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mattwfoley click here to view user rating
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"do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
 
   I know the answer to this question for me:

would you tell your new girlfriend about the hobby you have enjoyed at least once or twice or do you never mention it EVER?

For me: I never mention it EVER. Unless I knew she was once a provider, my guess is any civvy would be FREAKED and go running...

what say you?

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1. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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No more relevant than every time you got drunk and threw up.


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2. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   it's a great way to make her your "ex- S/O".

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3. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   If it really is your past, and you only did it once or twice like you say, then it isn't worth talking about because it is not a significant part of your past and will do damage that is disproportionate to its importance. Now, if that "at least" before "once or twice" means it's more like 100 or 200, and if that number is likely to grow, and if you are confessing all your sins to her, then maybe it's proportionate to the damage.

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4. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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I don't even tell the fellas about this hobby

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oralio click here to view user rating
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5. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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Depends on the SO.

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6. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Only a fool would tell, do think she would tell you she got drunk and gang banged by ten guy's in college.
Women keep a hell of a lot more secrets than us dumb as men will ever know about.

>I know the answer to this question for me:
>
>would you tell your new girlfriend about the hobby you have
>enjoyed at least once or twice or do you never mention it
>EVER?
>
>For me: I never mention it EVER. Unless I knew she was once
>a provider, my guess is any civvy would be FREAKED and go
>running...
>
>what say you?

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Argo
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7. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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Never!

I just let them check my cell phone records and text messages.

Signed,
Tiger

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8. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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I would not hide it and would tell if it came up just like any other subject. If she doesn't like it she is free to leave.

On the other hand I do not EVER hobby when I am in a relationship.

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VonClitzentitz
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9. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   >Unless I knew she was once a provider, my guess is any civvy would be FREAKED and go running...


Newsflash: A provider or ex-provider would be freaked as well! Why is another discussion.

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10. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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New SO? No! As you grow deeper into a relationship, possibly... Certainly can see the pros and cons to it!

But remember this, once you have told an SO about this past, you are giving her a heads up on any future hobbying! So think in the long term.


1Dog1bone
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JackJelly
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11. "N! F! W!"
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   Never, ever, no f'in way jose.

The less they know the better. Sooner or later they will use it against you. And that applies to everything you tell them.

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12. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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No! & don't reccomend it even if she's a provider. More reasons in the future to have doubts about you.

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SeinHomme
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13. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Why would you tell her? What good could possibly come of it - for either her or you?

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14. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Ohhh, helllll no!!!

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15. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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>I know the answer to this question for me:
>
>would you tell your new girlfriend about the hobby you have
>enjoyed at least once or twice or do you never mention it
>EVER?
>
>For me: I never mention it EVER. Unless I knew she was once
>a provider, my guess is any civvy would be FREAKED and go
>running...
>
>what say you?

To quote Jack Webb AKA Joe Friday: "You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and WILL be used against you in a court of law."

BoneDonor

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16. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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I wouldn't talk about my (or ask about her) past relationships period!

It's history and I can't change it. A new relationship = a new future.

Grip
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17. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   I see no reason to put it out there,it couldn't do anything but bring trouble.

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18. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Fuck No

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19. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   You're out of your mine if you tell anyone. This is one of those things which no one but another monger would understand. The reaction you would get is, "Are you so fucking pathetic that you have to buy pussy?"

For me, I like variety and who the fuck has time for any games. It's easier just to find what you like and for a low fee, it's all good.

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!

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21. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   You got it right, mwf. Never tell. EVER.

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rforre1
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22. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Are you crazy?

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23. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   Looks pretty unanimous, NoFknWay!!!!!

I made the mistake and told a friend, he always has a way of bringing it up and not in a good way. I'm waiting for a slip in front of a gf, then shit will hit the fan!

For now on, this is definitely my lil secret

Fs

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24. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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Do not, I repeat, DO NOT, tell a new GF that you've paid for sex in the past. In her primal limbic mind, she will think you are a bigger loser than a murderer. The only thing worse in her mind is a child molestor.

"[catlover is]...honest, and an asset to RB." -ferdinand

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25. "RE: do you tell your new SO about your hobby past?"
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   You said unless you knew she was once a provider a provider?!

What! Do you really think that your current SO, that you found out was a provider herself! Is going to really want to hear about all the girls you paid to sleep with? You think that she'll be impressed? Don't ever say a word of your expriences in the hobby past!


AbeD

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