Some years ago, when I was just entering my 40s, the effort to arrange a visit with my first local provider turned into a steel-cage death match of logistics. First, she screwed up locations, then my schedule tanked just before our second attempt, then I was traveling for 3 weeks.. all the while trying to make this happen. By the time I actually showed up at her door, it had been about 9 weeks since I'd had a sexual release of any kind.

Lo and behold, I truly was Superman. Absolutely effortless wedding-dick-quality wood, twice during the session, complete with release, and, when emerging from my shower, I sprouted an immediate encore when I spied her delectable derriere as she lounged, dreamily, face-down on the bed in her boudoir - this was Ashley Avery, incidentally, for those veterans who have served.

As we parted, she said, "Sh*t - you should look into being a gigolo." I certainly appreciated the compliment behind the lie.

Regrettably, the erectile exploits above, while common when I was 19, are getting, yes.. harder and harder to come by. Self-abuse, in all ways, shapes and forms, takes its toll. I mention this partly because I again, find myself having "abstained" for multiple weeks, and will be seeing a young lady soon. Here's to hoping history repeats itself.

Any other tales of heroic woodsmanship born from the depths of denial?

Good hunting,

-Craig

All men *are* dogs. I just happen to be a very *good* dog.

So true...don't stroke, this ain't no joke.

Abstinence makes the hard grow stronger just as surely as absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Some years back, after embarrassing myself on several occassions with semi-limp dick syndrome, I took the plunge and downed some V. Now I'm superman on demand...just give me 30 mins. or so notice!

I relieve myself solo rather often -- twice a week is typical, though sometimes I wait over a week, and occasionally I have to let go twice in one day.

I've always prided myself on my self-control. As a teenager, at least a few years before my first sexual experience, I heard about premature ejaculation being a disappointment for women, and I was determined that would not be me. I used to practice holding back.

Anyway, put it all together, and -- I can always get it up for my wife, and I can always last up to my wife's own orgasm. Sometimes I can even last through her climax, as her contractions are not always as intense as they once were.

If I ever visit an RA (and I'm curious, that's why I'm here), I wonder how I would do?

She was a delightful girl and had such wonderfully soft yet firm breasts. And she had such a nice flat up by the tunnel. I hope that she has thrived wherever she settled down...

As for abstinence, I'll vote for 48 hours to recharge, and I've hit the big five-oh. A second time is definitely infrequent and only happens after an hour or two of relaxation (easy on the booze), so it only works with a few very special girls (a warm bath à deux helps).

Since then I haven't had that kind of experience. I find that if I don't see anyone for a week or so I can get wood right away and keep it. Also if I see that person early in the evening compared to later its better.
If I go for the late appointment I am only good for one good pop as my mind says go, but the body isn't willing. I have tried the vitamins like
V, C, and L, but find they seem to work good for the moment, but need a few days after to recharge. I am a porn star for a few hours.

As I have gotten older, I find that msog aren't that important compared to one good one and then some time to recharge. If it happens then great, if not it is nice trying.