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taraz1000
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"usefull reviews!!"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 16-Feb-10 AT 12:31 PM (PST)
 
what kind of information u guys think is the most helpfull in a good review?? sometimes i dont wanna put too many details, but at the same time i would like to be more helpfull. some times i read review that are useless too.

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1. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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Reviews WITH acronyms please.

Good quality details about attitude and service and appearance please.

No BULLSHIT allowed.

Be a good RB REVIEW CITIZEN.

tra

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2. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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Just make it like 5th grade english class.....write a 6 to 8 sentence paragraph describing what went on. Since almost every girl is "ymmv" they don't want every little detail out there!
Stay Groovy,
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3. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Ask the girl how much detail she wants revealed ... Some don't want alot and alot want alot ... Some tell me very detail eliminates alot of questions from hobbysts of what services they provide .... And some just want you to say ... Very general things but nice time .... Remember reviews are for both the women and guys and guys you need to review ..... Alot of screening is now done by researching the reviews a hobbyst has done and who they saw since the reference checking has broken down since girls don't want to lose biz to other girls


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4. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   That is utter crap. Who cares what the girl wants you to say or not? The girls get access to a large pool of customers on RB. The price to pay for that is being reviewed. You can say whatever you want in a review. More details the better. Looks, attitude, service, hygine all of it adds to the quality. If she does not like it, then she should not be on RB. Since when does RB require permission from the girls to post reviews?

This lapdog behavior is a huge pet peeve of mine.

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5. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   I agree with Onlylooking. You're writing a review to help the Redbook community at large, not to bolster the RA's agenda.

What's most helpful to me is to read something new about the experience, not just repeating what others before have already stated. Presonally, I'm interested in first impressions, e.g. what she's wearing when she opens the door and how receptive she is to your preferences.


Review-Reserach-EXECUTE!

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23. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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>That is utter crap. Who cares what the girl wants you to say
>or not? The price to pay for that is being reviewed. You can say
>whatever you want in a review. More details the better.
>Looks, attitude, service, hygine all of it adds to the
>quality.
>Since when does RB require permission from the girls to
>post reviews?
>
>This lapdog behavior is a huge pet peeve of mine.

Removed references to gals on RB, makes no difference if they're on RB or not, review them as you would want if you were the one reading it.

I'm Duwop and I approve this message.


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6. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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When I started out writing reviews, I was taken aback by what 1 girl said to me: "You can write anything you want in the 1 line summary, but in the entire body of the review message, you can say whatever the hell you really wanted to". This is in the entire opposite of what ruggedhandsomeman said.

So, fuck what he said and go with what I said.

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7. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Feb-10 AT 03:27 PM (PST)
 
Didn't say she could determine what the service Level was but the detail but I really don't have a oppinion one way or another ... Just sharing oppinions of others ... Do what you want ... Of course I was assuming it was a good review .... If not then guess more is better.

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8. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   The useful stuff. I see some need to post a lot of meaningless blather about minute details. I want the big picture; is it the girl in the pictures, did she act happy to see you, was she competant in her delivery, quality of her tits, you know helpful stuff like that.

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9. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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>>>So, fuck what he said and go with what I said.<<<

bfer for Christ's Sake!

plus....

>>>quality of her tits, you know helpful stuff like that.<<<

WhatMeWorry are you joking? You must be!

tra

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10. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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Reviews are opinions...which are like butts...everyone has one

Seriously, the value of reviews I find is based on:
1)the history of the reviewer, and what he thinks of the providers I know.
2) If the credibility is believable, then comments about her; does she look like her pics, body, face, etc. Definitely interested in attitude and her personality.
3)Services, what she is comfortable, not comfortable with.

I weed out the 10s from a single reviewer, balance the above with established RB'ers, and what I find interesting.

Net: VIP membership takes a lot of the guess work out of it. Go sign up.


Ladies first...always.

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11. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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A review is the subjective reporting of a hobbyist’s experience with a provider.

The skill and attitude of the provider as well as the skill and attitude of the hobbyist will shape the experience.

A lot of hobbyist consider a provider’s skills on the basis on what she does with her mouth and tongue during a blow job, the way she thrusts her pelvis during intercourse, and the way she touches, caresses, and fingers his balls. Hobbyist vary in how they like it, different stokes for different folks, so much depends on how intuitive she is to apply her skills in the way that will most please her man. (in the context of a GFE session you are her man during that hour) and how capable the hobbyist is in communicating, mostly non verbally, his desires to his woman. (in the context of a GFE session she is your woman during that hour)

Some hobbyist like to keep it simple, they just want to bust a nut in the mouth or the pussy of a hot babe. A reasonably pleasant demeanor and a drama free environment is all that is needed.

