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juicing666
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"Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outside of"
 
   I couldn't believe it! My wife's very close friend is a provider. I was looking through some adds and BOOM there she was. Pretty good looking too. Now that I know she lives a "secret" life I sort of want to contact her but probably won't. Very tempting....

Has anyone else ever stumbled across a provider they know but had no clue they were a provider? I had to share this story. I only wish others could understand how crazy this is.

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VonClitzentitz
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1. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   > I only wish others could understand how crazy this is.

Believe me, we do! Your post is just the tip of the iceberg on this subject.

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2. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   You should post a link to her ad. LOL. Is she asian?

There have been previous threads talking about encounters with providers who is someone they know from work. It would be funny if someone found out their female boss was also a part-time provider.

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juicing666
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3. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   I might post who she is later but right now I am in "shock" mode. Need to think about this. In a way I fear her knowing my secret even though I now know hers. For the record she is a brunette caucasian. I just really wonder her reaction if I set something up. Will she go for it or will things go bad?

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Rocco32
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4. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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Not worth testing the waters if your SO isn't extremely open minded. On the other hand, if your SO is open minded....offer to cook dinner for the two of them and open a bottle of nice wine or tequila!

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JustAnHJ
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5. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Don't do it man. Very likely she would find some way to out you to your wife. Women are weirdly loyal like that.

Think about what each of you has to lose. Your wife finds out her friend is a provider, they maybe stop being friends. Not too terrible for the provider. But your wife finds out about your hobby? That's a big deal.

But nothing keeping you from getting a buddy to take a session and take some photos...

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6. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Do it!!!!!

Just arrange for it to happen in a very dark dark room. She might go for that.

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23. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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You can't do that for one simple rule. Not much good will come of it but, plenty of bad will if you go there.

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7. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   I saw an short-lived ad that was posted by someone I suspect I used to with. I never found her attractive but was tossing around the idea of making an appt for an anger fuck session

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8. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Sometime back I posted a survey asking what providers would do if a friends husband came to them. The outing the guy numbers were too high. The hookers code of descretion flies out th window when it comes to friendships (and maybe rightfully so).

I've had a provider out me to my S/O. The fallout was unbelievable.

Stay far far away.

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blucas
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17. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Really? What was her motivation for doing that, and how did she have any access to your SO?

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9. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Why not show the Ad to the wife and get her reaction?

Maybe her "close friend" is going to try to recruit your wife into her stable or otherwise talk her into Hooking on the side for extra shopping money ??? Would you be cool with that? If not, I sure would confront her about the "friend".

Ya never know...........

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10. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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"Why not show the Ad to the wife and get her reaction?"


Well, MY wife's reaction would be, "What sleazy part of the Internet were you searching through that you found THIS?"


One way or the other, I would end up being in the wrong.

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11. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Don't do it, Dude.
Women have a special bond and if you fuck your SO's friend, she will out you before you're home.
Don't inform the SO of the ad. She'll really get pissed off at you for looking at porn.
Forget it, leave it alone.

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12. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Don't show the wife the ad. You'll be in deep for being on such a site.
Don't set anything up with the friend. Chick loyalty is weird, you'll be in deep again.
Do post a link toher ad. Plenty of gents here would like to get in deep.

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13. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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what are her ratings~

Looks: face (?), body (?)
Attitude:
Service:

>My wife's very close friend is a provider
the history...old or new close friend + how is it~ your wife knows a provider
juss a thought...no judgement

Deliver Us to Evil...

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14. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Maybe you are trolling; maybe you are serious. Great post regardless. In short: worlds collide equals bad. Get divorced in CA equals bad. If you have kids, equals really, really bad. Just be m'fking sure you never, ever run across her friend or give her anyway to link your RB life to your real life. You should think hard about stealth mode. I suspect you already have and are posting under a new handle already.

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15. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Years and years ago I called a service for an outcall to my apartment. The tall blonde in blue leather, white fishnets and platforms (yes, she really dressed that way when I asked her to, a rarity) that arrived was awesome and still is in my memory as one of my best total GFE's.

Two weeks later she started working for the same company I was. She worked on another floor and we saw each other only now and again. She never let on she recognized me and had a real poker face any time we passed in the halls and treated me like all the guys in the office. Flat.
She had a rep among the guys in the building as being the unbelievable, gorgeous, tall girl with the piles of golden hair that you will never get anywhere with and never get a date with. I always smiled and just said, "yeah, she's outta our league guys."

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18. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Dude do not be silly your wife already knows her close girlfriend is a
provider!. Leave it alone, because you may learn things about your wife you did not want to know. It amazes me how stupid we men are.


>I couldn't believe it! My wife's very close friend is a
>provider. I was looking through some adds and BOOM there she
>was. Pretty good looking too. Now that I know she lives a
>"secret" life I sort of want to contact her but probably
>won't. Very tempting....
>
>Has anyone else ever stumbled across a provider they know
>but had no clue they were a provider? I had to share this
>story. I only wish others could understand how crazy this
>is.

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19. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   Yes!

The hard part for you will be when your S/O tells YOU that her girlfriend is a provider.

If I were you, I'd practice my "surprised and shocked" reaction in the mirror many times before this happens! You might want to think of a few S/O-appropriate dialog enhancers as well:
-- Ewww
-- How skanky is that?
-- Wow, she must really be poor to have to do anything like THAT!
-- Make sure we double dishwash her wine glass next time she comes over.

But in the meantime, we ALL know that you are jacking off in the shower just thinking about her!

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20. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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LAST EDITED ON 18-Feb-10 AT 09:37 AM (PST)
 
You must really like living on the edge if you would even consider seeing a friend of your wife's for a session. Or beyond stupid...

Your only legit chance to stir the pot (so to speak) is to push your wife a little bit with comments about her friend. You will have to come up with comments that fit the situation, which I can only guess at, such as:

"I wonder why doesn't Jane ever have a boyfriend? Is she gay?"

"I wonder how does Jane live her lifestyle from what she makes as a volunteer at the SPCA? You should find out if they are hiring..."

"Jack, that wild guy at work I have told you about, showed me an ad for an escort that he had seen the night before that looked just like Jane. Can you believe that?! That guy is so skeevy."

Just happen to flick on the show diary of a call girl while channel surfing and say something like "I wonder if anyone we know ever did something like that?"

You can also just send the provider's link to a few people on RB and have them check her out for you...

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21. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   >> You can also just send the provider's link to a few people on RB and have them check her out for you...

I TOTALLY volunteer for TOFTT duty!! Inbox me. It could be even MORE fun and effective if you give me your wife's first name!!!

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22. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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I once saw a provider because i was into her look and body type plus she reminded me of this stunning girl who worked at the cafe near a job that I was working on and what do you know, she was the hot chick from the cafe. It was a good though strange session and neither of us said anything and I think it's best that way. I think that I'd rather keep my little alternate reality here a completely separate and special thing. Delve deeply, savor the experiences and remember them fondly and return to your regularly scheduled programming. Attempting to cross those areas of your life sounds like a foolish thing at best.

ET

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24. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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Not an ad. But, I came face to face in a strip club with a blond cute stripper that I worked with at a store. She didnt recognize me at first until she asked, "Don't I know you from somewhere?" When I told her we work together she kind of bonded with me that night. We ended up seeing each other outside the club in a semi-provider way (i.e., I paid a few of her bills, she boned me awesomely.) It ended when I moved away but it was pretty good while it lasted.

>==^,>

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25. "RE: Have you ever come across an AD of a provider you know outsid"
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   I've known three girls who have posted ads here. Never saw any of them. I knew one of them was a former stripper, but didn't know she escorted.

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