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"Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
 
   Someone made the coment today: "Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman at the mall, on TV or even at work they have to post they want to run to an AAMP to relieve their sexual energy or want to know who looks like said woman?"


I think that some guys are attracted to females with similar facial features to themselves. Such as guys searching out a partner of the same race beyond just cultural similarities and peer preasure.

Other guys are attracted to anything that moves.

And other guys such as non Asian guys are attracted to Asian women because they are the polar oposite of their own looks and features. The looks and features of Asian women compared to white men are so different when looking at visual indicators such as eyes, nose, hair color, check bones, facial structure, and complexion. I think for these guys their is a primal biological urge to procreat with the polar opposite mate in order to insure the best chance for the survival of the species.

Thus, it is not a diviant white guy seeing Asian women as sexual objects but rather it is rooted in an evolutionary strategy to ensure healthy reproduction.

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1. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   LAST EDITED ON 26-Feb-10 AT 05:06 PM (PST)
 
"egghead" is what Mrs. Dumpty gives to Humpty..


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2. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   LAST EDITED ON 26-Feb-10 AT 05:39 PM (PST)
 
Don't give men too much credit...tens of thousands of years of evolution have given men the need/urge to stick it in anything that moves, just to pass along his genes, let along trying to select the "best" of genetic diversity. Any healthy, young, woman will do, that is why guys go nuts over a curvy figure & big tits...this spells out healthy from an evolutionary standpoint.

The reason I go nuts over asian women is very simple, they don't have cottage cheese thighs, fat asses, and are generally in much better shape than the fat ass white women that approach me. Asians just turn me on physically...and don't eat like a starving pig.

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4. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   Plus they look younger than they actually are for a LONG while. :0)

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5. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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"The reason I go nuts over asian women is very simple, they don't have cottage cheese thighs, fat asses, and are generally in much better shape than the fat ass white women that approach me. Asians just turn me on physically...and don't eat like a starving pig."

Hi there, let me mess with some of your preconceptions!

I'm a blond Caucasian guy. When I was growing up here in the SF Bay Area, I was among slim, fit ladies of ALL racial backgrounds. The whole American blubber thing was just getting started in California, though I gather it was already in full swing in other parts of the country.

More than half my girlfriends have been Asian. My wife of nearly two decades is also Asian. I don't know why, but I always loved to look into Asian eyes. I have also always preferred dark hair to light. I have only had one blonde girlfriend.

Sometimes I think that my nose also guides me. My handle is "Chemistry," and that's no accident, since I've studied the subject. Go look up a study that was done with women sniffing mens' sweaty T-shirts, and the effect that a family of genes called MHC had on the results. Here's one link:

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/evolution/library/01/6/l_016_08.html

Across races, the MHC genes between two potential partners are almost certain to be different, and this may be a factor in attraction.

Now, back to your thoughts... my Asian wife is now menopausal, and her extra pounds have raised concerns with her doctor. While her age and health haven't killed my attraction to her, I think these things have killed HER interest in sex, and to some extent in me.

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3. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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Yellow fever is irrationally powerful in many men.

Suckers.

Be the change
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8. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   >Yellow fever is irrationally powerful in many men.

Absolutely. Sometimes the only christian way to sublimate it is by making inane internet posts and lots of 'em... ;)

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6. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an Asian woman..."
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   I lived in Taipei a few years, and fell in love with a new Asian woman almost every day. [or so it seemed] They have special locations for hookers, Snake Alley, the War Zone [nickname] and "barber shops" in most neighborhoods. Absolutely no street walkers!

You make a 'date' or pick up one in the War Zone and bring her back to your home or hotel. These women are hot at any age, and do not dress like hookers. They fit into any crowd.

When you get up, the dishes are done, room straightened up, clothes arranged, even ironed.

The first date is expensive because most of it goes to the house. The house knows the girl will give you her phone number for direct contact next time. She then gets 100%.

But the girls also know the competition is fierce, so they go to incredible lengths to please. They want to be your #1.

I'm retired from a major airline and sampled the ladies from Amsterdam to Rome to Athens to Cairo, and there is NOTHING like an Asian woman who wants to please.

I settled on one, and she gladly cleaned house for me. What a deal!

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7. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an Asian woman..."
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Just to offer a different point of view... a housekeeper is absolutely NOT something I was looking for in a spouse or lover, and that's NOT the root cause of my attraction to Asians. The idea that I can't or won't pick up after myself seems selfish to me.

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9. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an Asian woman..."
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I think I know what you're both saying, and although I am not trying to speak for rob007roy he might just be saying that one of the virtues of hooking up with a foreign-born asian woman is the cultural difference in their upbringing which may include cooking or cleaning for their man. This is pretty much the message at http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html although the author of that site is promoting his own book and self-interests -- however I think there is some truth to it. That being said, I personally believe that a relationship (whether or not it involves marriage) is a partnership and daily chores such as housekeeping are best shared. I don't expect a woman to clean up after me any more than I would want to have to clean up after her, or maybe it's a fair trade if I clean after she cooks.

But (for me) there's more to it than just that. I generally find asian women to be physically attractive; maybe there is some truth to the "opposites attract" theory. Yet I see (or at least try to see) the beauty in all women and being the horn dog I am she doesn't need to be asian for me to feel lust. I've been with women of all shapes, sizes, cultures and ethnic backgrounds and when I add them all up, the most pleasurable times that I have experienced have been with asian women. So yeah, if I see a woman that makes me want to run home to bone my (asian) girlfriend or make an appt. with an RA, more often than not she is likely to be asian herself.

