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lovegreatass
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"getting started"
 
   I'm new to the hobby so i can use some help
how does one get around the references required by providers
when you are just starting out and you have none?
also what does the donation cover fbsm, gfe ???

just trying to navigate the ins and out
any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

jk

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getting started [View All], lovegreatass, 04:34 PM, 08-Mar-10, (0)  
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1. "RE: getting started"
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Start with the clueless section under the Support forum. Then you can do what I did when I joined and read every post and review on redbook. Of course, RB was a little smaller then. You learn best by doing.

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2. "RE: getting started"
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LAST EDITED ON 08-Mar-10 AT 05:09 PM (PST)
 
Start with providers who don't ask for references. A provider's ad and the reviews tell you which services a particular provider offers.

I_D

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Honest1 click here to view user rating
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3. "RE: getting started"
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My recommendation, first of get a VIP membership....


Cheers,

H1

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thruxton
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4. "RE: getting started"
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   i hobbied for nearly a decade and never used a reference.

the price listed is all inclusive except when (1) you are getting ripped off with an upsell (2) you feel inspired to tip

the service listed will be clear and as suggested, the clueless section is great for learning the acronyms. eg. GFE is ambiguous while RBGFE is clear

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5. "RE: getting started"
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   Read the "Terms & Acronym" thread and other threads in the Clueless forum. Then read some posts in this forum. Look at 411's (request for info about provider), Minis (abbreviated review). Then look at some reviews. If you like asian women and live in Bay Area, look SF Bay Area Adult Personals: South Bay Asian Massage. Most ads are for AAMPs. Get more for yopur money than trying your luck with AMPs/MP. Classifieds take too much time to look for the good ones, so I don't look there too often. AAMPs are full sevice. Rate usually in ad and no upsell (usually). Can give additional tip but not required. Most do not need references. But most do not speak English very well and take frequent vacations. Won't make good candidate for reference to have for future (you will have to find English speaking long term provider). Most of the better providers are @ $200/hr. Lower cost providers @ $160/hr often use fake pics and be wary of B&S. $200/hr ads use fake pics/photoshopping also but not as much. Pick someone you like and look for reviews. See if reviewer thinks RA is the girl in the pics or resembles her. If fake pics, have to rely on description to get idea of what she really looks like. Whatever you do, stick with well reviewed providers unless you don't mind TOFTT and having some disappointment.

Look for my Guide to AAMPing thread.

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bone69 click here to view user rating
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6. "RE: getting started"
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   Read threads in the AAMP/Massage Parlor forum.

Also, don't believe everything (anything) you read in an ad. It may say real pics and RBGFE but wait for a review to verify what is really going on.

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7. "RE: getting started"
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   LAST EDITED ON 12-Mar-10 AT 08:53 AM (PST)
 
Most providers do not require references. If you only want to visit
a provider that requires a reference you need to tell her that you
our new too this hobby and would like too see her but our lacking
references. Ask her is their any other information that you can
provide her that would make her feel more comfortable with you as
a first time client. Being polite and honest may be the ticket to
the main event.

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8. "RE: getting started"
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posts #1 thru 7 says it all and pretty much covers it all...the rest will be just redundant...just do it...get out there and hit the pavement and get your dick wet...the first one is always a hesitation..after that, you will find yourself compelled not to stop! (it only gets easier after the first one)

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lovegreatass
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9. "RE: getting started"
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   Hey guys, thanks so much for the pointers, anybody got any recommandations for a first timers provider? also i know this has had to happen to someone out there besides me but please tell me you only fall for one of these beautiful ladys once(happened to me at a nevada brothel)i don't think i could handle the torment again, lol

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10. "RE: getting started"
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   Don't be a lazy sap. Read the Reviews and choose a girl that matches what you are interested in.

How the fuck can ANYONE figure out what is best for you. Do you like fat broads, athletic, under 200 bills, SW action for 40 bucks or less... geez...All of this is easily searchable. Join VIP and do it yourself.

http://www.myredbook.com/whyjoin.aspx

http://www.myredbook.com/join.aspx

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