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slvrmdx
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07-Mar-10, 00:38 AM (PST)
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"Planned or Impulse?"
 
hi fellow RB
just curious when you doing your hobby based on impulse or you planned it first?

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1. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   How about both? Impulse to want to hobby. Planned for when to call and who to call. Have to do research to decide who to call. Then have to call early to get a time slot (if calling one of the more popular RAs).

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6. "RE: Planned"
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Always planned in advance. Never on impulse.

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2. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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Almost completely on impulse nowadays.

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3. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   >hi fellow RB
>just curious when you doing your hobby based on impulse or
>you planned it first?

Bit of both I suppose. I usually have a preplanned day that I hobby and if the girl I want is available I figure it's fate and go. If she is not, I don't choose another and figure it was not meant to be.

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4. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Almost completely planned nowadays, but I do indulge in one impulse.

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5. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   THE impulse is ALWAYS there.......

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7. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Going by impsulse, I'll be broke by now.
Going by plan + impulse = life is wonderful!

Viva RB

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8. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   I plan ahead for ladies who are difficult to see or who require ref checks and I call on impulse on days when I don't have anything lined up.

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9. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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I have a plan/to-do list.
Problem is...new providers pop up every week
and I hobby on impulse

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10. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Usually impulse. Planned if I see someone I've always wanted to see will be available in my area or my ATF calls/texts me in advance.

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11. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   I have a "must do" list loaded in my phone. If I get the urge I start at the top and see who is close. Usually works.

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12. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 07-Mar-10 AT 02:51 PM (PST)
 
According to my provider friends, impulse is the majority and client who plan ahead are rare.


I always researched communicated and planned ahead and had almost always good experience.

I also see someone who I connected repeatedly. IMHO, for last minute, impulsive meeting, it is much safer, more satisfying to see your repeat ladies even if you are thinking of slightly different body type and dynamics. With a repeat lady, you can call ahead and request sexy attire ( or no attire ) when she opens the door or certain dynamic and scene you are in mood for.

For a new lady, I think it is safer and also prudent financially.. to research well ( reading her ad text, review and her posts very closely)
and spend reasonable amount of time communicating before setting up a meeting. Plus think objectively and evaluate what you are seeking and if that is what she is good at providing.

Just my humble opinion.

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13. "Mostly impulse"
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   Though I've learned to plan-- and shop carefully-- only recently.

In my serious mongering days, it was almost all impulse. I'd get hot and bothered at work checking out all the hot office girls that I couldn't fuck or even proposition due to my position of authority, and to deal with the frustration I'd go chasing down whomever I could find advertised online. Sneak into an empty conference room and make the appointment for that evening, and even sometimes at lunch.

Or I'd be out in the evening trying to pick up someone, or hanging out with friends, and getting nowhere with whomever I was trying to score with, or just being lonely out during the weekend by myself doing whatever, so I'd instead pick up a Guardian or Weekly (back when they had pages of ads) and get on my cellphone and set up an appointment for RIGHT NOW.

Nowadays I shop carefully and pick judiciously-- most of the time. I still occasionally fuck up and go with whomever is available or returns my calls or emails most quickly, but that ALWAYS turns out to be a mistake.

Really, the reference system has made quality spontaneous impulse appointments almost impossible. The girls who don't require references aren't necessarily low quality, but they are definitely a crapshoot. I can't afford to gamble with my finances in such horrible shape at this time.

I can afford roughly one session every 6-9 months these days, so yes, I pick them very carefully and the days of impulse are no more.

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14. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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I am more impulsive. I really wish that this was legal and we had establishments that I could go and choose the woman. I went to such a place in New Zealand and it wasn't sleazy like going to a massage establishment in SF, the girls were average to beautiful for $160 New Zealand. Here If I have the urge I have to look through the ads to see if the person I am interested in is available like yesterday the person I had in mind didn't have an ad up and I went with a second choice.

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15. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   both....

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16. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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LAST EDITED ON 07-Mar-10 AT 11:08 PM (PST)
 
Rather than limiting this to 24 anecdotes, you should post a poll. It would be a great poll topic.

I'm about 80% impulse (post-drink). 20% of the time I plan it in advance.

EDIT: Yeah, "both" makes sense too. Maybe you move on impulse, but doing your homework in advance certainly suggests premeditated moves. I try to be informed when I head out, regardless of my state of mind.

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17. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Almost always planned since I have to have an excuse for being out of pocket. It would be great to act on the impulse.

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18. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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I like to pre book the day before, it allows the desired time frame. Every once in awhile I will "jump" on impulse but not to often.

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19. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Planned for my regulars. Impulse for the new ones.

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20. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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Roughly 90% planned. And 90% of the impulsive encounters are mildly disappointing (usually a "good time" but relatively disappointing as opposed to a planned date with someone I either know already or have good indications about from research.)

The (roughly) 10% impulsives come around when I find myself with the time, the funds, and a nearly irresistible urge, and I just can't find one of my faves.

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21. "Always planned"
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   with my reliable ATFs.

Lance

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22. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   Always on impulse. I can't ever really remember a time when it wasn't something that grabbed hold of me and said "let's go play" or whatever. It won't be in my mind or maybe it has been lingering, but I go from "No" to the final "Yes" in :10 seconds when the time arrives.I know I'm a Sex Addict and, like the need for a drug, I need to have sex with an RA, or an incall/outcall escort.

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23. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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Impulse most of the time.

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24. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   I used to plan every encounter carefully, but now I am about 50-50. I have had some terrific sessions on impulse calls. Being in the right mood counts for a lot.

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25. "RE: Planned or Impulse?"
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   My impulse gets me to plan. If no impulse, why plan? I can do all the planning, but if no impulse why do it?

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