Anyways, last night I forayed into FS for the first time in ages and it was a complete disaster. The young lady showed up (one great review, still no reason to believe it wasn't legit). Absolutely gorgeous. Complete sweetheart. Glass of wine. Quick tour of place. Sat down. She kept her distance. Nice chat. Nothing else. As soon as the hour was up she gave me the option of another hour (I declined) and was out of there. I don't have the confidence, assertiveness to make a move (even in that situation, when the outcome is somewhat guaranteed lol) and she didn't help out at all.

So I posted a review. Not to be critical, but to save anyone else with my "issues" spending $300 on a chat with a gorgeous girl (unless that's what they want). I'm not so gross that I need to pay hot girls to chat with me ;)

Did I do the right thing, or should I have just kept quiet and chalked it up to experience?

As long as you own up to your part in the review, I see no problem with it.

I feel you were taken advantage of. You should have mentioned to her, during your initial phone call, that you were a shy and nervous individual, was she ok with that, and was she able to take charge? If yes, and proceed with the appointment, I believe she should have assumed control, as a professional person, and proceed accordingly, chat a little bit just to break any ice, and not as an excuse to delay intimacy, then either engage directly or ask you to get comfortable, etc. Now, while not clock watching, she should have had, in the back of her mind, a "sense" of the time elapsed, and act upon it. Make sure you were satisfied by receiving your FS.

I understand providers state you are paying for her companionship and her time modeling, but it is "understood" that is all for legal purposes and not for taking advantage of situations.

If you can, subscribe to the VIP, read the reviews of those providers who appeal to you, and verify their ratings are high. Don't go just for the ones who "look" appealing and no reviews for while YMMV, you may not know what surprises to expect, as the one you received. Once you select just a few ones, visit them. You are still going to be nervous, for that is difficult to control, but your goal is to finally select those you feel comfortable with. If you become a regular, the anxiousness you feel will dissipate for your future encounters. You will still feel excited to see them, but not nervous anymore.

It's a little warm in here. If you don't mind I'm going to get a little more comfortable?

Put on some music and i'll show you how good i am at striptease.

You have great lips. I love to kiss.

First you can take off my clothes and then I'll take off yours.

I love having my pussy licked. I hope you're into that.

Do you have a glass of wine for me? after one drink I'm up for anything.

Ect, Ect.

Also, keep in mind that you have set up a "sure thing" so don't be nervous. If you were happy just chatting, then that is fine. Otherwise tell her what you want. (By the way, I am speaking from experience as I have had done the nervous wait and see thing before.)

tav

Sorry to hear about your situation. When I started or even now with someone new, the start is difficult, but I usually get the "get comfortable" or "how about a message" pretty quickly even if I've book 90 min.

HG

This has nothing to do with your inadequacies, you picked a ripoff artist who probably laughed her way to the bank. If you do not quit the hobby at least pick a Sookey or a Asian provider normally they are here to take care of business and not take advantage of your lack of aggressiveness they want repeat business sounds like you picked a NONASIAN provider.

>I've probably seen 2-3 FS providers in the last 5 years. I'm
>very shy. I get incredibly nervous of the thought of showing
>up (or having someone visit the house) with the sole
>intention of.. well you know. I love FBSM because it seems
>more natural; sort of therapeutic leading to sensual (weird
>I know). Perhaps spending the first half face down helps too
>
>
>Anyways, last night I forayed into FS for the first time in
>ages and it was a complete disaster. The young lady showed
>up (one great review, still no reason to believe it wasn't
>legit). Absolutely gorgeous. Complete sweetheart. Glass of
>wine. Quick tour of place. Sat down. She kept her distance.
>Nice chat. Nothing else. As soon as the hour was up she gave
>me the option of another hour (I declined) and was out of
>there. I don't have the confidence, assertiveness to make a
>move (even in that situation, when the outcome is somewhat
>guaranteed lol) and she didn't help out at all.
>
>So I posted a review. Not to be critical, but to save anyone
>else with my "issues" spending $300 on a chat with a
>gorgeous girl (unless that's what they want). I'm not so
>gross that I need to pay hot girls to chat with me ;)
>
>Did I do the right thing, or should I have just kept quiet
>and chalked it up to experience?

I suggest that you take her up on her offer (at a discount I assume)if you find her attractive. If she took the time to contact you then everyone will know what to expect going in to the next session and when that works out your future confidence will be boosted.

As for the review, just be honest. Guys in a similar situation will beware or aware. And some providers, including her, may pick up a tip and know that some need a little help getting there.

Also, if you spring for me as well, I will act as MC to make sure that everything happens according to plan and schedule.

Don't give up. Have fun! You will not be sorry. And report back on your progress.

You sound like a decent person ,but next time you invite a provider over, skip the grand tour.Show her where the bathroom is,take her directly to the bedroom and have that glass of wine while sitting on the bed.Might help you overcome your shyness if you don't have to suggest moving to another room.

Sounds like both you and her are newbies. Now you know each other so you both probably won't be so nervous. You probably will get a good discount and good treatment since this whole thing is out there now!If she's your type like you said, maybe it is worth a try and worth posting a second review afterward.

A review of your experience is valid as long as you present the situation fairly. Keep in mind that your shyness is unique, so the review isn't really relevant for most guys.

One way to overcome your shyness might be to find a provider that offers both FS and FBSM and see her for massage first.