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rubtublover rubtublover rating
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"To Inbox or not Inbox"
 
   This is sure to get me in trouble but screw it.
I don't have a high post count like a lot of people here and I surely have not been doing this hobby that long, however, when I started this hobby, instead of asking someone to in box me information, I paid for a few months of a VIP membership, did a search for what I was looking for, and tried different places.
I know this forum is about sharing information for our fellow brethren, so my question is, what is the proper in-box protocol?
I want to be helpful if someone ask me but lately I see a lot of handles (with lower post counts than mine) asking for in-box information and it makes me think a lot of them are LE.

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cons_man cons_man rating
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1. "Whatever you say in your inbox msg to other RB guys"
In response to message #0
 
   are legally "bullshit".

A Happy Trick Makes a Happy Hoe.

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jsthavnfun jsthavnfun rating
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2. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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LAST EDITED ON 03-Apr-10 AT 07:05 PM (PST)
 
Lots of good information is shared discretely via inbox, it never hurts to ask or share. But building up a post count and some credability would be advisable. One always need to be careful, who knows who around here. The information I share occasionaliy is no more than one can obtain if they look for it.

I do not ever share personal information about any of the providers, and if I was to say receive 'special services', not saying I do, wouldn't share that either.

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LickedHerPuss LickedHerPuss rating
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3. "And!!!"
In response to message #2
 
   Don't share anything personal about yourself.

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Woody1 Woody1 rating
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4. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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   My post count is pretty low, too, for someone who has been on rb for so long. I only inbox folks I know pretty well or sometimes folks I want to get to know better. I have sometimes received unsolicited inboxes from folks I have never heard of. Those usually get a polite reply with little information.
Never give anyone your personal info unless you know them really well and trust them.

Love and Peace and Life,
Woody ;-}>

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chabanais chabanais rating
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7. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
In response to message #4
 
Charter Member says it all though.

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rastaofari
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141 posts, Rate rastaofari		 07-Apr-10, 10:31 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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Do not let post count be your only determining factor. I have been here for years, but just passed the 100 post mark. Share the info.

Do I really have to ask you two more times?

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eros2354 eros2354 rating
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6. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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They participate & don't want to spoil their golden egg any more than we do. Its the fed's you got to worry about.

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nohassles nohassles rating
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8. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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   LAST EDITED ON 10-Apr-10 AT 11:30 PM (PST)
 
Thought you could use a laugh...........


Speaking of inboxes,,, Here is a message I found in my inbox from a member who thought I was a provider.. Not Kidding..

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<<<"Nohassles, Your choices are impeccable! I know and very much like each one. The range reflects diversity and sensitivity. If you do massage/escort and are around the SF or Peninsula area and are over 35 ( sorry for all the "limiters"), I'd enjoy meeting you. ">>>

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F*CK !!!!!!!!

I had to break the bad news to the guy that I was a dude,,,,

I never heard back.... So I don't know if he was disapointed .....

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amsrocks68 amsrocks68 rating
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9. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
In response to message #8
 
   Me still being new to this hobby, low post count, etc... I am not even going to try inbox shit. I'll do my research, make my pick and report back.

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racerxxx racerxxx rating
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10. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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   LAST EDITED ON 11-Apr-10 AT 09:30 AM (PST)
 
I get annoyed when someone sends me an inquiry via inbox that doesn't even offer a customary salutation, like "Hi, Hello, How are you? Greetings" and then asks the question. Especially those of unknown origin!

One inbox message I received was: Hey, so is she really a good fuck?! Hit me back so I can pound that shit!

Well, after reading that message I wanted to, physically speaking, "HIT that person back" who sent me the inquiry - LOL!!

I never pass out personal info and give only general info to those I'm unfamiliar with. Of course, everyone makes their own choices! So, if I may suggest that everyone screen their inboxes very carefully before responding.

Even though someone might have a low post count, if I search, and see that their responses on the board are generally polite and non-inflammatory, I usually make an effort to accommodate their inquiry.

Good day!!

rx

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Masterdick1 Masterdick1 rating
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11. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
In response to message #0
 
   LAST EDITED ON 12-Apr-10 AT 02:59 PM (PST)
 
Like most I believe inbox serves a purpose, a private way too

share information about providers. Always respect the rules of

RB and be polite and respectful.

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studley studley rating
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12. "RE: To Inbox or not Inbox"
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I really did not use the inbox much when I first joined. Having only a few posts made me reluctant to bother others and others apparently didn't see much value in consulting me.

Over time that changed and I now find it a great addition to the boards. I have shared RA suggestions and vice versa and in the long run it has enriched my hobbying experience.

I've even developed some friendships AND even an enemy. If not for the inbox I would never have REALLY known about this particular A-hole. Apparently his other hobby was clogging my inbox with foul, despicable and often unintelligable messages.

I am glad to know the extent of his erratic behavior first hand rather than being kept in the dark or limited to what I read on the board. This is probably not a benefit of the in-box most others think of but I found it to be a good thing.

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tangoman tangoman rating
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13. "RE: surely I have not been doing this hobby that long,"
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   Please don't call me Shirley

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