There is no wrong or right approach to the hobby, just different depending on the needs and interest of the participant. However, the hobbyist who has a low opinion of women that “sell their bodies” or thinks that since he is paying her he need not respect her, or take her feelings into account, is not likely to get as good of a session as the hobbyist that has the skill and attitude to make a woman feel safe, comfortable and appreciated.

So key things I look for in reviews:
1. She is not LE or a ROB or a dangerous person.
2. What is on the menu, i.e., DFK, BBBJ, DATY
3. Attitude, does she like providing, is her approach mechanical or passionate.
4. Any comments on pics being accurate or not.

Scores are even more subjective and I tend to see 10, 9, 8, as being almost the same score. I'm more interested in the narrative.

BTW, I think a lot of hobbyist will write more detail in a TOFTT first review than on a provider who has 2 or more pages of reviews where a quick confirmation of previous review findings or pointing out differences may be all that is needed.

http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=show_thread&om=42359&forum=general&archive=#10


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14. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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That makes entirely too much sense. Well done.

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12. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Be honest on types of services provided. Ratings on providers are subjective and less reliable in my opinion.

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13. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   LAST EDITED ON 17-Feb-10 AT 09:53 AM (PST)
 
I like reviews that go into details about looks (of the RA) and the service. And maybe a comment about the PO and how easy it was to find the place (do NOT give specific location. General area at most). You can use ratings but I don't find ratings to be all that useful because they are so subjective. One man's 9 is another man's 7. If rating is 6 or less, be sure to go into detail explaining why you feel she deserves such a low rating. Same with service descriptions such as GFE, RBGFE. Doesn't really tell me anything. What does it really mean? There are so many interpretations. I would prefer you give details about the session and some comments.

Looks:
1) Is she the girl in the pics or does she resemble the girl in the pics?
2) What size are her boobs and are they natural or enhanced?
3) Is she slim, average, thick, curvy, fat?
4) Would you say she is DDG, GND, Coed, Pretty, Just OK, Plain, Fugly
5) If she is not the girl in the pics, does she resemble pics or who does she look like?
6) Describe her. Lot of makeup? Long straight hair? etc

Service:
1) What was on her menu?
2) Attitude. Was she enthusiastic, good energy or just went through the motions?
3) How was her CBJ/BBBJ. Toothy? Held on with a death grip? Nice and slow or like a hoover? DT?
4) How was her CG. Hard pounding or slow and gentle (I like the latter)
5) How did she feel in mish/doggie? Loose like the Grand Canyon or nice and tight? Shaved, Partly shaved, trimmed, natural kitty?

PO:
1) Nice or rude?
2) Easy to understand (english) or heavy accent?
3) Good directions?

Location:
1) Which general area (SFO, Penninsula, SJ/SC area)
2) Easy to find?
3) Easy to find apt in complex?

You can omit info that she did special just for you (like menu item she doesn't do for other clients).

More info is always better. A terse review like "She was 8.5 across the board and RBGFE" is better than nothing but doesn't really tell me much.

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15. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   LAST EDITED ON 17-Feb-10 AT 01:14 PM (PST)
 
My comments were directed towards a good review, on someone you want to see again as opposed to a bad review or even a girl you dont care if you ever see again ....then of course you would be more graphic and detail .. Some girls offer more on a menu based on ymmv and dont want that shared on a review, now if you want to respect that and see her again and again it would be wise not to divulge everything.

Case in point I have seen several girls who flat out say they dont do RBGFE ... cbj no dfk but in reality do if ymmv and you promise not to say in a review ... hence they dont want every 400 pound sweaty balls, smelly armpits dude that walks in and getting into a argument why there reviews say they are rbgfe but they are getting cbj.

But the normal stuff should be revealed regardless, like does she look like her pics? better worse, is she a clock watcher, was she in a hurry or took her time, was she mechanical or was she sensual passionate good personality etc, how was she to communicate, book? how was the incall?

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16. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Thee MOST helpful thing IMO is people that check the boxes for so that the header of the review looks like this....

FS DATY BBBJ etc. etc.

Drives me nuts when that isn't done and worse yet none of it specifically mentioned in the details. Useless review.

I write more detailed reviews for the guys that like them but myself don't care to read long reviews much, at least initially. Initially I want quick details at a glance. If those meet my liking I read further sometimes.

Also, its always been my opinion that the boxes checked should reflect whats offered, not what you chose. i.e. if she offers you BBBJ and MSOG and YOU opt for CBJ and a single pop then the BBBJ and MSOOG boxes should be checked for the benefit of others.

