"[catlover is]...honest, and an asset to RB."
-ferdinand

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

yea. 2 newbies meet in a hotel and

after a few years of this, you'll perfect your approach. at my level, i would have required and expected a full fuck session so either she would take a half hour of anal pounding or i would take the money and go back to the phones.

Lets use the restaurant analogy (again). Suppose you are a waiter at a fancy restaurant. You've been taking care of this table for over an hour. Everything seems to be going well. The guests are a little demanding (sometimes condescending) but you are doing your best to accommodate them. They are a party of 7 people. The tip is not guaranteed since the restaurant policy is 8 or more. And the bill is north of $300 (several bottles of wine, appetizers and desert). SO HOW DO YOU FEEL? Are they going to leave me a nice tip? 15% would be $45 (good). 20% would be $60 (great). 10% would be $30 (eh, just OK). Or are they going to walk and stiff me (a**holes)? Think about that feeling and you'll understand what it would feel like to put your whole body (literally) into your work and worry if you are going to be paid.

When she downgraded your session, instead of leaving it up to you to renegotiate, she should have offered a discount ... "since we only have time for a HJ, I'll only ask for $80".

If we are going to use the restaurant analogy... Thousands of people dine out every day. They might receive poor/slow service, less than stellar quality food (which will be reflected in the tip) but ... They still pay the BILL after dining and don't run out.

The exception to all this would be if you order the Big Ponderosa 16oz Porterhouse Steak for lunch and get a tuna fish sandwich instead You wouldn't pay for the steak when presented with the bill since there was a substantial change in what you ordered.

C'mon man, she's just trying to get out of having full sex. The monthly visitor bit is no excuse to avoid penetration. But she still wants to take all the money for reduced service. I don't think a bad review will serve you since she is a CL girl. But you should learn a lesson. Don't always do everything she wants. Many bros say give half up front, the other half after the deed. If a girl says she is not worried about not getting paid, return with a response saying that you are equally worried about not getting full service. Keep communication open is what I'm saying to you. When you assume too much and just go through the motions when seeing a provider, things you don't expect can happen. You have to be a step ahead of those things.

If she hadn't agreed to the back door, I would have asked for oral but at a much reduced rate. If not, see ya and won't be seeing ya!

Just a thought for the mongers. These women aren't doing this because they want to be your friend. Even the ugliest girl can get laid. She doesn't have to pay, ever. It's all about the Benjamins!

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!