For me, I really enjoy the lady when she gets vocal. Here's an example:

http://www.redtube.com/8144

How about you guys?

Thank you.

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Hoss...

I saw a provider 2 weeks ago and during daty I inserted 1 fiv and the next thing I know I have 2 fiv and out of the blue she just says "Fuck me hard with ur fingers while you lick my clit". She came in no time.

However, what I enjoy most from a provider is that once I have shot my wad they don't jump up right away to go clean up. They lay there with you awhile. As after the deed, I like to cuddle and stroke her body and her do the same to me. Kinda long, butt that does it for me!

Cheers,

H1

I want a woman who will use ALL of her senses to arouse me, and good vocalization is a big part of it, from non-verbal sounds to enthusiastic words of description of feeling, encouragement, or appreciation. The physical sensations entwine themselves with the mental image of what's going on to heighten the level of satisfaction.

If the woman is on the same "wave length" as I am, it is a huge plus - it's another level of communication or connectedness. If both are open, then it isn't about the provider or me, it's about US, and we're in it together to make it as good as it can be for BOTH of us.

I found the video both extremely arousing (the actors and the sex) but also disturbing (the plot). I guess the lady's name is Eva, but I'm not familiar with her - she was outstanding - an attractive
super-sucker/great-fucker/enthusiastic+/vocal sexual dynamo; the well-endowed guy certainly was a very good sexual compliment. Great sex with wonderful enthusiasm! Apparently this was (one of) her first video(s). If it was the script, the plot didn't resonate with me, and if it wasn't acting out a script, the thought of the male's insensitivity of bareback creampie without her accompanying birth control, taking advantage of the female, putting her into a possibly precarious position (pregnancy/abortion quandries) was shameful and disrespectful. Unwanted pregnancies have contributed to many of society's problems today. I can't get into doing what I like to do unless she is equally in to it too, and doing something against someone else's will (rape fantasy, etc.) is a turn-off to me. Different strokes for different folks. I want the two of us to be doing things that we both like and want to do and can appreciate during the experience and in the memory afterwards. It's about respect and shared mutual pleasure.

Regards,
Feelgood

Another big turn on is a provider that is able tp give great vocal and physical directions with out sounding like a school warren.

Vocals are a matter of taste, I suppose. Bad-Porn Hammy Acting, "Oh Yeah Fuck Me Harder You Cock Monster!" lines just make my eyes roll. OTOH, I don't want to be fucking a mute. (Check that - If there are any mute providers out there, I'll be glad to have an open mind about it!)

I remember back in the day when NatashaNZ was down here t' the South Bay (and her rates was down here on earth) she'd talk up a storm of quite imaginative dirty talk (not loud though.) It was kind of hot, like higher quality phone sex on a more personalized level - at least I think so ... I've only tried phone sex once or twice as a lark - it don't do much for me.

A lot of hand contact, scratching the back, grabbing the glutes, etc. helps indicate involvement. And quite frankly, I like the woman to take the lead somewhat - to be aggressive: "damnit, I'm going to fuck the hell out of you!"

What really works best is when the woman WANTS to be with you. I've a modest list of favorites nowdays that I repeatedly get the feeling that they're really into it, and having fun with me.

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