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"Provider participation"
 
   What is it about provider participation that you find exceptional provocative and rockets your session?

For me, I really enjoy the lady when she gets vocal. Here's an example:

http://www.redtube.com/8144

How about you guys?

Thank you.

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1. "RE: Provider participation"
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   Love the vocals too and occasionally lite biting and scratching.

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2. "RE: Provider participation"
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   Soft purring vocalization as she is having a real orgasm during 2 FIV while DATY on her clit. Fun!

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3. "RE: Provider participation"
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Any time a provider can convince me that she's really into the session and enjoying herself. That could in the form of verbal communication but also non-verbal keys. As a for instance a discreet finger in the bunghole will usually liven things up.

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14. "RE: Provider participation"
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   Are you talking yours or hers?

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4. "RE: Provider participation"
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   EVA is the best. Hadn’t seen the vid posted, very nice! Something about seeing a pro early in their career is absolutely hot… As for the question, I find like others I am simple. Any cue’s that lead me to “believe” that they are into the experience only heightens my experience. The caveat being OVERLY expressive. Where that line is varies, but a good woman will have a good instinct of when and where to apply the “Drama” It’s defiantly a turn off when you she is gaining too much pleasure from an experience! Kind of have to ask yourself questions during the act which is not where your mind needs to be…

Hoss...

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5. "RE: Provider participation"
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>What is it about provider participation that you find
>exceptional provocative and rockets your session?
>
>For me, I really enjoy the lady when she gets vocal. Here's
>an example:
>
>http://www.redtube.com/8144
>
>How about you guys?
>
>Thank you.
>
>rx
OOH YEAH! THAT'S HOT GAVE ME A BONER NOW I HAVE TO BUST A NUT.

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6. "RE: Provider participation"
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   I like being caressed, particulary when she reached Mr. Johnson from behind and between my legs, and that is why I am switching from FS to FBSM. Vocal? Love it as long as it is not too loud...

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7. "RE: Provider participation"
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I was surprised when a provider said "fuck me, (my name)". I was soo taken aback that she remembered my name that I blew my wad right there.

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8. "One word"
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   Enthusiasm. However they choose to express it is OK with me.

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9. "RE: Provider participation"
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LAST EDITED ON 06-Feb-10 AT 12:16 PM (PST)
 
I also like it when a provider gets a little vocal. I especially like it when they tend to give you a little direction either vocally or physically. Like holding the sides of your head during daty and just gently moving it around. Or "Yes right there baby, don't stop, right there".

I saw a provider 2 weeks ago and during daty I inserted 1 fiv and the next thing I know I have 2 fiv and out of the blue she just says "Fuck me hard with ur fingers while you lick my clit". She came in no time.

However, what I enjoy most from a provider is that once I have shot my wad they don't jump up right away to go clean up. They lay there with you awhile. As after the deed, I like to cuddle and stroke her body and her do the same to me. Kinda long, butt that does it for me!


Cheers,

H1

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10. "RE: Provider participation"
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It's all about the connection and how it is received/perceived by each party; how in-to-it was each person, how did he/she express him/herself, and was it REAL (or at least credible)? Getting my desires satisfied is one thing, but getting my desires fulfilled where the provider's goal is to please my desires with her own style and in a truly profound way - with skills, enthusiasm, joy, an infusion of lust, and being in-the-moment where pleasure and the instruments of pleasure merge is what I seek. The hobbiest has the right to expect being pleased - after all, he's paying for it; however, for me, it is an ego boost if I am able to please my provider in the carnal way that she enjoys and it shows an understanding of give and take, because it isn't about just me - it's a shared experience for both. I want the appreciation of the encounter to be mutual and if it isn't, then it falls short.

I want a woman who will use ALL of her senses to arouse me, and good vocalization is a big part of it, from non-verbal sounds to enthusiastic words of description of feeling, encouragement, or appreciation. The physical sensations entwine themselves with the mental image of what's going on to heighten the level of satisfaction.

If the woman is on the same "wave length" as I am, it is a huge plus - it's another level of communication or connectedness. If both are open, then it isn't about the provider or me, it's about US, and we're in it together to make it as good as it can be for BOTH of us.

