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POLL: Flaky is a common character of all providers. For the same provider, what would be the most likely situation for her to be flaky, regardless she is a flaky type or not? Thank you, this will help me (and others) to better our methodology of meeting these girls.
Posted by kelvin0123456789 on 27-Mar-10, 04:08 PM PST
Result after a total of 33 votes

Incall, scheduled 5 days ahead 7 votes, 21% Vote for this choice
Incall, scheduled 5 hrs ahead 9 votes, 27% Vote for this choice
Incall, scheduled for the next hour 7 votes, 21% Vote for this choice
Outcall, scheduled 5 days ahead 4 votes, 12% Vote for this choice
Outcall, scheduled 5 hrs ahead 2 votes, 6% Vote for this choice
Outcall, scheduled for the next hour 1 votes, 3% Vote for this choice
Incall or Outcall, scheduled by scheduler 1 votes, 3% Vote for this choice
Incall or Outcall, scheduled by provider 2 votes, 6% Vote for this choice

 
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arbiez_temp arbiez_temp rating
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2583 posts, 47 feedbacks, 88 points		 27-Mar-10, 04:31 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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I get what you're asking. I don't know how any of the answers will help because you can't lump all flakiness into a common bucket. *Provider A* may be flaky in a way that can be corrected by answer 1 while *Provider B* may best resolved with answer 5.

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2190 posts, 28 feedbacks, 52 points		 27-Mar-10, 04:33 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   This poll does not make any sense. If I could vote twice, I would vote for all of the above and for none of the above. Provider could be the unreliable type, double book, doesn't care, stuck in traffic, etc. Also, sh** happens. Unavoidable situations occur. Deal with it. Just move on to plan B.

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kelvin0123456789
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86 posts		 27-Mar-10, 05:08 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   LAST EDITED ON 27-Mar-10 AT 05:09 PM (PST)
 
Put yourself in their situation. Nobody want to be a flaker accept for the real faker, which none of us care to call again or discuss here. Would it be easier to stay in a hotel room and wait for the client for an incall girl vs driving/checking address/calling/parking for an outcall girl? Logistically speaking, the chances for an outcall girl to be flaky are much more than an incall girl.
Or some girls are better for the next hour meeting than to be booked 3 days ahead. Simply because they have too much substance in their blood to remember anything past 2 hrs, and that's just barely a fact of life.
And some girls are more business minded; they are better scheduled ahead to arrange the room, the time, etc. Next hour meeting simply does not work.
Knowing all these facts can be helpful.

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5. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   Being "flaked" on has more to do with the provider than when you scheduled for an intentional flake. When you booked comes into play more for an unintentional flake. I assume you are asking about escorts because AAMPs (type of providers I usually see) usually only take same day appointments. The farther in advance you book, the greater the chance you may be flaked on. Things happen which cannot be planned for. She gets lost. She gets sick. Her kid gets sick. A relative visits from out of town. ETC. The closer it gets to the day of an event, the more "set" the schedule becomes. Just like predicting the weather. And greater chance of being flaked on with outcall due to driver sick for day, gets lost, stuck in traffic, LE lurking in area, etc.

If you've done your homework and picked a well reviewed quality provider, that is just about all you can do. Chances are, you will not be flaked on but unplanned things happen that may cause the provider to cancel on you (gets sick, you are the 8th client and she is sore, the apartment sprung a leak, LE decides to camp out in front of the complex, etc).

Avoid late evening appointments to give yourself time to try plan B if the provider cancels for some reason.

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4. "RE: Flaky is a common character well, not really."
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   In my observations providers and dates are about equal in the flakiness sweepstakes. And in both cases, a fair number are flaky, and a fair number aren't.

OK, if you want to minimise the chances of being flaked on, call a day or two in advance to make an appointment, then CONFIRM 3 or 4 hours ahead of time---and tell her you are going to.

Actually, though, you can minimise flakiness by see well reviewed providers here.

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6. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   In my experience there is a tendency to get more flaking on both ends. If you book to far in advance, they tend to either forget or have something come up. If you book hours in advance, they tend to double book.

I tend to try to book 1-2 days in advance as that seems to work best for me. Although who you book with is by far the strongest predictor of the liklihood of flaking.

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7. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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My impression that the least likely to flake, but without real proof, is incall booked the same day, and call to confirm an hour before. But then my "worst" flake situation was exactly this.

It's impossible to group all of these women into one profile of flakery.

