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alwayshorny54 click here to view user rating
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"What would you do?"
 
  
Made a 24hr advanced date with a provider last week. I arrived on time at her location, put the money on the dresser and undressed while she was going to the bathroom. After she came back, I was ready to go to action, but was told at that time that I could only expect a BJ or HJ, because her monthly visitor had just arrived. Of course I was very disappointed, particular that my donation called for FS and one hour of play. I will not repeat, but should I have asked for my money back?

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

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1. "RE: What would you do?"
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No. But you should write a negative review, and write her up in the neighborhood watch forum. It's a borderline ripoff.

No smart person EVER causes drama with a provider. The downside far outweighs the upside.

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2. "RE: What would you do?"
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   I would say that's a rip-off, period... not borderline at all. But I agree that there's no point in creating drama...

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18. "RE: What would you do?"
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I agree it's a rip-off, in particular it's know as bait and switch. I would have never gone through with it, kept my money, and left. That's what I've done in the past. In the times when she "didn't know" until I pulled the bloody condom out to switch positions, I stopped and demanded a particial refund. Guys, please please please have some backbone and stick up for yourself and don't get ripped off. It just encourages providers with this unprofessional behavior (working, i.e. providing FS, when on their period) if they can get away with it.


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3. "RE: What would you do?"
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   I think you had every right too say that you had expected full service and did not wish too continue with her limited menu and
that you would reschedule when she was providing full service
appointments.
If an RA wants too offer limited service during her period she will
usually advertise reduced rate specials.
She took advantage of you and you went away feeling that you were
duped. Sorry this happened, she should have explained herself when
you first arrived.

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4. "RE: What would you do?"
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   What are the odds?? But 2 reasonable adults should have been able to come to an agreement of a reduced donationfor reduced services, or if you didn't want that , then maybe give her $20 or $40 nuisance fee and say, "Them's the breaks..."

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5. "Well, what's the end of the story?"
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So you whine about your disappointment since you had a donation ready for an hour of FS, but the get-together was downgraded to BJ or HJ. But is that the end? What the hell did you do?

If you diplomatically described your disappointment to her and the lady offerred to proceed with a reduced price, then that's not such a bad oputcome in the event you would enjoy a good BJ. Hell, it might have been the blow job of a lifetime and well worth your time. But, based on your one-sided description, who knows?

Or did the lady offer to reschedule and maybe give you a price break in consideration of your inconvenience? Again, that would have been a reasonable response on her part.

If you've been around women long enough, then you should have the acumen to know that the onset of her period can sometimes be rapid and unexpected. You, in fact, said that it 'had just arrived'. But hell, then what happened?

All you've done is formulate a post to vilify the escort, like most guys on this forum, but you don't finish the story and just write this stupid thing up to make it look like an insurmountable problem of some sort. How pathetic.

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6. "RE: Well, what's the end of the story?"
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   Not as pathetic as writing half a novel to ridicule the guy! It seems he just wants to react in an appropriate manner and he wants advice. He didn't name her, therefore she's not vilified.

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7. "RE: Well, what's the end of the story?"
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   Her ass ain't on the rag.

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10. "RE: Well, what's the end of the story?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 29-Mar-10 AT 07:46 PM (PST)
 
thank you for your kind words. I truly appreciate all the advice. I just somewhat disappointed (about myself) that I did go ahead.
Unfortunately, she was a 'non-pro' I have connected to on CL. Will use RB only and check reviews in the future. (no offense CL-I did have some nice times through you in the past)!

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

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15. "RE: Well, what's the end of the story?"
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   > I just somewhat disappointed (about myself) that I
>did go ahead....
>Unfortunately, she was a 'non-pro' ...

yea. 2 newbies meet in a hotel and

after a few years of this, you'll perfect your approach. at my level, i would have required and expected a full fuck session so either she would take a half hour of anal pounding or i would take the money and go back to the phones.

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8. "RE: What would you do?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 29-Mar-10 AT 05:28 PM (PST)
 
She should have told you, but since she didn't I would have negotiated a rate for the BJ if I was still interested. If you don't ask and speak up, you are certainly ripe for the picking!

I'm sorry to say that you really have only yourself to blame by being quiet about this. Easy way for her to get away with limited service for a premium price. She might not have been on the rag in the first place.

Hopefully this wasn't a big ticket Hooker but the more common 80 hhr or 15/40 tarts that seem to have flooded the market and not a terribly costly mishap.

Write a review.

Extremely rare that I pay in advance, maybe you should do the same?

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13. "RE: What would you do?"
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   Providers should always ask for the donation up front for new clients. If she doesn't, she is taking a chance she might get ripped off after she has provided service, whatever that might be. After she gets to know you, when you give the donation won't be an issue because you would have built some trust with her. But before that happens, you should expect to pay up front or insist on it.

