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chtlj
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"First Timer"
 
   Hi Brothers,

I'm about to make my first appointment tonight. Any last minute advice? I'm nervous as hell but I just want to get it over with.

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1. "RE: First Timer"
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   Just relax ...

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2. "RE: First Timer"
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Do your research

Be patient

Follow instructions

Respect boundaries

Be on time

Have your donation ready and place on dresser at beginning of session

Take the shower at beginning and end (AAMP)

YMMV

Have fun

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chtlj
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3. "RE: First Timer"
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   Booked...

Thanks for the advice...

and still nervous...I'll make sure to review/post when im through.

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ronjeremie
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4. "RE: First Timer"
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   please report back here once you're thru.
always fun to see a 1st time report.

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never2late
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5. "RE: First Timer"
In response to message #2
 
All good suggestions... Others:

If you don't have one already, get a hobby phone

Play safe and always use a cover

Don't give out any personal information, such as your real name or place of employment

Personally, I always leave my wallet/ID in the car, just bring what you need

Don't whack off before you make your appt, even if you don't cum (it will make your dick too tired to perform)

Be yourself... unless you're a complete ass, then fake it.

Treat her as you like to be treated

N2L

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chtlj
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6. "RE: First Timer"
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   45 mins before countdown. I do have a hobby phone, I spend the past week reading most tips I can find. Finally got over my fear of getting caught and just going to jump in.

I'll let you know who later on, but she was well reviewed in the non-VIP comments. I hope it goes well.

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14. "RE: First Timer"
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Please, wait at least 48 hours before writing your first review. Go ahead and write one to yourself, then compare and contrast that to how you feel 2-4 days later. I think you'll be suprised at the difference the time makes.

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12. "RE: First Timer"
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I hear advice not to whack off.

Are you young? If so, whack off. This will allow you to cum after more than just a few strokes.

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never2late
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13. "RE: First Timer"
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You're right that age may be a factor... But even if you're young, wouldn't you rather go for MSOG (for those that offer it)? I still say save it all for her.

N2L

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7. "RE: First Timer"
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   Yes and it is called Happy Birthday, Happy New Year, Happy Anniversity, Happy Ending and They all lived Happily Ever After.

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8. "RE: First Timer"
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   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MhQU3fgCMXA

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9. "RE: First Timer"
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I know everyone will be throwing rotten tomatoes at me for saying this, but..... I'm going to anyway....

My advice: Don't do it. You'll be way better off psychologically and financially if you never get involved in this hobby. It's profoundly addictive and expensive. Yes, it can be done in moderation, and that fine for those who can. I have forced myself into semi-retirement by purposely making it very difficult and complicated for myself logistically and financially. (I only manage to hobby once or twice a year at the most.) But I fantasize about it all the fucking time, and I wish I didn't.

Just so you know... you're about to take your first hit of crack. I hope you know what you're getting into. Enjoy the next several decades of your life....

-Pork Sword

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10. "RE: First Timer"
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Heh heh, he said "crack."

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11. "RE: First Timer"
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>Heh heh, he said "crack."

So I did!!! Freudian slip I suppose. LMAO...

-Pork

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17. "Indeed, Porksword is spot on"
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This activity is overly expensive and one is better off financially and emotionally by never starting at all. Sure, some guys can be self-disciplined and keep things in perspective and moderation. But many can't and get in too deep for their own good.

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15. "RE: First Timer"
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   Jeez, you make it sound like you are going in for painful yet needed surgery!

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chtlj
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16. "RE: First Timer"
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   Success. Still nervous when I got there. I didn't think I would be able to go through, but the lady guided me through the process. After the fact, I was able to relax a lot more. And now, I think that I was definitely nervous over nothing (not that I won't still be nervous next time). The experience was nice. Although, I think I appreciate the care and attentiveness more than the actual deed. Don't flame me for that statement. Maybe I was too nervous to fully enjoy the deed.

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18. "RE: First Timer"
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congrats on your first time! i remember my heart beating a millions times a minute when i met my first provider. the session went smoothly and was quite memorable. while i drove back home, my heartbeat sped up again as i was overcome with a mixture of euphoria and post-nervousness. something about conquering those nerves is addictive - at least for me.

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19. "RE: First Timer"
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Congratulations! Will you repeat? Would you recommend her?

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

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21. "RE: First Timer"
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>Success. Still nervous when I got there. I didn't think I
>would be able to go through, but the lady guided me through
>the process. After the fact, I was able to relax a lot
>more. And now, I think that I was definitely nervous over
>nothing (not that I won't still be nervous next time). The
>experience was nice. Although, I think I appreciate the
>care and attentiveness more than the actual deed. Don't
>flame me for that statement. Maybe I was too nervous to
>fully enjoy the deed.

That whole bit of nerves is part of the atraction. You'll miss being a bit nervous one of these days, but that's a little while off yet.

Impotence: Nature's Way Of Saying: No Hard Feeling

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23. "RE: First Timer"
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Welcome to the Dark Side! Enjoy yourself and... Live your fantasies!

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24. "RE: First Timer"
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> [..] appreciate the care and attentiveness more [..]

Pretty insightful for a newbie. It is interesting how strongly junior works to convince us it's the act and achieving climax that drives us, yet..

Once in their company, I retain the impression of those ladies that possess charm, warmth, humor and respect. I enjoy a good PSE every bit as much as the next guy - and feel it satisfies a very real need. But the ladies with whom I share a good laugh, and those who manage to pluck one of my heartstrings with their attention and care, are the ones that make me feel more whole. Much like the best GFs of my past.

Our needs are often emotional, but masquerading as physical.

chtlj - practice moderation, keep the proper perspective on this hobby, and don't break the bank.

May we all be Saints today.. my son.

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20. "RE: First Timer"
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   LAST EDITED ON 06-Mar-10 AT 04:24 PM (PST)
 
Maybe chtlj should start chronicling or blogging his mongering career, so we can see if he can continue to savor the fruit of the hobby, or if porksword's caution will prove correct.

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22. "RE: First Timer"
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   Life begins at 50 ... or so.


or maybe he could write a review?

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25. "RE: First Timer"
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   I am curious which provider helped break your cherry. It may be helpful for other newbies to know which lady took her time and guided you through the deed.

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