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"Why Men Use Prostitutes"
 
   Seems like a lot of bunk
http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/jan/15/why-men-use-prostitutes

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1. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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You're right.

It's an urban legend that men see prostitutes. How did you ever get the idea that such insidious activities would occur? I'll bet it's rare.

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15. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   orgasmic

There is a huge disconnect between today versus ten years ago when indeed most hookers were street hookers with pimps.If you are still thinking escorts are like ten years ago then you might write stupid articles like the one above.

But today the internet coupled with the fact that women are MORE educated than us, make MORE money than us, and have discovered toys and masturbation and are so bisexual, leads men to give up on dating and hire hookers. Its not only the unhappy married types like myself, but the single nerdy types, and the frustrated dudes who say I can get laid.

Hopefully some day a journalist will talk to regular dudes and find out that it aint no big deal, its just sex. I pay for sex because I can afford it and I love it. The passion, the energy, the exercise, the whole gig is so fun and exciting, so life affirming. I feel sorry for Americans with sad to no sex lives. They are missing out on one of gods great gifts to mankind.

Most weeks we go through the same ol shit, same ol job, same ol talk on the phone with family and friends about the same ol subjects, same ol dinners and food, and same ol hobbys. With escorting its something different that can really be fire works. Often my escorting is the highlight of my week.

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17. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   "There is a huge disconnect between today versus ten years ago when indeed most hookers were street hookers with pimps.If you are still thinking escorts are like ten years ago then you might write stupid articles like the one above."

My experience over the last five or six years it that most "internet" girls are pimped. Nothing has changed other than the medium (internet vs. streets).

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2. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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LAST EDITED ON 04-Mar-10 AT 01:36 AM (PST)
 
Wow could I vent about this nonsense. I, at least, see prostitutes because after years of games, heartache, and rejection, from civilian girls; who, according to people like doctor Phil, really ought to see a nice, responsible, well-employed guy like me (from a good family don't forget) as an excellent catch; I now find my relationships with prostitutes to be much healthier and honest.

Prostitution is correctly labled the oldest profession. There have always been streetwalkers, of a sort, even before there were streets. There have always also been ridiculously overpriced courtesan types to cater to the rich and powerful...and of course there have always been golddiggers, and girls that will put themselves out there when the right circucmstance arises but don't make a living that way.

The internet has changed the nature of prostitution in that many ladies (MILFs, College Students) that would never walk the streets or have the juice or the cold bloodedness to be a true courtesan, will now put themselves out there because they like to fuck and like the idea of getting paid for it. And the internet has led to a huge client base too.

But to say there is a huge rise in prostitution because of the internet is very naive. What is driving all these guys that in old times would never pay to fuck and all these girls that in olden times would never fuck for pay?

I'd say it's a major backlash to liberal femminism, but if I do so I am sure I will get massively flamed but some liberal Femminist prostitutes that would never have been hookers 100 years ago and whose client base is almost exclusively guys that would never pay for sex 100 years ago, at least not after they were married with children.

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3. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   I agree with Shellback 97 remarks. Also think that the Internet has

made hooking up with professional ladies very easy. So easy that many

men just can't resist the opportunity to relax and enjoy the

pleasures of the flesh.

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14. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   For me, here is what I like in a nutshell.... When I'm hungry for fish and chips, I buy some and eat them - then I'm done with fish and chips, when I want a soda, I buy one, drink it and I'm not thirsty any more. Sex is just like any other urge like hunger. When I want sex (AND the way I want it) I obtain the sex, use it to my satisfaction and then I'm done with that need and just go. You don't have that option with a so-called 'civillian'. As people so often say on this forum - I pay the women, not just for sex, but also to go away after I got what I came for; a good satisfying 'bang' or suck. All done, free my mind from the urge, then I can move on with more important things.

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4. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   There were a couple of valid points but mostly bunk.

"Alea iacta est!"

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5. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   After reading this article I must paraphrase the Boston Strangler, Stop me before I f**k again.

I wouldn't feel guilty if caught. I would feel embarrassed because of the social stigma that's been attached by many years of "proper society."

Toughing the laws would work as well as toughing the laws for drug users by increasing the penalties. "OK, I'll stop using heroin now that I would have to spend as couple of more years in jail." Yeah, right. Drug use in this country has risen even after the penalties were increased.

More accurately is the old joke, what are the 6 things men need to survive?
air, food, water, shelter, pussy & strange pussy?

It is sad that some people will read this propaganda and believe it. The morality enforcement groups will push the "fact" that most prostitutes are trafficked women and we must save them. They believe they are doing it for our own good.

This article would have been better served if it were written by a man without an agenda.

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6. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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I know England people, mon...they strange people, mon.


"Tell your sister to come down quick..."

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7. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   Because it's cheaper in the long-run!... and usually a lot less headache! the payment is for the prostitute to leave... or if it's an incall... for us to leave, without hearing all the bullshit like >where you going?> what time will you be back?> who you going out with? >what time will you be back? >you can't go out tonight! LOL! and all the the other countless pettiness that comes along in a relationship! We pay so they can leave... quietly! lol!