Lets use the restaurant analogy (again). Suppose you are a waiter at a fancy restaurant. You've been taking care of this table for over an hour. Everything seems to be going well. The guests are a little demanding (sometimes condescending) but you are doing your best to accommodate them. They are a party of 7 people. The tip is not guaranteed since the restaurant policy is 8 or more. And the bill is north of $300 (several bottles of wine, appetizers and desert). SO HOW DO YOU FEEL? Are they going to leave me a nice tip? 15% would be $45 (good). 20% would be $60 (great). 10% would be $30 (eh, just OK). Or are they going to walk and stiff me (a**holes)? Think about that feeling and you'll understand what it would feel like to put your whole body (literally) into your work and worry if you are going to be paid.

When she downgraded your session, instead of leaving it up to you to renegotiate, she should have offered a discount ... "since we only have time for a HJ, I'll only ask for $80".

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19. "RE: What would you do?"
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   yes youare right about paying up front. Only the dumb craigs list young girls ask for money after wards. And they get ripped off.If you went to a store and took a product and asked to try it out firs before you paid for it do you think thThen come back and pay me later. Get real guy. Only the dumb chicks put out before getting paid!

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20. "RE: What would you do?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 31-Mar-10 AT 08:07 AM (PST)
 
What advice do you have for the OP? What, if anything would you have done?

If we are going to use the restaurant analogy... Thousands of people dine out every day. They might receive poor/slow service, less than stellar quality food (which will be reflected in the tip) but ... They still pay the BILL after dining and don't run out.

The exception to all this would be if you order the Big Ponderosa 16oz Porterhouse Steak for lunch and get a tuna fish sandwich instead You wouldn't pay for the steak when presented with the bill since there was a substantial change in what you ordered.

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9. "RE: What would you do?"
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   yes you should have asked for your money back.

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11. "RE: What would you do?"
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You should of insisted on anal and if it was a no go, get your $ back.

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12. "RE: What would you do?"
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   At the time you had the right to leave as soon as you knew the agreement had changed(no full service), at that point she or you could have renegotiated a new agreement. When you stayed you accepted the change in services as she described them to you. Now I'm confused as to what the problem is, she let you know what the deal became up front and honestly, I think she did the right thing in telling you that the menu had changed. It's good of you to vent so that next time you might handle the situation differently.

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14. "RE: What would you do?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 30-Mar-10 AT 09:41 AM (PST)
 
I too don't understand the OP. He sets up an appointment with a Craigslist girl, 24 hours in advance. But between then and the point where he is buck naked at her place waiting for her to come out of the bathroom, she doesn't tell him about the change of plans?

C'mon man, she's just trying to get out of having full sex. The monthly visitor bit is no excuse to avoid penetration. But she still wants to take all the money for reduced service. I don't think a bad review will serve you since she is a CL girl. But you should learn a lesson. Don't always do everything she wants. Many bros say give half up front, the other half after the deed. If a girl says she is not worried about not getting paid, return with a response saying that you are equally worried about not getting full service. Keep communication open is what I'm saying to you. When you assume too much and just go through the motions when seeing a provider, things you don't expect can happen. You have to be a step ahead of those things.

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16. "RE: What would you do?"
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   Ofcourse you ask for your money back if the services you paid for were not avaialble..Are you NUTS!

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17. "RE: What would you do?"
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   There are some provider on here that would expect you to donate additional for inconvenicing her that time of month...

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21. "RE: What would you do?"
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This sort of happened to me about 10 years ago. I had a date with doubles and one showed up with aunt flow.

Went to the adult store and got her a stropon so she could fuck her friend with me. It was very cool and became another kink to visit from time to time.

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22. "RE: What would you do?"
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   If she had already taken your money, yes request it back. If it's sitting there on the dresser take it back and excuse yourself.

"Not creating drama" or whatever the excuse is for not having a spine is exactly what this bait & switch is counting on. Also, negotiating with someone who has already lied to you is foolish.


.:. quality not quantity .:.

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23. "RE: What would you do?"
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I would just like to comment on Ruralaxis comments: He makes the comment about 2 reasonable adults coming to an agreement well in my opinion there was one reasonable adult present and that was the man. i dont want to generalize here but most women have a sense of entitlement especially if it has anything to do with there kitty. They seem to lack the rational gene...not all there are exceptions.
The hobbyist in this case should have taken his money back and rescheduled when she could accommidate his desires

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24. "RE: What would you do?"
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Contrary to what most lap dogs say about this. I'd say grow some balls, tell her "WTF didn't you say this earlier?" And tell her that you think/expect that she should lower her fee for you. If she doesn't don't threaten, just post what happened and anybody with an IQ above an Ice Cube will probably stay away from the B&S.

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25. "RE: What would you do?"
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   This just happened to me recently. It was a first time visit and I didn't appreciate what happened so I ended up getting Greek.

If she hadn't agreed to the back door, I would have asked for oral but at a much reduced rate. If not, see ya and won't be seeing ya!

Just a thought for the mongers. These women aren't doing this because they want to be your friend. Even the ugliest girl can get laid. She doesn't have to pay, ever. It's all about the Benjamins!

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!

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