As part of this, it seemed somehow important to grow the list as long as I could, meaning few repeats. Now I’m not talking about regular girlfriends or civies with whom I’ve repeated – they’re on the list. I’m more thinking about investing my hard earned stock options so I could grow the list with P4P providers. I seldom score otherwise for some reason. I think it’s because I forget to ask. Anyway, counterbalancing this grow-the-list aspect were those exceptional experiences that I DID want to repeat. And I noticed that while I was EXTREMELY nervous with new experiences, the repeats were far more relaxed experiences going in, so to speak. So stress versus the comfort of familiarity.

Today was to be a repeat. She was one of those ladies that plucked the chords just right. I know it was an illusion, but I had very warm feelings towards her and was really looking forward to seeing her again. However once I got to the assigned place, the provider texted that the rooms weren’t clean at the hotel and so she couldn’t check in for another hour and a half. I texted back that if she was in the vicinity, maybe we could just ‘hang’ until the room was ready. She called saying she had already left the area and couldn’t get back before the offered rescheduled time. I said we better reschedule since I had a business dinner that night and the delayed time wouldn’t work. She promised to make it up to me (hint hint) and I really do hope to take advantage of that offer!

But now, I’m wondering about the real reason for the cancellation? Could she not anticipate changes in personal plans and decided to provide a cover story at the very last minute – although she had confirmed and reconfirmed just a few hours earlier? What-ever.

But back to our story. Now I’m thinking I WON’T see her again, that I’ll take the fee saved and apply it towards someone new. With the nervousness that entails.

So why am I telling you this? I guess I’d like to know who else keeps a list, and what you would have done in this circumstance.

Ernie

My guess would be that a well paying regular wanted a last minute date.

Few girls will want to disappoint a regular (or sugar daddy). If the regular goes somewhere else, he might not come back....

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FriscoJack

Anyway, things come up sometimes with providers, and they have to cancel at the last minute. If a provider cancels on me after I have made the trip there, I'm not likely to see her again. I'll write the review and move on unless she contacts me and makes it up.

...and don't you forget it either.

Maybe I am the four digits now or maybe not. Since then I have never bothered to make a list as it was way too freaking depressing in the end.

Honestly, think about it. How many societies in human history make/made it possible to sleep with more than a 100 women? Really, what about a 1,000? In the last 10,000 years or so of human existence how often did one individual even have the chance to have sex high multiples of unique individuals?

It is kind of freaky if I think about it. What do you think the total of humans in history have ever had sex with more than 100 partners? How many prostitutes and clients are there as a percentage of the population?

Getting to 100 partners seems comprehendable but for those that get to 1,000? Sure Caligula and various emporors had the chance, but for the average man to hit 1,000, not easy.

It is bizarre to think about it because I and many others on RB (men and women) have well exceeded those numbers.

Recently, I am more into repeating with my ATFs, than trying new ones.

Heard this today: What's the difference between Santa and Tiger Wood?
Answer: Santa stops after 3 ho's

And, not only do I have a list (to remember so many breathtaking experiences), but I've always done my own, more detailed than rb, rating system.
My best session ever? Not a 10, but a 98!!

Dont read too much into this, just dont forget your an ATM and you should always have a #2 ready to go to.

"God knew what he was doing when he created Women"

Only list I make is for groceries.

If I cannot remember the lady or our time together I do not need a

list too remind me.

Smarter men then me have regretted their actions when someone has

stumbled upon evidence that they thought was secure./\

If someone cancels at the last minute and it's not going too work

for me I would expect a discount on our next hook up or move on.

If her rate is $200/hr. I would suggest too her one session at

$150./hr. This would be a good faith gesture on her part for not

keeping her date with me. Even though she is claiming it happened

for a reason that was out of her control.