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hadji1966
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"Incall or outcall?"
 
   In response to the question a recently widowed gentleman posed on another(and locked) thread regarding incalls and outcalls, I'd like to say that I've only had escorts do outcalls to my home. Except for one incident where the escort took the money and ran away, nothing really bad, let alone dangerous, has occurred as a consequence.
Most of the escorts actually did closely resemble their pictures, and there was one I wound up seeing for three years. One even wound up disclosing to me her real name!
I began seeing escorts in 2000, after reading an online interview with a former escort, who said that the vast majority of men who see escorts are good, honest, law-abiding men who have a lot of respect for women.
The first lady I saw was a 37-year old named Cindy(she is now a Facebook friend). I was nervous and apprehensive about my first visit by an escort, and anxiously watched the parking lot of my condominium complex, awaiting her arrival. A car driven by a woman with long blonde hair finally pulled into the parking lot. A few minutes later, I opened my front door to a woman who looked exactly like her picture. She made me feel relaxed, allayed all my apprehensions, and my first date with an escort went very well. It was during the afternoon, in broad daylight.
I have never gone on an incall, and am no longer really nervous about outcalls. I surmise that I've been fortunate that nearly every escort I've entertained in my home has been honest and tried to do her job, and that most have resembled their pictures. The anecdotes I've read about guys being robbed and assaulted are disquieting, and make me thankful for my good fortune thus far.

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hadji1966
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1. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   Before I began seeing escorts, I researched the topic as thoroughly as possible, and perused a Website that offered advice on how to go about engaging in this activity. I was initially apprehensive about this activity; I feared being robbed and assaulted, or busted by the police. The Website instructed readers about what precautions to take in order to avoid or mitigate trouble.
If the recently widowed gentleman is reading this, then I would offer this insight: escorting wouldn't survive as an occupation if most members of both parties weren't sincere about fulfilling their roles. Most men who see escorts simply want to pay for sex, and most escorts simply want to get paid for sex. Consequently, most escort transactions occur without incident.
My advice to the gentleman is to do as much research as possible before you make a decision about how to go about seeing escorts. You have tremendous repositories of information at your disposal, so be as informed as possible. Heed the advice of those who are experienced in these matters, and you should be alright.
I suppose I've been fortunate that no horrific tragedy has befallen me in all my years of seeing escorts. It is only recently that I've begun reading reviews and perusing this online forum.

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davidbig
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2. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   i rather for an incall for the first time. outcall is ok once you already formed a trust

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3. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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you guys are lucky to have a choice. Would not recommend outcall when you have a SO.

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

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hadji1966
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4. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   >
>you guys are lucky to have a choice. Would not recommend
>outcall when you have a SO.
>
>A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

What is an "SO"?

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alwayshorny54 click here to view user rating
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5. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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'SPECIAL OTHER'

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

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rottie415 click here to view user rating
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6. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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SO = significant other

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rishiishwar
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7. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 15-Mar-10 AT 09:53 PM (PST)
 
My experience with outcall was horrible. I went for a low-budget provider. I met her in gas station. She initialy agreed for 120$ hr over the phone

When I saw her, she hads very very old car and looked totally different from pics. I gave her 10$ for gas and left. Then she called me back and requested me to accept the session for 60$ for an hr. Then I agreed. She understood that I have a SO, hence she tried to blackmail me for more money after coming home. Otherwise she told me that she will tell all my neighbours. I had to give her another 20$ to make her leave. I even told her that I have to call police if she does not leave, that scared a hell of her, so she left.

I would not recommend outcall for low budget providers. If providers are reputed with good reviews, then it should be ok.

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hadji1966
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8. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   >My experience with outcall was horrible. I went for a
>low-budget provider. I met her in gas station. She initialy
>agreed for 120$ hr over the phone
>
>When I saw her, she hads very very old car and looked
>totally different from pics. I gave her 10$ for gas and
>left. Then she called me back and requested me to accept the
>session for 60$ for an hr. Then I agreed. She understood
>that I have a SO, hence she tried to blackmail me for more
>money after coming home. Otherwise she told me that she will
>tell all my neighbours. I had to give her another 20$ to
>make her leave. I even told her that I have to call police
>if she does not leave, that scared a hell of her, so she
>left.
>
>I would not recommend outcall for low budget providers. If
>providers are reputed with good reviews, then it should be
>ok.

This is a very disquieting experience. The more professional and pragmatic escorts are discreet, and never break the law, or threaten blackmail.
You should've met her at a neutral location, and hidden your identity as completely as possible from her.

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9. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Mar-10 AT 08:44 AM (PST)
 
The two providers I have taken home on occasions I have picked up and taken home. They have been to my residence a couple of times and I have always taken VERY different and indirect routes each time.

Also, when I get home, prior, I had made sure that there was no mail lying around. And typically we would come home late, so they couldn't see my address on my front door. We'd drive straight into the garage and close the door behind us. My car also has heavy dark tint on the windows, all this keeps the nosy neighbors from seeing me bringing in young ladies into my house.

Its worked out fine so far, but I'm always hesitant on doing this again. Under no circumstances would I give out my addy to a provider (known or unknown). As one other hobbyiest has pointed out, a provider can "play hard ball" and try to blackmail you by outting you to your SO or neighbors. Although, it would probably go bad for her in the long run, I don't want to even approach that area.

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10. "There's the risk factor ----"
In response to message #7
 
LAST EDITED ON 16-Mar-10 AT 12:04 PM (PST)
 
"I went for a low-budget provider" - that was your undoing.

For outcall to your home/residence, always stick with independent, well reviewed, reputable ladies and you'll probably never have a problem. I have had many ladies over my residence for many years - never has any issue come up whatsoever. If you see low-end escorts, don't take them home. But escorts who take their business and repuations seriously are very safe bets.

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kelvin0123456789
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11. "RE: There's the risk factor ----"
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   There have been a movie made out of this situation, I believe.
A young man called a provider to his house. She made a mess out of his situation, and they ended up being a happy couple at the end of the movie.
I real life, the guy has somewhat 2 or 3 children with this actress before they divorced. His divorce was a mess. Rumors that she was a ho prior to being an actress, well, weren't they all?
I happened to have some drinks with him another night in London when he was there filming the Mission Impossible IV. Wow, the guy is too short to be an actor, but he is.
By the way, do bring the provider home if you wanna be famous (like him).

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rastaofari
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12. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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Since I like the young Black girls, my options are usually car date, cheap motel or outcall. When I had my bachelor pad I had so many in and out that my neighbor complimented me. Then my SO moved in and I lived in constant fear that some female neighbor would out me.
Since then I've had a (male) roommate who frowns on pay4play (but I frown at the whales he brings home for free) so I began venturing out into the motel world.

At this point, I read reviews carefully and only visit providers who work from residential incalls. But this greatly decreases the chance of hitting it off and going over time.

Do I really have to ask you two more times?

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Proximo
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13. "RE: Incall or outcall?"
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   98% incall for me. The 2% outcall have been with a favorite provider to a hot tub or my room after a mixer.

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