I found the video both extremely arousing (the actors and the sex) but also disturbing (the plot). I guess the lady's name is Eva, but I'm not familiar with her - she was outstanding - an attractive
super-sucker/great-fucker/enthusiastic+/vocal sexual dynamo; the well-endowed guy certainly was a very good sexual compliment. Great sex with wonderful enthusiasm! Apparently this was (one of) her first video(s). If it was the script, the plot didn't resonate with me, and if it wasn't acting out a script, the thought of the male's insensitivity of bareback creampie without her accompanying birth control, taking advantage of the female, putting her into a possibly precarious position (pregnancy/abortion quandries) was shameful and disrespectful. Unwanted pregnancies have contributed to many of society's problems today. I can't get into doing what I like to do unless she is equally in to it too, and doing something against someone else's will (rape fantasy, etc.) is a turn-off to me. Different strokes for different folks. I want the two of us to be doing things that we both like and want to do and can appreciate during the experience and in the memory afterwards. It's about respect and shared mutual pleasure.

Regards,
Feelgood

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11. "RE: Provider participation"
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   LAST EDITED ON 06-Feb-10 AT 11:41 PM (PST)
 
I'm certain she knew it was a creampie shoot when she signed up for it.
Most porn actresses are on some kind of birth control.
I agree with you though,as a plot device the "creampie surprise" is a little disturbing.

I like enthusiasm,eye contact and sexy smiles from providers.

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12. "RE: Provider participation"
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I love watching my creme spill out after inserting a finger in there like checking the oil level with a dipstick.

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15. "RE: Provider participation"
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   She looked like she was trying to stifle laughter. She wasn't a convincing actress. I do like how her pussy flexed as she talked though.

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16. "RE: Provider participation"
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>I'm certain she knew it was a creampie shoot when she signed
>up for it.
>Most porn actresses are on some kind of birth control.
>I agree with you though,as a plot device the "creampie
>surprise" is a little disturbing.
>
>I like enthusiasm,eye contact and sexy smiles from
>providers.

Perhaps it wasn't real sperm. Besides if they were worried about getting her pregnant maybe he should have done her in the butt instead. Alot tighter. Her pussy looks like it has been stretched out/used many times.

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17. "RE: Provider participation"
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it was all fake acting.

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13. "RE: Provider participation"
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For me it's the sexy evil look that says "The things I am going to do to you". Giving me her full attention, like there is no one else in the world except for her and I. Must have Enthusiasm!!

Another big turn on is a provider that is able tp give great vocal and physical directions with out sounding like a school warren.

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18. "RE: Provider participation"
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I agree about the evil look -- so hot. One thing I really love is when your DATY and the provider lets you know that what you're doing is really working, both vocally and physically (fingers through hair, squeezing your arm or squeezing you with her legs).

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19. "RE: Provider participation - EYE Contact!"
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Eye contact can be So Important! On occasion (usually with a younger girl that no god fearin' self respectin' ol' geezer like me otter be fukkin' anyway) I've taken note of eyes looking away with either a "god I'm so tired of fucking today" or some sort of uninvolved look. It's a turn off. I'm not unsympathetic ... hell, I'm sure that I get plenty of "I wish I was on some Fijian Island instead of this damn office" looks on my face when I'm at work!

Vocals are a matter of taste, I suppose. Bad-Porn Hammy Acting, "Oh Yeah Fuck Me Harder You Cock Monster!" lines just make my eyes roll. OTOH, I don't want to be fucking a mute. (Check that - If there are any mute providers out there, I'll be glad to have an open mind about it!)

I remember back in the day when NatashaNZ was down here t' the South Bay (and her rates was down here on earth) she'd talk up a storm of quite imaginative dirty talk (not loud though.) It was kind of hot, like higher quality phone sex on a more personalized level - at least I think so ... I've only tried phone sex once or twice as a lark - it don't do much for me.

A lot of hand contact, scratching the back, grabbing the glutes, etc. helps indicate involvement. And quite frankly, I like the woman to take the lead somewhat - to be aggressive: "damnit, I'm going to fuck the hell out of you!"

What really works best is when the woman WANTS to be with you. I've a modest list of favorites nowdays that I repeatedly get the feeling that they're really into it, and having fun with me.

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20. "RE: Provider participation"
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   I agree with those that talk about the connection being the key. It doesn't have to be done vocally, but some of the girls seem to have a knack of making you feel like you are the only man in the universe for that hour session. My favorite is when I'm in missionary position and the girl pulls me closer to her as if I was really with my girlfriend. I actually find the loud vocalizing somewhat distracting. I've had a few "Fuck me Billy" that really worked for me, but the typical dirty talk stuff usually comes across as fake and just doesn't do the trick.

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