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tickettoride1958
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03-Jan-10, 11:20 AM (PST)
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"Reviews"
 

are there any guidelines for reviews posted some place.
Particular of interest what not to write about.

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JohnJramboSr
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03-Jan-10, 12:30 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Reviews"
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Okay, here's a freebie and it's kinda obvious
• Don't be totally explicit on where the location is -
eg. "I'm at room 224 at the motel 6 in Benicia, just off exit 45"

"Its NEVER over!"

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03-Jan-10, 04:40 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Reviews"
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   Review guidelines in FAQ: http://www.myredbook.com/faq.aspx#g700
Sample reviews: http://www.myredbook.com/review-sample.aspx

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4. "RE: Reviews"
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Thank you for asking. SF1 gave you the answer you were looking for. Additionally there has been a lot of discussion on what information hobbyist look for in reading reviews, such as in the following link.
http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=show_thread&om=42359&forum=general&archive=#10

So key things I look for in reviews:
1. She is not LE or a ROB or a dangerous person.
2. What is on the menu, i.e., DFK, BBBJ, DATY
3. Attitude, does she like providing, is her approach mechanical or passionate.
4. Any comments on pics being accurate or not.

I don’t remember the exact thread, but a well established hobbyist and I got into a disagreement on the term YMMV in reviews. He seemed to think YMMV was BS, I taking the comment that he was claiming it doesn’t exist, responded sarcastically that just because one never experienced it doesn’t mean that is doesn’t exist.

Upon further reflection, his point might have been if the experience you had may not be typical of what other hobbyist will experience, it's BS to include that experience with s YMMV caveat in your review. Most certainly, if you received a service such as a bbbj and she advertises cbj or all things covered, than you should not mention bbbj in your review. To do so would be unfair to other hobbyist in creating expectations that will not be met and unfair to the provider as it could invite boundary pushing. Regardless what terms are used, as can be expected in a very personal and intimate sexual experience, there is a wide variation in session experiences.

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08-Jan-10, 01:25 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: Reviews"
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   LAST EDITED ON 08-Jan-10 AT 01:50 AM (PST)
 
Hi HighStepper, that's a good list of things to look for in a review.

One thing I see, and maybe it can't be avoided, but it seems like some reviewers are expecting a certain level of service that for the price is unreasonable. For half hour session I'm not expecting GFE, DFK, emotions, etc. but it seems like some of the reviewers are PO'd because they weren't getting it for the price even though they were in there for what can only be described as a quickie.

This relates to number three, the attitude. That's an important aspect of the encounter but can be subjective because sometimes expectations play a role in deciding what the proper attitude should be, particularly for a quickie pop and run session. These reviews for half hour sessions that criticize for lack of GFE or "emotions" stand out when surrounded by other positive reviews by long time members.

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08-Jan-10, 03:22 PM (PST)
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6. "RE: Reviews"
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Excellent point, one I had not given much thought about previously. This may account why some providers will not offer ½ hour sessions.


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believe262
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08-Jan-10, 03:28 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: Reviews"
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Spot on. Hour sessions are best for evaluating the full menu and discovering limits. 1/2s are best to determine if you want to do a full hour. Wish many times that I listened to my own advice, nothing worse than 20 minutes left over and wanting to get out the door asap.

I tend to look at the more negative reviews first, then balance the better ones.....hopefully the real story is somewhere in the middle.

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