do.

Good point!

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14. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   I wouldn't touch this topic with a ten foot pole. Or even my 10" pole.**


** I wish.

_____________

FriscoJack

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15. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Why don't you ask every woman if they ask for references and why, and if they don't why and ask their race and then post your results. Of course your results will be small and probably not mean jack. Then with your post as to....Are white women just naturally more paranoid than black women?

Maybe white women are smarter? Maybe they use references to keep down the BS, LE, hospitals, court system; thus keep more money into their pockets? I really don't know.


And to the gentleman that made the statement about no judgments here. We all make judgments in all aspects of our lives, as to what we eat, what we wear, what we do and who we do what with.....that is anybody with an IQ above an ice cube anyway.

Only the Paranoid survive.............

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16. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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Can't put a politically correct answer to a politically incorrect business. Rascism, its all economics. Goes both ways. What about the guy who gets bypassed the discounted price b/c the customer is not of a preferred race. You enter the ethnic group of your choice.

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19. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 19-Dec-09 AT 11:11 AM (PST)
 
If anyone has dated online, ie, match, eharmony, you will have discovered that Asian and black men are rarely selected as a dating preference by Asian or white women. I can only deduce that this phenomena translates into hobbying except that in hobbying asian men are not discriminated against, probably because we have tiny peepees.
(Reg'd in '01, retired in '04, back in '08)

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21. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   It's interesting how many of you explicitly or implicitly mention that it's the girl's right to see whoever she wants to see...on a fundamental and theoretical level, I don't agree with that stance. Given everything is okay with the gentleman, a provider is obligated to provide service to that paying customer. But I can see from the responses here that on a practical level, many white (and possibly asian) providers are indeed racist. That's too bad...but it is what it is.

Again, most guys believe that the requirement for references is to screen out LE or bad clients. But apparently, many white women are screening much more that that.

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22. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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I think it happens, sure. Some white and asian providers don't want to see black guys for whatever reason. Rather than coming out and saying that in their ads, they use the screening process. I personally don't find that the best providers screen and I don't bother with providers who do because of the inconvenience to me and a violation of my desire to be discreet. I don't find asian providers to be good enough and realize they're looking for clients who will put up with their type of massage-dominated service. If a white provider is using the screening process to avoid black clients, one wonders how good a fuck is she anyways.

So I guess I discriminate against providers who ask for references. Works for me. I will add here that the best sessions that I've had, have been with black providers and MILFs. They seem to enjoy the sex more, be the most genuine and appreciative, have the best bodies, and have the best prices. We've got some young providers (fake blondes) here overcharging and asking for references, only to deliver inferior service. No way.

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23. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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I have never seen a provider who requires references and I doubt
I ever will. The only providers I would even consider providing
a reference and/or my private info for a reference would
probably be a pornstar or some UTR playboy model etc. I just
don't think its worth providing references for some overpriced
overhyped run-of-mill hoe? The girls who are able to get away
with requiring references are those with lot of customers .. so
many that they can afford to turn away those w/o references.

What's funny is most of the old milf hags trolling RB ads now
used to be girls who demanded references few years ago. I think
guys who fall for giving references think they are getting something
worth more than it really is.

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24. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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   a slightly different question...
HOW MANY WHITE GUYS HAVE BEEN TURNED AWAY BECAUSE OF THERE ETHNICITY? just curious... not meant to offend.

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25. "RE: References ... is it a racial thing?"
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>9 out of 10 white girls ask for references...
>9 out of 10 black girls don't ask for references...
>
>Are white women just naturally more paranoid than black
>women?

what about the asians and Latinas?

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