I have found that pretty girls are not always great lovers, they are not more interesting, and usually want more from me.

So when it comes to girlfriends I usually date average looking gals and see if they are interesting, not needy, and give a mean bj, and have a open and clear mind with their sexuality. These girls try harder, and love to have sex.

How important is looks for you? (not talking about escorts)

"All cats are grey in the dark"

Note the British spelling of "gray"; the phrase first appeared in England, and for all of you Bond fans, check out On Her Majesty's Secret Service, when JB sleeps with Marc-Ange's daughter Tracy...

For those who might not quite get it, "pussy" is another form of "cat'

Anerriphtho Kybos!

It's different in the case of the girls who did not develop hot bodies until their mid 20s or beyond.

It's time to retire that tired female myth that pretty girls get ignored because men are intimidated by them. In my entire life, I've never ever seen that to be the case. Maybe they are not being approached by the men they would prefer to be approached by, but isn't that the case with almost everyone?

Besides, I've known many so-called average girls, and many of them have the prettiest faces and most alluring eyes I've ever found. Many men will go for girls who have hot bods regardless of their faces. But bods usually have a way of going south....pretty faces last much longer, and beautiful eyes last almost forever. Besides, I talk and relate to the face, not the body.

Be the change
you wish to see

Look around you. Do you see what kind of single women are out there on the prowl? Ugly and/or fat. The good looking ones, no matter how bitchy they are, are taken very quickly in Silicon Valley.

She was dressed like a librarian with wire rim glasses, a long skirt with a sweater and shoes that looked like she got them at Kmart in the grandmother section. I was turned off. She was so reserved in the way she acted and so shy, I felt like I was having coffee with a nun. We took a walk, I casually asked her if she wanted to go to my place to listen to music or something (really just thought I'd be nice before not calling her again) and we went to my apartment.

An hour later, she is all over me and we're making out like crazy and she's telling me "I want you, I want you". Off comes the librarian clothes and she has a black leather bra on with black leather panties and a clean shaved pussy with a little landing strip. She was a volcano. The rest of that night was amazing.

You just never friggin know.

>So when it comes to girlfriends I usually date average
>looking gals and see if they are interesting, not needy, and
>give a mean bj, and have a open and clear mind with their
>sexuality. These girls try harder, and love to have sex.
>
Only because they feel they have to work harder to get a guy and do so until they know they have you. Then all bets off unfortunately.

>How important is looks for you? (not talking about escorts)

I like women who don't know how attractive they are or recognize it and work against it. As an archetype, I prefer still water as it runs deep (as in more to her than meets the eye). And yes, I prefer bi-racial women with a pretty face and I will no longer take the risk of dating those that I find unattractive (been there-done that-not worth the deception).

I've encountered that, but also encountered pretty girls being great lovers or better. I had thought there might be some patterns, but realize it's not true. One of my current GFs, is as hot as they come, and incredible in bed. And to use your terms, interesting, not needy, great BJ, open and clear mind sexually. She tries hard, cares to please and be pleased, loves to have sex. Never says no.

So I guess, that logic doesn't always apply, but yeah, maybe in some sense, an average girl, may try harder. I've heard the generalities all my life, even from women and in the psych field, that less attractive women have better personalities.

I just go with what I like and turns me on. Has to stimulate me on many levels, physically, emotionally, intellectually, and chemistry.

I wouldn't marry a woman who was just good in bed but ugly.

Your instincts are right. Some of my best sessions milked the life out of me were average or below average companions. I first thought it was maybe that element of suprise that made it exciting but its happened enough that I've make it a rule now.

I'm sure there're exceptions out there, but the numbers are low.

Life is a box of .......

They are givers and takers. Taking of everything that I can give them Those are the girls I enjoy