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8. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   LAST EDITED ON 29-Mar-10 AT 00:01 AM (PST)
 
I've never seen a ho that could realibly set an appointment more than 2 hours in advance without help from someone else.

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9. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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LMAO.

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11. "Scheduling ahead (was: Flaky is common)"
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I've only seen one provider so far, so maybe I'm just lucky. But I've seen her twice, and both times I succeeded in planning days ahead. Both times, I contacted her on Friday to schedule. For my first appointment, she saw me the Wednesday after. For my second appointment, the following Monday.

She has been accumulating reviews, so I suspect she's not sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. AAMP girl, but her English is good, and she answers her own phone.

Here's the catch: she uses EMAIL ONLY for the actual booking. I debated a long time whether I should risk using email, but I went ahead and did it, with an account which is as anonymous as any I can get. Maybe the email messages are the key to helping her to stay organized.

Yesterday, I tried calling a different provider to schedule an appointment for next Monday. She tentatively said OK, but I should call back on Sunday to actually set it up. Non-AAMP this time. She only has one flake report out of a few pages of reviews, but as of this moment I'm a bit less confident that I'll actually get to see her.

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10. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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It's ok to schedule in advance but you also need to send a confirmation/reminder the day before and then 3 hrs before.

*I'm just a kid stuck in a grown man's

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12. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Apr-10 AT 01:54 PM (PST)
 
Lot of good ideas being analyzed here, somtimes it's the fit that's missing, some provider's are good at appointments some are not, for some it's best to call an hour in advance for availability make the date and enjoy it. But a Hobbiest who likes making future appointment's with an hour ahead type Provider or an hour ahead type Hobbiest tries to make an hour ahead appointment with a planning type Provider either senario will have problems. Me personally, I like a DDG, RBGFE type provider thats well reviewed with nothing ever less than a ten, who waits around patiently for my call and only my call and enjoys herself so much she usally forgets to charge me her very low special rate. I have'nt found her yet, so if you hear about a girl like this or are a Provider who meets my criteria give me a inbox, I'll be patiently waiting for your call and only your call. Chuckle chuckle.

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13. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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A different perspective:

As I've said before, some of the best providers in bed are the shit when it comes to operating on good business principles.

Also, a number of people including providers, live in the moment, which can make their lives unmanageable and causes a lot of drama to surround them. If you play with these types of people you have to adopt an “I’ll believe it when it happens” attitude with no expectation that things will come off as planned or suffer a lot of frustration and aggravation.

If you have the time and flexibility to work through the chaos some great sessions can be had. Again this is not for everyone and not a standard practice for me, but at times it can have a certain thrill and excitement appeal. When a hot time with lady is not a sure thing there is a certain joy that comes about when you do score.

There are a lot of really hot passionate providers that manage their business well and are dependable. Reading reviews and using VIP search options they are easy to find. One can have ideal sessions without ever being involved with the flaky ones. Also, not all of the flaky ones are good in session. Just another approach to the hobby if one chooses to be adventurous and has time and flexibility.

Definitely not for the person who hobbies infrequently.


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14. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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   This poll is like asking which minority are the worst drivers since I'm white I know it's not me. You're premise that its only providers is absurd. Ask the girls if hobbiests are flakey and you'll get a big response and the are the ones with trying to make a living.

"Alea iacta est!"

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15. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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Good point.

When a provider flakes, the hobbyist has lost time, perhaps gas, and is frustrated. When the hobbyist flakes the provider has lost time, perhaps the cost of an incall, and is frustrated.

The hobbyist has more opportunity to arrange a replacemet that the options available to the provider.

BTW, the term "flake" has a definite definition on RB. It is NOT when the provider changes her mind and tells you she doesn't want to see you or calls at the last minute and canceled.

Flake means you had a confirmed appointment, you are there at the appointed time, but the provider is not picking up the phone call or show up to the outcall and you are left wondering WTF happened and at some time having no response from her you finally give up and move on.

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17. "RE: Flaky is a common character of all providers.For the same pro"
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>BTW, the term "flake" has a definite definition on RB. It is
>NOT when the provider changes her mind and tells you she
>doesn't want to see you or calls at the last minute and
>canceled.
>
>Flake means you had a confirmed appointment, you are there
>at the appointed time, but the provider is not picking up
>the phone call or show up to the outcall and you are left
>wondering WTF happened and at some time having no response
>from her you finally give up and move on.
>

Did you make it up?

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16. "Flaky is a common character of all johns too."
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   Well, most all johns. Or too many johns.

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