I've literally missed BBBJ girls due to the last couple of reviewers opting for CBJ and checkingthat box. I open the first couple of reviews and see CBJ and move on. Not a good service to us or the ladies.

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18. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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I beg to differ with you on a couple of your points. First, I see that you have sessioned with some of the top choice ladies on RB, a couple of which I have also had the pleasure. Therefore, I take you as a serious hobbyist who has mastered the researching of reviews to find quality. However, I wonder if you have developed techniques for searching WITHIN the reviews. I can go through multiple pages of reviews on a provider and find what I need to know in less than 30 seconds on whether to pass on view further. Cltr + “F” are useful keys.

> Also, its always been my opinion that the boxes checked should reflect whats offered, not what you chose.
>i.e. if she offers you BBBJ and MSOG and YOU opt for CBJ and a single pop then the BBBJ and MSOOG boxes
>should be checked for the benefit of others.

I only do this if I’m the first TOFTT reviewer, based on she tell me directly that she offers a service I didn’t chose. If I didn’t do it, I ain’t reporting it. Remember the review is YOUR experience NOT what she claims or advertises.

When it comes to checking boxes, save yourself some stress and let go of it and move on. It can be worked around doing a WITHIN review search. Coming up with a standard efficient review method that all hobbyist will follow is like making the hospital emergency room more efficient by scheduling emergencies.


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22. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Hi HiStepper, sorry I forgot about this thread and missed your reply.

> If I didn’t do it, I ain’t reporting it. Remember
>the review is YOUR experience NOT what she claims or
>advertises.

Just to be clear about what I meant.....I would never check the box for MSOG or BBBJ if it wasn't actually offered during MY specific session (what she claims in ads etc. means nothing) I think if it was offered to me, it's fair to and more accurate to check that box for he benefit of other hobbyists to pass on what's truelly available. Maybe it's not perfect but I thnk it beats checking CBJ when a BBBJ was offered. In addition to what I cited above it may also give the impression a given provider is a YMMV girl when she's actually very consistent.

Maybe you could school me on your searching WITHIN a review via PM? Always looking to learn new tricks from the vets.

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24. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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>Just to be clear about what I meant.....I would never check
>the box for MSOG or BBBJ if it wasn't actually offered
>during MY specific session (what she claims in ads etc.
>means nothing) I think if it was offered to me, it's fair to
>and more accurate to check that box for he benefit of other
>hobbyists to pass on what's truelly available. Maybe it's
>not perfect but I thnk it beats checking CBJ when a BBBJ was
>offered. In addition to what I cited above it may also give
>the impression a given provider is a YMMV girl when she's
>actually very consistent.

I saw this in your previous post, but did not comment as I thought you might have meant checking both CBJ AND BBBJ although not worded that way so I misunderstood.

The problem with this is that by not checking the CBJ box does a disservice for the hobbyist who will only see everything covered providers. While you and I prefer RBGFE others don't want it.

>Maybe you could school me on your searching WITHIN a review
>via PM? Always looking to learn new tricks from the vets.

No need for PM privacy, it's really very simple. When you click on show all reviews activate your computer's document search program typically by pressing down the keys Clt + F and type in a key word, like BBBJ or whatever key word you want. If you get hits then search the next key word, doing this for as many words you want. The point being if your words aren't there you can quickly move on to the next review.

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17. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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A good review needn't be overly graphic. In fact, some guys get carried away thinking their writing pornography for pay. For me, I initially want to know about the ease of making appointments, reference issues if any, and any problems finding the incall. I don't need to know much about the location itself unless it's particularly bad or if the provider has pets or family/friends hanging around.

Regarding the session itself, simply giving a list of services offered is good. Make sure to mention any advertised services that weren't offered. From there a brief discussion of the provider's appearance and a few sentences that give the rest of us a feel for what a session with her might be like. Wrap it up with a brief high point and/or low one plus whether you would recommend or repeat.

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19. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Quite simply, a list of services and the dontation paid. I tend to write off reviews that will state the donation as "as advertised" (when it's not)and activities as "as indicated in previous reviews". It makes me suspicious that these reviews were either planted by shills etc....

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21. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   dont write off as advertised ... sometimes guys get special prices if they promise not to publisize it ..... its a tradeoff im more than willing to agree upon for a girl

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20. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   -Acronyms of services
-Looks were accurate or not
-Incall location - quality of the hotel, discreet entry to lobby, weird things like another girl waiting in bathroom, just overall security issues.

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25. "RE: usefull reviews!!"
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   Does she and will she EAT ASS??? start there!
lol!

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