RedBook
EscortsPremier Adult Entertainment Community HOME | ADS | FORUM myredbok
Subject: "do providers keep email correspondence?" Archived thread - Read only
    Previous Topic | Next Topic
printerPrinter Friendly view     picviewPic view    
Conferences > Northern California > General > Topic #43756
Reading Topic #43756

indiax click here to view user rating
Charter Member
328 posts, 1 feedbacks, 2 points		 06-Apr-10, 05:49 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to indiax Click to add this user to your buddy list  
"do providers keep email correspondence?"
 
   so, if my SO found an email to a provider, and she emailed the provider asking if i saw the provider, do you think the provider would respond and say 'yes'? do providers keep the back and forth emails regarding setting up appointments?

??

  Alert Top

 
Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic

General_Colon_Bowel click here to view user rating
Member since 30-Mar-07
168 posts, 1 feedbacks, 2 points		 06-Apr-10, 08:09 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to General_Colon_Bowel Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
1. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
   The problem is you don't know what information a provider keeps.
That should always be a concern.

  Alert Top

bone69 click here to view user rating
Member since 17-Nov-06
2132 posts, 26 feedbacks, 49 points		 06-Apr-10, 08:51 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to bone69 Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
2. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
   Some probably do keep email correspondence. At least for a little while. They probably purge old emails every couple of days or they may keep longer for history. Who knows for sure.

Whether you may get in trouble if your SO found an email to a provider (in the sent folder) and sent them an email depends. Depends what she says in the email and whose email address she used to send the inquiry. If they thought it was from you, they may respond. If they thought it was you asking, they may respond. If the wording seemed suspicious and sounded like someone was "fishing", they may figure it out (could be your SO or LE) and not respond.

If you are communicating with providers by email, you should purge all hobby related correspondence from your INBOX and your SENT folder. Don't forget to purge history from your hobby phone. SOs can be determined detectives when suspicious of outside activity. You need to purge any traces of info that may get you into trouble.

  Alert Top

peaceful
Member since 12-Sep-03
184 posts, Rate this user		 06-Apr-10, 10:06 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to peaceful Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
5. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #2
 
In addition to Bone69's advice about purging, I would add that you should also clear out the trash. That's a guy's job anyway, right?

  Alert Top

JimiChanga click here to view user rating
Member since 27-Jan-05
1895 posts, 18 feedbacks, 26 points		 06-Apr-10, 09:00 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to JimiChanga Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
3. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
   Yes she would and you would need a diviorce lawyer after.

Question - if my wife found my hobby phone and started calling all the whores in the address book would I be in trouble?

  Alert Top

culo
Member since 18-Oct-08
427 posts		 06-Apr-10, 09:07 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to culo Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
4. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #3
 
   >Yes she would and you would need a diviorce lawyer after.
>
>Question - if my wife found my hobby phone and started
>calling all the whores in the address book would I be in
>trouble?

Calling Tiger Woods!

Tigers situatons should be a wake up call for all mongers. If you are going to leave a trail, make sure it leads to a pre-paid phone that does not have your name associated with it. If you email, set up an anonymous email on the net, and never download messages, nor store your password on your machine.

If your wife finds your hobby phone, you are fucked.


culo is a culo

  Alert Top

never2late
Member since 6-Jan-07
106 posts, Rate this user		 07-Apr-10, 08:10 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to never2late Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
10. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #4
 
>If your wife finds your hobby phone, you are fucked.

Not so fast... You should always have an excuse ready ahead of time. In this case it might be "oh, I found that in the parking lot after work Friday and was going to turn it in to the receptionist (or lost & found or whoever) but they had already gone home for the day." If she has other evidence against you then you may still be up a creek but if all she has is a phone with a bunch of phone numbers then your story could be viable.

If you have a hobby phone that has a locking feature, use it.

I agree with the other monger that suggested using an online email service like ymail or gmail, or simply use RB inbox. NEVER use your regular, personal email account.

N2L

  Alert Top

Masterdick1 click here to view user rating
Member since 30-Mar-07
603 posts, 18 feedbacks, 36 points		 06-Apr-10, 10:25 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to Masterdick1 Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
6. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
   YOU NEED TOO ALERT THIS PROVIDER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR MAY
HAVE A SECURITY BREACH AND NOT TO RESPOND TO ANY E-MAIL CONCERNING
YOU. SET UP A CODE WORD OR TALK OVER A HOBBY PHONE FOR NOW.

  Alert Top

MongerAlmighty click here to view user rating
Member since 22-Aug-07
1910 posts, 21 feedbacks, 30 points		 06-Apr-10, 11:40 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to MongerAlmighty Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
7. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
   Dude, Please tell me you aren't dumb enough to send and receive emails to providers from an account that your SO has access to. With places like hotmail, yahoo and gmail, why wouldn't you have an account set up that's private?

  Alert Top

RickVanWolford click here to view user rating
Member since 1-Oct-02
316 posts, 8 feedbacks, 10 points		 06-Apr-10, 12:15 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to RickVanWolford Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
8. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 

To your question - " if my SO found an email to a provider, and she emailed the provider asking if i saw the provider, do you think the provider would respond and say 'yes'? "

Most escorts would just ignore it. What benefit do they get from responding? Basically, none. By responding they lose a client, lose business, waste their time, lose revenue, blah blah blah. Most girls would just move on.

Stick with legitimate, well reviewed escorts - they have no interest in your wife or domestic problems, as they're busy with their own business.

  Alert Top

oralio click here to view user rating
Member since 1-Dec-03
34765 posts, 120 feedbacks, 203 points		 06-Apr-10, 10:32 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to oralio Click to view user profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
9. "RE: do providers keep email correspondence?"
In response to message #0
 
YES.

Some make their own logs of appts and info you've told them about you.

I'd be surprised if many admitted it, though.

If you hobby actively with a large variety of girls, treat those relships like having affairs.

They could backfire on you any day.

Be the change
you wish to see

  Alert Top

Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic
   reviews | join vip | metasearch | terms of use | privacy top | help | faq    ©2010 myRedBook S.A.