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BEERBUD99
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"Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
 
   I had one of the girls here on my TD list, and saw her in the chat room. We chatted and I told her I'd like to see her. She said she requires appointments to be made thru her web site.

I checked it out, and she's asking for real name, home phone, work phone, employer etc!!!!

I filled in what I was comfortable with and put in the other fields that I'd give more info over the phone. She e-mailed back saying that pls fill in the rest.

I called her and left her a voice mail telling her that I'd give her more info over the phone, and if she was comfortable with that, she should call me back. Never got a call, so I guess not. Which is fine, if the provider is uncomfortable from the get go, it's hardly going to be a good session.

She has good reviews, so I guess some guys have no problem entering their info on a provider's web site. I'm not comfortable with that for several reasons.

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Skeptical click here to view user rating
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1. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   Move on.

On her side, she's comfortable with rigorous screening and she's willing to pass up business with those who aren't.

On your side, you're not comfortable with giving that info, and there are many many other choices out there. You don't want to leave yourself vulnerable in that way.

Move on.

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BEERBUD99
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2. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   Thanks, I have.

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oralio click here to view user rating
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3. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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LAST EDITED ON 11-Feb-10 AT 10:44 PM (PST)
 
Move on. Don't even consider it. Not for a second. These girls are like the internet. Once you give your info to one, that info is unlikely to stop there. Few girls ask for that much info.

Be the change
you wish to see

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Mercescom
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4. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   Can't disagree with any of those responding. Always keep hobby life separate from personal life.

Be patient. Keep her on your list. Just put her down at the bottom. In my experience, they ask for this type of information in the beginning, and sooner or later they'll drop it for either other means of screening or none altogether. The market will dictate whether or not they continue to go down the route of asking for this type of information.

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shark31
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5. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   On her side, she's comfortable with rigorous screening and she's willing to pass up business with those who aren't.

On your side, you're not comfortable with giving that info, and there are many many other choices out there. You don't want to leave yourself vulnerable in that way

///Nuff said...and said well.

THE 2nd!

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6. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 12-Feb-10 AT 10:02 AM (PST)
 
Being a public figure myself I have been recognized by providers without saying who I am. Giving personal information isn't a big deal to me since some providers will know it upon seeing me anyways.
That's also why I travel far away from home to hobby

"Alea iacta est!"

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Argo
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15. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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Sure, Gavin.

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JimiChanga click here to view user rating
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7. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   real name, home phone, work phone, employer etc

Bogus name, hobby phone #1 num, hobby phone #2 num, bogus employer.

Easy enough.

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freelanceGYN
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8. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   How about asking HER for her real name and a copy of her most recent STD report showing HER name. LOTSA Luck. Too many fish in the sea to be giving out that kind of info.

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AndyDufresne click here to view user rating
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23. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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GREAT idea.

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9. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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I might consider it if she gives me her real name (verified by showing me her drivers license) her actual living address.

There are a few providers that I have shared more info with but only after we have gotten to know each other quite well. Note I said shared. That means she gave me the same kind of info: real name, home phone#, real address etc.

Grip
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10. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   I think grip is right ... quid pro quo. If you are comfortable with sharing such information, fine. If not, that's fine, too. If she demands that info, just say no and move along. Just keep ahold of your heart strings: just because you've shared information doesn't mean you're in love.

Life begins at 50 ... or so.

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11. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   I would rather give my credit card number than real name work etc.etc. At least I can cancel my credit card and delete the information. I have always just moved on to another provider when I saw these requirements. There are too many choices out there. Although, I will admit there have been a couple of XXX stars that I would have coughed up the required $$$$$$$$ for, but their third party screening is just to onerous for me.

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tiga
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12. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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Go through all the ladies on your to-do list that aren't putting you in an uncomfortable situation, then come back and consider her when your list is exhausted.

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13. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   Move on. You two don't meet each others requirements.

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14. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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No, I wouldn't. This is why I don't bother with providers who require references.

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16. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   I don't mind using providers that ask for references FROM OTHER PROVIDERS I HAVE VISITED. I figure it's them trying to stay safe. Have no problem with that.

Now is she's asking for work info, blood type, penis size etc....fuck that. With so many girls on the market, I just move on to the next girl. Their loss not mine.

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WhatMeWorry
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17. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   Never Ever Ever.

Isn't that one of the big reasons we pay for it, so they wount know who we are?

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18. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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You know, for me it depends on the provider. If I see she's been around a while and well reviewed, I might get a "good feeling." Accordingly I can give enough information so that's she's comfortable I'm not LE or some Boston Strangler. And one provider will vouch for me with another provider so the information at risk becomes a little less of a worry.

Of course there was that one provider who abused the priviledge. Big trouble then. But they'll never find the body.

JK

Ernie

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20. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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Here is what I "give up" -

Depending on my mood, I am either Richard (Dick) Longfellow or Hugh G. Dick. I live on 69 Beaver Street, San Francisco (and this address is real, even though I am no not.)

My profession is swordfighter.

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19. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   why don't you read what you wrote, because it seems that you are answering your own question

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21. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 15-Feb-10 AT 08:40 AM (PST)
 
I have not, but I might after many encounters and only if I felt the level of trust had built up to where I was comfortable. I would NOT do it for a first-time encounter with someone on my TD list.

The first provider I ever saw (just about 6 months ago... a few states away) stays in touch via email, and she did give me HER personal info. She never asked for mine. The communication is actually just very friendly... I get the sense (especially reading PinkBook posts) that a lot of these ladies don't have a lot of close friends because of the line of work they are involved in...

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22. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   I'll ask it this way... do you think it is prudent to pass on your personal information to a person who thinks sucking on weiners is a career vocation? In American society anyway, remember that generally they are doing this because they likely already have some pronounced psychological issues. They are isolated by what they do and are always just one step away from being incarcerated - you really don't want to pass your personal information onto a person who is in such a desperate straits.

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24. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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Well that may be true for some providers, but for others, it's a matter of economic survival. My last encounter was with a Real Estate professional - who now can't make a living in her chosen field. Others also try to make ends meet in legit ways, but can't.

I try to stay away from the psycho babes. Which admitedly is difficult sometimes.

I am comfortable giving my info to a real estate agent. I was just looking for some... er... property... to... um... invest in.

Ernie

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25. "RE: Would you give your personal info to a provider?"
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   I guess that could be possible, although I would suspect if someone had the smarts for being successful in real estate they would be bright enough to pursue something other than being a prostitute. I sometimes think that they say something like that (ex: 'I'm working on my degree' 'I'm a real estate agent' etc) to sort of take the onus off of what it is they are doing for money. I suspect if one could wave a magic wand and illegal drugs and child sexual abuse would be erased from the past, present and future - there really wouldn't be many ladies turning tricks for a living. Just my two cents!

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