N2L

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10. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an Asian woman..."
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   Heh, apparently I was not clear enough. I did not go shopping for a lady and say, "Gee, I bet she is a good house cleaner." Nor did I ask her to do this, or expect it. Asian ladies, at least the ones I met in Taipei, do not charge by "the hour". I'm sure some do, but not in the clubs I visited. It's for a "date", and after screwing my brains out all night, she was free to leave when she wanted.

In the morning, we would talk for hours and she insisted that I correct her English. She was very grateful for the help, and explained that English lessons are very expensive.

So, it was a mutually beneficial.

I am quite capable of picking up after myself, and do not consider myself to be "selfish" when she chose to clean for me.

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11. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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The guys do this when they see a sexy asian chick because they are unable to control their Inner_Dog.

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12. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   Starring Kam Fong as Chin Ho.

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13. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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> I think that some guys are attracted to females
> with similar facial features to themselves.

If I ran across an RA who looked like me, you couldn't pay me enough money to do her.

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14. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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LAST EDITED ON 28-Feb-10 AT 02:57 PM (PST)
 
What!!!?!?!?!???

I think the person responsible for that initial assumption needs to revisit a drawing board.

I'm in agreement with you Biggy because some guys just like eating the same meatloaf thing every day and others like different cuisines.

Some guys want Asian women
Some guys like Latinas
Some guys can't get enough of Caucasian and furthermore other guys will delineate within Caucasian ranks (only want Eastern Bloc or blondes, or redheads or WTFever they feel.)
Some guys are addicted to Chocolate (if Western or African and any specifications in between).
Some guys like Desi/Bollywood spice

**There are certainly guys out there just as nutso over Brazilian women as others are for Asian women. Justify that.

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As for the 'polar' opposite thing, this absolutely no sense. In order to have polarized opposites, you usually need to have only 2 primary differences to define the 'pole'. When it comes to race and ethnicity, you don't.

For some polar opposite might be . . .
...Dark hair vs blonde
...Red hair vs (any)
...Light skin vs dark skin
...Straight hair vs curly
...or any other damn thing
so how can it be that Asian is the exact opposite from Caucasion???

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Certainly there are guys who are attracted Asian women and solely Asian women. Before one lumps all these guys into a isolated bucket (perverse or not), it's important to figure out there are many reasons for this attraction (and a whole lot of disparities).

Some guys like American born Asian princesses (with feathered/permed/dyed hair)
Some guys like FOBs straight outta the customs
Some guys lived in the midwest and never considered Asian women because they didn't see Asian women until a relocation to the west coast (or a big city)
Some guys like quiet confidence
Some guys like rail thin Asian women and some guys like curvy girls (that do exist in natural form throughout Asia)

The only thing consistent is the lack thereof.

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Here is where we don't agree Biggy

>>Thus, it is not a diviant white guy seeing Asian women as sexual objects but rather it is rooted in an evolutionary strategy to ensure healthy reproduction<<

some Latin guys like Asians
some Black guys like Asians
some Asian guys like Asians
some White guys like Asians

If going with the theory stated, then for the sake of evolution, do you assume that White guys who like Asian women would consider all Asian women? How does that work because some guys will only date what they consider 'attractive' Asian women? (that quite often Asian guys find unattractive).

If purely about attracting Asian women to save the specicies, wouldn't White guys desire ugly Asian women?

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How about this . . .

We live in an area with a plethera of very attractive women of all races, ethnicities, cultures and blends therein. So why can't we guys just be lucky enough to enjoy attraction to pretty women???

In short, either I'm missing something or this is WAY oversimplified.

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PS: Note to UI. There are thin women in all flavors and there are a lot of fat Asian women too.


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15. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   "Other guys are attracted to anything that moves."

That's what keeps us hardcore carnivores going. The thrill of the chase and the flavor of variety.

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16. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   A related thread with nice pics and videos
http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=show_thread&om=42293&forum=DCForumID19

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17. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   I just went through the checkout line at Luckys, there was a hot asian checker, not I either gotta call up one of my asian gals, or go see an asian ho, I think its time for a ho. (is that the type of mentality of which this post is made?)

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18. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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At the risk of offending the prudish (if there's anyone here that even fits that description) - and also at the risk of stating something that I thought was obvious...

...there is a longstanding cultural perception that Asian women are significantly tighter. This is one of the main things driving the attraction for *me* anyway, even if it's not always 100% true.

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19. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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Bearing children is the Great Equalizer.

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20. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   It's not just one thing, it's the whole package. They keep their figure longer, they look younger, MUCH better attitude, etc.

After you've gone Asian there's no way you are going back to White bitches.

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21. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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My wife is Asian, and half of my girlfriends have also been Asian. Trust me, there's the full range of attitudes and body types among Asian women too.

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22. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   It's all about Chemistry. And Chemistry is correct--Asian women

our perceived too be different by some and may or may not be.

It's our perception that determines our attractions and desires.

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23. "I don't get it"
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   I can't understand the whole yellow fever fetish. Asian girls are certainly cool, smart, talented, and hard working, I've worked with lots of Asian women, nice people in general, but rarely if ever can get a boner over 'em.

I think it's the facial expressions. To me, they always look HARD, unfriendly, serious. Even if they're perfectly nice, their kind of default facial expressions just don't look warm and inviting to me. Doesn't get me going.

By the way, that's the same reason I don't usually go for Italian girls or Russian or German girls either. Sultry and elegant doesn't do it for me either.

Give me a nice smiley, flirty blonde California girl or Southern Belle any day.

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24. "RE: I don't get it"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Mar-10 AT 01:59 PM (PST)
 
Why our you reading a site devoted too Asian massage and relaxation

if you don't get it about yellow fever and they rarely give you a

boner?

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25. "RE: Why is it that every time a guy sees an asian woman..."
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   I think this whole thing is a bunch of silly conjecture by bunch of white guys trying to justify an asian fetish.

There are hot women of all colors.

Bush Sucks.

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