LAST EDITED ON 16-Feb-10 AT 07:01 PM (PST)
I am bit confused because the above choice does not really reflect what I consider important in interaction with my ATF. Because the choice above are so elementary and basic that they are not something that are important to a long term ATF and a regular.There must be many reasons why a man repeatedly meet a provider, but most importantly varying level of connection and trust accompanied with the ease of communication come to my mind. ATF to me is someone who you saw repeatedly over several years.
Trust is mutual because she had provided excellent professional sessions and you as a client did not violate her boundaries with mutual respect for time constraints and punctuality.
Because you do not flake, she may allow more flexibility for appointment timing i.e last minute or after hours session etc.
Because you are careful and safety conscious, she may trust you with plays that requires more attention to safety.
Because you do not react negatively when the play did not work out as you planned, she could give feed backs, that in turn increase the sense of mutual participation.
You both will get to know more about each others' sexual tendencies and comfort zones... in short become good at sessions. You become more adventurous, more connecting, more adoptable to new play variations like 3p, toys and kinks.
In some rare cases, she could become your guide or an accomplice in your erotic exploration in the REAL world.
And it is quite nice to develop a real long term human connection with a special lady via hobby. It actually feels like a sweet and nasty betrayal to every relationship rules including the tired old hobby moral codes.
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She is promptly, returns message/call within reasonable waiting time.
She showers, washes her p***y, uses mouthwash before meeting you.
She dress sexy lingeries and put make-ups on.
She won't look at the clock
She responses to your 'love', physically and/or orally
She gives head with passion
She spends time foreplay and/or after-plays
She laughs/smiles/moans the whole session
She showers with you afterwards