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8. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   LAST EDITED ON 10-Mar-10 AT 11:48 PM (PST)
 
>Many men seemed to want a real relationship with a woman and were disappointed when this didn't develop: "It's just a sex act, no emotion. Be prepared to accept this or don't go at all. It's not a wife or girlfriend."

I have seen that situation posted in many different forms in RB.

As for myself, I feel like I cheated the system sometime, because I am really happy about the whole thing.. I met women who actually opened doors to sexual things I was too afraid to explore on my own. Those encounters had real effect on my life and I feel I owe her and many other women much more than small things I offered to them. Some women became part of my life and they are no longer about money or sex.


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9. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   I agree with all the comments made so far. The study seems to focus on only one side of the spectrum. Men feel guilty for visiting prostitutes and the majority of women who are prostitutes were forced into it. A flawed study at best.

Most RAs (at least for AAMPs) seem to enjoy what they do (or at least the money) and chose to do this line of work. What other profession can you make a six figure income and not have to have a college education, luck or be able to speak English?

I think most men here (on this forum) seek prostitutes mostly for the sex, the chance to be with someone 20-30 years younger and not have to deal with having a relationship and all the baggage that goes along with it. Also, the variety. It's also a lot easier and cheaper. Having an SO can get very expensive (emotionally and financially). And, in the civie world, unless you look like Brad Pitt, finding and having a relationship takes a lot of work and money. What if you when you finally get her into bed, you don't like her body or she is a bad sex partner? You have to dump her and begin the process all over again. It's much easier to scan some web pages and make a phone call.

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10. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   LAST EDITED ON 11-Mar-10 AT 09:39 AM (PST)
 
>Most RAs (at least for AAMPs) seem to enjoy what they do (or at least the money) and chose to do this line of work. What other profession can you make a six figure income and not have to have a college education, luck or be able to speak English?


I am always frustrated with the media representation of this industry..
but I also started to think maybe RB indy escort type of women are very very rare minority that exist only in industrialized community in the ocean of abused, coerced, pimped and managed women when you think globally. At the same time, I don't know how common the six figures income is, but even in place like India or Mexico women in the industry do make more money compared to women working regular job that is available to women in the same social status.

I think there is some other reasons beside the finance, why prostitutes exist in everywhere in the world. But thats another topic.

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11. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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They rent or lease them.

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12. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   LAST EDITED ON 11-Mar-10 AT 01:28 PM (PST)
 
There was a comment that had the following quote in it:

'When asked what would end ­prostitution, one interviewee laughed and said, "Kill all the girls"'

They don't call it the oldest profession for nothing. Obviously, there is a market for prostitutes. And where there is a need, someone will provide it. Capitalism at its finest.

If the media is going to continue to write about prostitution, they should stop writing about these agenda driven studies which gives the public the impression that all prostitutes are trafficked/tricked/forced into the business and are on drugs and that the john's are deviants and feel guilty for visiting prostitutes. Maybe a higher percentage of trafficking going on in Europe, Middle East and Asia but I don't think the problem in the USA is as prevalent as they make it out to be. There are many prostitutes in the USA (and come from Korea, Japan and China) that choose to be in the profession, enjoy their work (or at least the money) and are not drug addicts.

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13. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   LAST EDITED ON 13-Mar-10 AT 09:36 AM (PST)
 
Why do men use prostitutes?

Because we can!

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16. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   man.. u guys hit the jackpot! its hella fun! hit it & u go home. talk to the loved one go bout ur day. I don't feel no guilt. I'm happy my family is happy & the hobby if good in our lives cuz we need to get the stress & the bulls**t out of us. if you ask me if I don't hobby, I might just lose it. jusk kiddin but u know what I mean. it just feels good, no strings attached & I come home to my happy beautiful wife & fam. nothing has changed but me getting my little stress relief off. remember no matter what the moment is! always play safe! we got our health to think of too. amen! lightspeed out!!

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23. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   Being married for over 10 years my sex life was about over. My wife is usually to grumpy to put out and we just fight too much. Where else could I have sex with a beautiful young girl 20 years my junior? I have yet to meet a girl that seemed coerced or trafficked. You may laugh but if it wasn't for Redbook I would probably be divorced by now. With a boring home life and an even more boring job my provider encounters are the highlight of my month. I'd go weekly if I could afford it.

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19. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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Very good. I was going to say because they are horny.

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18. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   LAST EDITED ON 19-Mar-10 AT 00:56 AM (PST)
 
The reporter Julie Bindel looks like she last had sex when Lyndon Johnson was still alive.

The profile: http://www.guardian.co.uk/profile/juliebindel

The pic: http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2008/06/02/julie_bindel_140x140.jpg

No wonder the men who date her need providers.

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21. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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uhhh,hmmmm,...because the wife/S.O won't put out???
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22. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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Let's call a more clear-thinking Brit, Sebastian Horsley, to the rescue:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQHAmbhcemo

And his famous guide:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hcuijtauGUc

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25. "RE: Why Men Use Prostitutes"
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   Because we can?

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